posted October 11, 2020 04:52 AM            

Sorry I've just seen your topic now because I've got very chaotic days.

posted October 11, 2020 06:43 AM            

I don't know if you were together in the past anyway J. has felt the need to communicate with you to rekindle the emotional/mental connection; it probably gives him (or you both) a lot of joy. Is he communicating in a way that is light-hearted at the moment (the Sun)? I don't know if you were a couple in the past or were involved physically, he may have thought a lot of you in the past but also appeared somewhat "distant"? The Ace of pentacles + 4 of cups at the bottom of the deck indicate that the underlying intention may be to start from scratch with you, or having a new opportunity to make up for a past disappointment/rejection/stalemate? It may also be that there was a beginning between you but it was not taken further and there has been a separation period or emotional disconnection previously between you.
Clarifier about his intentions: Knight of cups+ 8 of wands. He's definitely coming with an (emotional or romantic) offer; has he invited you out? If he has not manifested it yet, it may be the underlying intention. From there it's up to you to decide if you want to take it.

Let me know if it resonates

My question:
I would like to receive some advice about how to behave in the new workplace, what is the advice for me regarding this new situation.

posted October 11, 2020 08:32 AM            

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Originally posted by Chaitaly:
I got:
Ace of swords-2 of cups-The Sun

I don't know if you were together in the past anyway J. has felt the need to communicate with you to rekindle the emotional/mental connection; it probably gives him (or you both) a lot of joy. Is he communicating in a way that is light-hearted at the moment (the Sun)? I don't know if you were a couple in the past or were involved physically, he may have thought a lot of you in the past but also appeared somewhat "distant"? The Ace of pentacles + 4 of cups at the bottom of the deck indicate that the underlying intention may be to start from scratch with you, or having a new opportunity to make up for a past disappointment/rejection/stalemate? It may also be that there was a beginning between you but it was not taken further and there has been a separation period or emotional disconnection previously between you.
Clarifier about his intentions: Knight of cups+ 8 of wands. He's definitely coming with an (emotional or romantic) offer; has he invited you out? If he has not manifested it yet, it may be the underlying intention. From there it's up to you to decide if you want to take it.

Let me know if it resonates

My question:
I would like to receive some advice about how to behave in the new workplace, what is the advice for me regarding this new situation.

Thank youu :>:>

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Hi Chaitaly! Thank you so much for the reading! You did really hit the nail on this one. We started off romantic/ lighthearted but then he kind of ghosted me and popped back up later. I never communicated my feelings of what I wanted although I’m not even sure what I wanted and not great at communication in general. When he tried talking to me again I became distant and more closed off because I feel I was being used in some way -maybe sexually. I was never sure if he actually had feelings for me and was scared initially or also didn’t know how to communicate it. Maybe I was even putting off “distant” vibes in the beginning (and he ghosted to not get rejected first), but was a bit hurt and not sure if I want to go down that road again.

posted October 11, 2020 09:09 AM            

Thank youu :>:>[/B][/QUOTE]

I pulled:

Judgment, Queen of pentacles, 6 of swords
(Clarified by 4 of swords reversed)

Is this job either a higher position than last job or a different type of position? It seems like you are finally feeling more accomplished or it is like “a breath of fresh air”. With the queen of pentacles you either have a family you need to take care of and is suggesting balance between the 2 or possibly just need to balance between working hard and having “me” time. You need to be aware of your own needs and prioritize them. It is asking to be compassionate, calm, and practical something I think comes natural to you anyways. This job is definitely a transition both physical job change but emotional too maybe there is some baggage you need to leave behind or heal from in a past work environment. Let go of whatever is holding you back and leave the past behind because I feel this job is leading you to a good future and is a really good opportunity. Four of swords reversed clarifies this emotional baggage you may be holding on to from the past you might feel a bit exhaustion from. But look at this as a new start with great potential and opportunity!

posted October 11, 2020 11:36 AM            

Yes this job is "new" in the sense that it is always about teaching in a school (I'm a teacher), but with some different tasks too; the distance learning during the lockdown period was hard because I was doing smart working non-stop. This job may be challenging long-term since the school is quite far from home, but at the same time I've got far less workload.
I really hope it will be good because it's not what I was expecting to get this year. Possibly as you said I will leave behind the stress of last spring. Thank youu :>

Well yes Knight of cups and 8 wands gives me the "sexual offer" vibe, for this reason I said it's up to you whether to accept or decline what comes from him; it's interesting that you say you were the cold or distant one because with Ace of swords I thought it was about him, but probably I picked also your "feelings" in this sense and not just him initiating communication.
Very interesting :>

posted October 11, 2020 12:46 PM            

I can continue to exchange!

My next q is should I leave J in the past or be open to interaction even if it is just a “casual” hookup?

posted October 12, 2020 01:39 PM            

You have to think about what would motivate you to accept an invitation; also there's the possibility to learn from past mistakes and from what went wrong, so you can avoid to repeat them. Whether you should accept the hookup is Death, it is a sort of bold statement being a major so maybe you shouldn't fear the involvement either; but for me Death is mostly an ending so you know already the past with this person and you may remain open to something new -a new cycle in your romantic life; anyway with 3 of wands as final advice I would say wait for future developments so that you'll be able to make a more conscious decision once you have more facts, then you'll know what to do. Basically you've still to wait for a while before being sure of how to move forward.

