posted September 22, 2020 09:32 AM            

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Originally posted by Clementine:
Hi,

I need help, I have suffering because of this person. He happens to share exactly the same birth day as me. We never had anything and we lost contact but still I ache because of him and the pain has worsened every day. Can a kind heart read our synastry and give me some insights, I firmly believe it is a past life unresolved relationship as his Venus and Jupiter conjunct mine Venus and Jupiter in my 12th house. Both dates of birthday is 25/03/1988 and times will be mine at 11 am Penapolis SP Brazil and his 5 am London United Kingdom. Thank you in advance.

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posted September 23, 2020 11:56 PM            

they will likely move this to the Interpersonal Astrology, by the way I have looked at the Composite chart.

You have a great compatibility and chemistry with this person because Juno is conjunct Jupiter and sextile Moon, and Venus is trine/sextile the Nodes and trine Mars, so there's a very strong attraction but also a strong karmic link cause Chiron is square to the Nodes and Sun is in 12th house... this gives the feeling of a very deep intimacy, and you also have a Grand Kite involving Moon/Pluto/Mercury/Neptune, this could even give you a soulmate feeling at intimate level... Also, the Juno/Jupiter midpoint is trine to Lilith and sextile Chiron, this can give deep "true love" feelings from your part...

There are two issues though in the Composite, Sun in 12th house is a very karmic placement but it usually points to unsolved business... moreover, The Sun/North Node midpoint in 12th house is trine to Vertex, this is an energy that can give overwhelming feelings of having found "the one" but which might not be realistic, i.e. it might be very difficult to form a relationship.

The second concerning aspect is Composite Mars/Saturn midpoint conjunct Neptune opposite Moon and Neptune/Saturn midpoint square to Sun... this would suggest that the man is not committing.

Chiron square to North Node in 12th house is also a painful aspect, this could be a past life relationship you could not let go but which you need to...

Right these days transiting North Node is conjunct to Composite Chiron and square Composite Nodes, so I believe you're especially feeling the pain at this moment... but transiting North Node to Chiron and square the Nodes is usually a healing transit. So I believe that you will move on unless a resolution or a new connection will come soon... especially as soon as transiting Saturn going direct will go to square the Juno/Jupiter conjunction.

Sorry for not being able to give you a more positive insight.

posted September 25, 2020 04:37 PM            

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Originally posted by Stoika7:
Hi Clementine,

they will likely move this to the Interpersonal Astrology, by the way I have looked at the Composite chart.

You have a great compatibility and chemistry with this person because Juno is conjunct Jupiter and sextile Moon, and Venus is trine/sextile the Nodes and trine Mars, so there's a very strong attraction but also a strong karmic link cause Chiron is square to the Nodes and Sun is in 12th house... this gives the feeling of a very deep intimacy, and you also have a Grand Kite involving Moon/Pluto/Mercury/Neptune, this could even give you a soulmate feeling at intimate level... Also, the Juno/Jupiter midpoint is trine to Lilith and sextile Chiron, this can give deep "true love" feelings from your part...

There are two issues though in the Composite, Sun in 12th house is a very karmic placement but it usually points to unsolved business... moreover, The Sun/North Node midpoint in 12th house is trine to Vertex, this is an energy that can give overwhelming feelings of having found "the one" but which might not be realistic, i.e. it might be very difficult to form a relationship.

The second concerning aspect is Composite Mars/Saturn midpoint conjunct Neptune opposite Moon and Neptune/Saturn midpoint square to Sun... this would suggest that the man is not committing.

Chiron square to North Node in 12th house is also a painful aspect, this could be a past life relationship you could not let go but which you need to...

Right these days transiting North Node is conjunct to Composite Chiron and square Composite Nodes, so I believe you're especially feeling the pain at this moment... but transiting North Node to Chiron and square the Nodes is usually a healing transit. So I believe that you will move on unless a resolution or a new connection will come soon... especially as soon as transiting Saturn going direct will go to square the Juno/Jupiter conjunction.

Sorry for not being able to give you a more positive insight.