Hope it helps :>

My q:
Does D. even like me a bit (there's potential for something) or it's just work for him?

Thanks

posted October 12, 2020 04:08 PM            

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Originally posted by Chaitaly:
Page of pentacles reversed-Death-3 of wands

You have to think about what would motivate you to accept an invitation; also there's the possibility to learn from past mistakes and from what went wrong, so you can avoid to repeat them. Whether you should accept the hookup is Death, it is a sort of bold statement being a major so maybe you shouldn't fear the involvement either; but for me Death is mostly an ending so you know already the past with this person and you may remain open to something new -a new cycle in your romantic life; anyway with 3 of wands as final advice I would say wait for future developments so that you'll be able to make a more conscious decision once you have more facts, then you'll know what to do. Basically you've still to wait for a while before being sure of how to move forward.

Hope it helps :>

My q:
Does D. even like me a bit (there's potential for something) or it's just work for him?

Thanks

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Hi Chaitaly! Thank you very much for the reading and advice! I think I do need to wait to see what unfolds. Right now I am 50% 50% on whether I want to talk with him again but I think it is circumstantial and I should definitely wait to see. But will also be conscious to why I would want to start something again with him and maybe be more clear or communicative this time around.

For your question about D I pulled:

The Devil, four of swords reversed, seven of rods

(And clarified with 2 cards: two of pentacles, the high priestess reversed)

The devil card seems always pops up for me in “love” readings when there are sexual feelings involved or feelings someone shouldn’t have (I.e inappropriate situations - does he have a girlfriend?) So yes I do think he has a level of sexual feelings towards you. He might seem like he is withdrawing though because of some personal issue or contemplation. He might be doing some sort of internal work and feel it is not the right time for a relationship or putting energy into starting something new. Which could be due to stress in his life. With seven of rods he could be a little threatened even or this could feel like a challenge to him possibly in a good way like a conquest?

With 2 of pentacles and high priestess reversed to clarify again he could be managing multiple priorities (either work or possibly if he does have a GF?) and possibly hold a secret. I think yes he does have interest in you and sexually it seems but maybe the more romantic/sweet feelings have not quite developed yet.

Let me know if this resonates!

posted October 13, 2020 03:53 AM            

So my next question is:
Would it be positive to develop a friendship with this person (D.)? Is it even possible?

Your q:
Ten of pentacles-Chariot-Queen of cups

You ended a cycle there and decided to move on or change; there was a decision to be made but you were quite sure about it; I think everyone at the old workplace is going on as usual but that queen in final position can suggest a woman remembering the past, and if it's not you, than she could be a woman that worked with you there who's thinking of you, especially if you were closer to her.

Does it make sense? I get the feeling that at least one person in particular is thinking about you, and it may be a woman.

posted October 13, 2020 07:50 PM            

So my next question is:
Would it be positive to develop a friendship with this person (D.)? Is it even possible?

I pulled:
King of cups (reversed), Death, page of swords (reversed)

Clarified by: high priestess (reversed) again, and hanged man

Unfortunately it seems to be a bit negative reading and I am not getting the best feeling about it. With death it seems like this will more likely come to an end and page of swords reversed it’s almost like no action comes of what you two might think will happen. With King of cups reversed and high priestess reversed (again) I also think he has a darker side or secret. Could even be a bit manipulative but I am not sure. Do you know his birth chart? What are his dominant placements? I hope I am wrong and maybe these cards mean something else but if so with hanged man there will be letting go in the end which will be best.

I hope the best outcome for you and this situation! ❤️

If you are up for another Q:
When will be my next relationship and any descriptions of who it will be?

posted October 14, 2020 09:39 AM            

We were born 3 months apart so we share some placements. I don't have his exact TOB though so I don't know his asc-dsc axis for example. We both have Venus conj Pluto in Scorpio and our conjunctions are conjunct in my 1st house. I have done a lot of work and research on Pluto personally, also matured in how to handle the energy; I don't know how mature he is and how he handles the energy (his conjunction also is loosely opposite his Moon in Taurus). Then he has Neptune square Sun and Mercury; and Jupiter in Pisces (like me) falling in my 5th house. Composite stellium in scorpio conjunct Pluto... so yeah.... a lot of Scorpio and Pluto... but we're not kids, honestly at this point in life I can recognize the energy quite well and I don't like to play games.

He's attractive, charming, witty and i understand how his beauty and charm can be manipulative; he's also quite fun to be around but clearly I don't know him in depth. Certainly he knows he's romantically appealing -but I'm just "studying" him for now.

Sometimes I've got the HPriestess coming out for how he feels towards me; it's interesting btw that it keeps coming out in the readings.

Next q.
May I ask you to investigate the meaning of the card (HP reversed)? Like a sort of clarification. What does this card want to say?

posted October 14, 2020 09:56 AM            

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Originally posted by MMarie:
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If you are up for another Q:
When will be my next relationship and any descriptions of who it will be?

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Ok I pulled some cards but let me ask are you still thinking about an ex? (maybe the one we were talking about?). Cause at first something very strange happened, after having read many times with this deck for you and shuffling the deck again and again, the same cards of the 1st reading came out in the same order. Also I pulled as clarification 3 of cups-6 of cups. Are you remembering the joys of the past? Some happy time or period of your life? I pulled also 3 of coins and 5 of swords, but I don't see it much related to future relationships, but rather to a situation where you felt tricked and you had to accept the outcome.

posted October 14, 2020 12:06 PM            

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Originally posted by Chaitaly:

Ok I pulled some cards but let me ask are you still thinking about an ex? (maybe the one we were talking about?). Cause at first something very strange happened, after having read many times with this deck for you and shuffling the deck again and again, the same cards of the 1st reading came out in the same order. Also I pulled as clarification 3 of cups-6 of cups. Are you remembering the joys of the past? Some happy time or period of your life? I pulled also 3 of coins and 5 of swords, but I don't see it much related to future relationships, but rather to a situation where you felt tricked and you had to accept the outcome.

Let me know, in case I will do the reading in another moment and we'll see.

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Hi Chaitaly! I have been thinking about a lot of my past relationships actually. Not just one haha. Maybe because I am trying to see a common thread of what went wrong or why I attract certain people. I am thinking of the past quite a lot actually maybe to resolve some things in my head. About a situation where I have been tricked - maybe my last job. It was toxic and I was very resentful and angry about certain things but am trying to let go of what happened. Do you see me back with that same person? Is that why you picked the same cards? So strange btw it came out the exact same!!!

posted October 14, 2020 08:27 PM            

For you I pulled:

The empress, judgment, king of pentacles clarified by the chariot.

I was honestly kind of shocked when I pulled these because so many major cards and all upright just so strange! I’d assume with this many majors that if it’s regarding him and his feelings that they are “big” and deep feelings. But these cards don’t seem so romantic to me. With the king of pentacles it seems more about career or business mindset. It’s almost like with judgment there’s a decision to be made, with king of pentacles there’s a plan to get there and chariot is strength and courage to make the move. It is very possible this is his “plan” to pursue you and make his move but I’m a little cloudy with the king of pentacles. My gut feeling is this is about something else or a goal of his but then why would I pull it in regards to the 2 of you? I’m a bit confused about this haha sorry! But maybe it will resonate with you in some way?

Let me know if there is another Q you have!

posted October 16, 2020 10:55 AM            

If it's about his work, then I see the Empress+Judgement as physical workout and since it's his career (he's a trainer), it can be about the fact that training women to get back in shape is bringing him success now (King of pentacles, he owns the gym), and he's moving forward with his business (Chariot) with a feeling of accomplishment... (and in this case I'm one of the women he trains, so I'm "part" of his business).

BUT these are suggestions; I don't know what you asked exactly, was it about his "secret" situation (that may involve someone else) or about his feelings (for me)?

posted October 16, 2020 05:43 PM            

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Originally posted by Chaitaly:
The Empress for me is a lady, with Judgement and King of pentacles if he has a girlfriend then it's about the compromise with her (King of pentacles is all about stability in a rel. reading), I hope he didn't leave her pregnant and wants to take responsibility for it lol XD XD (Empress is fertility, paired with Judgement gives me a sexual undertone).

If it's about his work, then I see the Empress+Judgement as physical workout and since it's his career (he's a trainer), it can be about the fact that training women to get back in shape is bringing him success now (King of pentacles, he owns the gym), and he's moving forward with his business (Chariot) with a feeling of accomplishment... (and in this case I'm one of the women he trains, so I'm "part" of his business).

BUT these are suggestions; I don't know what you asked exactly, was it about his "secret" situation (that may involve someone else) or about his feelings (for me)?

I'll come back with your reading. :>

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Hi Chaitaly! Thank you for the suggestions and explanations! It definitely helps me as a beginner! I asked “what does the HP want to tell me or what is it trying to express in these readings?”...I kept saying those questions but also had “secret” in the back of my mind because that’s how I read it the first 2 times. I do have a feeling he is holding something back that was my gut with the first reading and I mix intuitive feelings along with what the cards say. Whether it is a “dark” secret or not I don’t know. But again intuitively I think it would be something you would not like to find out. I hope I am wrong though!

posted October 20, 2020 04:26 PM            

What were SC feelings for you:
5 of cups-5 of pentacles (5 of wands, Death reversed)-King of wands. Bottom of the deck: 4 of cups

There was a sort of dramatic situation with a lot of feelings of loss and regret; possibly some drama with conflict or jealousy or just heated arguments; or the conflict may have been internal? Probably it was a passionate involvement but for someone it was not enough or there was an unwillingness/impossibility to change; also with 4 of cups an opportunity was there but not seen or sized or someone felt rejected.

It's very late when I'm doing this hope it makes some sense. XD