❤️

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Thank you so much for your reading, you can’t imagine how much relief you brought to my heart. I have never felt like this for anyone in my 32 years of life. We worked together and I always thought that I new him intimately, I would known what he was thinking, how he would act on something. I knew and so did he our connection was too deep. I am pretty sure I had previous lifetimes dream with him, it seems that it was more than one. I was wondering, when you’ve said about a new connection? That would be from him? And about our compatibility and chemistry, that would be felt only by me or would it be felt by him too? I am trying to understand the dynamic of the relationship. Again thank you so much for your generosity, God bless you. ❤️

posted September 25, 2020 09:53 PM            

Looking at your synastry... since you're born the same day, you have basically the same natal chart, 'cept for houses and angles... this means that you are very familiar to each other at first sight like twins! But with the different houses, there could be different stories, attitudes and feelings... looking at his natal, I see that he has Chiron in his 4th house of his family history, and his Moon in 4th house is square Sun and opposite Saturn... this suggests me that he could have a wound from his past family background or childhood, and this could have to do especiallly with his father (Saturn/10th house)... with Chiron also there, and Uranus/Saturn square his Sun in 1st house, he might actually have an unconscious need to detach from anything too familiar to him, which is actually how he might perceive you... His Saturn is also opposite your Moon, and square your Sun... you're like a mirror to himself and your Chiron conjunct Chiron opposite his MC might again trigger some of his unconscious past wounds....
even though, he certainly feels your connection strongly, my feeling is that he might want to escape this...
In fact with Composite Mars/Saturn midpoint conjunct Neptune opposite Moon there is escapism from his part and Composite Lilith square Vertex would suggest that there are unconscious fears.

Transiting north node is now exactly on Composite Chiron square the nodes, Mars retrograde will go back towards composite ASC and Jupiter going direct towards comp. Mars and then MC, a new connection from him is a possibility, whether this would be possible in a close future (next days/weeks)... but keep in mind that the nodal transit on Chiron would suggest a karmic resolution/healing, so this could also suggest a definitive letting go...
You're also having it in your natal chart (transiting north node on your Chiron in 1st house of your individual path) with transiting South node going through your 7th house, and Chiron in Aries just past your Sun, so it would look like a healing through letting go what is no longer serving you, since the nodal transit is also square to your North Node/Pisces in 10th house, this is a period in your life where you need to focus on establishing your own life direction or fixing what is no longer working and start/establish a new path and awareness.

posted September 26, 2020 08:46 AM            

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Originally posted by Stoika7:
You're so welcome darling, I understand how you feel since I have experienced a similar intense yet impossible connection myself!

Looking at your synastry... since you're born the same day, you have basically the same natal chart, 'cept for houses and angles... this means that you are very familiar to each other at first sight like twins! But with the different houses, there could be different stories, attitudes and feelings... looking at his natal, I see that he has Chiron in his 4th house of his family history, and his Moon in 4th house is square Sun and opposite Saturn... this suggests me that he could have a wound from his past family background or childhood, and this could have to do especiallly with his father (Saturn/10th house)... with Chiron also there, and Uranus/Saturn square his Sun in 1st house, he might actually have an unconscious need to detach from anything too familiar to him, which is actually how he might perceive you... His Saturn is also opposite your Moon, and square your Sun... you're like a mirror to himself and your Chiron conjunct Chiron opposite his MC might again trigger some of his unconscious past wounds....
even though, he certainly feels your connection strongly, my feeling is that he might want to escape this...
In fact with Composite Mars/Saturn midpoint conjunct Neptune opposite Moon there is escapism from his part and Composite Lilith square Vertex would suggest that there are unconscious fears.

Transiting north node is now exactly on Composite Chiron square the nodes, Mars retrograde will go back towards composite ASC and Jupiter going direct towards comp. Mars and then MC, a new connection from him is a possibility, whether this would be possible in a close future (next days/weeks)... but keep in mind that the nodal transit on Chiron would suggest a karmic resolution/healing, so this could also suggest a definitive letting go...
You're also having it in your natal chart (transiting north node on your Chiron in 1st house of your individual path) with transiting South node going through your 7th house, and Chiron in Aries just past your Sun, so it would look like a healing through letting go what is no longer serving you, since the nodal transit is also square to your North Node/Pisces in 10th house, this is a period in your life where you need to focus on establishing your own life direction or fixing what is no longer working and start/establish a new path and awareness.

Edit: sorry I forgot your last question. Yes, I think he feels the connection too and you're dear to him. But for some reason, maybe at unconscious level as I said, he seems to want to avoid emotional involvement/committment.

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posted September 26, 2020 08:54 AM            

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Originally posted by Stoika7:
You're so welcome darling, I understand how you feel since I have experienced a similar intense yet impossible connection myself!

Looking at your synastry... since you're born the same day, you have basically the same natal chart, 'cept for houses and angles... this means that you are very familiar to each other at first sight like twins! But with the different houses, there could be different stories, attitudes and feelings... looking at his natal, I see that he has Chiron in his 4th house of his family history, and his Moon in 4th house is square Sun and opposite Saturn... this suggests me that he could have a wound from his past family background or childhood, and this could have to do especiallly with his father (Saturn/10th house)... with Chiron also there, and Uranus/Saturn square his Sun in 1st house, he might actually have an unconscious need to detach from anything too familiar to him, which is actually how he might perceive you... His Saturn is also opposite your Moon, and square your Sun... you're like a mirror to himself and your Chiron conjunct Chiron opposite his MC might again trigger some of his unconscious past wounds....
even though, he certainly feels your connection strongly, my feeling is that he might want to escape this...
In fact with Composite Mars/Saturn midpoint conjunct Neptune opposite Moon there is escapism from his part and Composite Lilith square Vertex would suggest that there are unconscious fears.

Transiting north node is now exactly on Composite Chiron square the nodes, Mars retrograde will go back towards composite ASC and Jupiter going direct towards comp. Mars and then MC, a new connection from him is a possibility, whether this would be possible in a close future (next days/weeks)... but keep in mind that the nodal transit on Chiron would suggest a karmic resolution/healing, so this could also suggest a definitive letting go...
You're also having it in your natal chart (transiting north node on your Chiron in 1st house of your individual path) with transiting South node going through your 7th house, and Chiron in Aries just past your Sun, so it would look like a healing through letting go what is no longer serving you, since the nodal transit is also square to your North Node/Pisces in 10th house, this is a period in your life where you need to focus on establishing your own life direction or fixing what is no longer working and start/establish a new path and awareness.

Edit: sorry I forgot your last question. Yes, I think he feels the connection too and you're dear to him. But for some reason, maybe at unconscious level as I said, he seems to want to avoid emotional involvement/committment.

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Hi,

Thank you once again! I think you nailed it again because that was what I thought he felt as I slightly felt that way too. But as you quite rightly said, we have different approaches to this... and I certainly was always proud to who he is but he thought I was probably a ‘loser’ and that’s why he tried to avoid me. I am indeed trying to give my life a direction and indeed... I believe that I came to the conclusion it would never work out, and I am sure the pain will go away with time... And I will definitely move on ❤️

posted September 28, 2020 11:42 AM            

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Originally posted by Stoika7:
Hey darling... a loser?! Why would he think such a silly thing about you?
Actually... he has Saturn in his 10th house square to his (and your) Sun, while your Sun is in your 10th house, this gives me the feeling that you are much more self-assertive than he is, even though you have Chiron in 1st house, which is all the opposite of "loser", cause it's a "fighter" aspect in finding healing by establishing your true self!
But his Chiron conjunct your Chiron in 1st house and his Saturn opposite your moon can clearly trigger such insecurity of yours... the fact is that, from his part, this would be a "mirror" dynamic, i.e. with his Saturn in 10th house square Sun in his first house he looks like the one to have self-worth issue, and your Chiron conjunct his Chiron opposite his MC seems to actually remind him his own issue about stability and direction in life, not yours :-)

❤️

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I just wanted to let you know he contacted me back and yes... I said things I shouldn’t and he said to never contacted him again but in a nice way. I think this is the resolution. Again thank you so much for your reading. ❤️

posted September 30, 2020 06:58 AM            

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Originally posted by Stoika7:
Hi Clementine... thank you for the update, I'm sorry... let me know how you are doing ❤️

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I don’t know what I feel, it is just really painful but in a way I cannot describe... something really deep. I think that it is hard for me to let go but due to my Venus be in Taurus in the 12th house... it is what I need to work on. I just wanted to know why did I have to meet him again in this life if that is a impossible relationship? And... I know it is a lesson I must learn so I can evolve. What really bothers me is that if we have unresolved things from the past why can we not resolve in this life? Will it still unresolved? I know you don’t have all the answers, and I am sorry to keep asking you things, you don’t have to answer all the time if you don’t feel like it. I am so lost and confuse it is making me question my whole life.

posted October 02, 2020 06:38 AM            

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Originally posted by Stoika7:
Hi dear, sorry for my delay... I wish I could answer your questions but I have the same questions myself about someone I love but who is unavailable...

I would suggest you to post your synastry, composite chart and davidson relationship chart, to the Interpersonal forum and ask these same questions to Graham who is more into karmic reading, and I would suggest also to ask for Todd's reading... you can call them both in your post title... hope it helps and that you can move on soon ❤️

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Thank you, I have just created a new topic to the Interpersonal chart. I don’t know how I post the birth charts but I left both birthday details. Hopefully I will have some insights. I am very grateful for all your help, God bless you ❤️