posted December 26, 2020 11:35 PM            

In relation to the past bfs, you aquired some experience with them. To understand as you're wiser now and better understand now what it is that you need/want in the Other. This is a Soul Contract of the heart with F. He and you must have made PreArrival agrrements in these lessons. He isn't as easy to walk away as you might had thought. You struggle thinking often he is - yet there he is!

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posted December 27, 2020 12:17 AM            

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Originally posted by Saggy7:
Thank you. It is so, we were each other's teachers..I am much different now, it's a nice feeling to make some progress. Hopefully someday I'll make enough of it to be able to maintain a healthy rs with a man who wants it just the same

And thank you for staying positive about F even when I'm not lol

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You may even have moved the bar for them. They would not probably say so but you brought the standards higher, They may owe that to you!

re F, he just needs time, if he's going to get to meeting point with you, it is a Temperance energy you will need to practice with him. This is about love and possibly a forever love - so it is not worth giving up on it ..as a matter of fact, before we had all these tools (aside from India) most people met, fell in love and went with theiremotions. I fear as goos3as astrology+tarot are, they at times could undermine something fhat just took patience.

posted December 27, 2020 03:59 PM            

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Originally posted by Saggy7:
Love this you are absolutely right, a lot of people unfortunately don't want to put in the effort today..I never mind putting in work in a rs, but I do need to work on my patience sometimes...I tend to get impatient easily and want things to go exactly how I want them to at times (Scorpio Mars in the 1st)...nudge nudge Saggy...🙈

We shall see how it goes this time around now that we are in contact again..I just don't want to get hurt all over again...but whatever is meant to be....I can't escape it if that's in the cards for me this time around as well..can just embrace it and learn from it..so I'll try to do just that...

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Saggy,
If it gets to the point where you've felt bruised. Don't stick to it. You should create self boundaries - ones you refuse to cross. As well his boundaries. Ones you feel he needs to earn, if you are to create allowances. A few walls are ok, it's up yo you. Like Angies House .. you build in your terms how your architecture should be.

If he doesn't change his pov somewhat a bit at a time - he's resisting change to include you in his heart/world, investing in him might not be worth your heart. Yes, learning is important but being breadcrumbed shouldn't be pt of it.

Shut your phone off on him if you're not getting what you're giving. If he isn't matching you in energy - let him catch up.
You are WORTH his energy too. ♥️

posted December 28, 2020 08:35 PM            

I was reading your req to Stoika to look at 4 years in the prog .. you had a 4swords card in your SC reading .. maybe you could see if you merged these.

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~ "Does Saggy have a Soul Contract in her romantic world?"
- 4 of Swords -
Ordinarily No. for this card; however you might be told it is not your *Most important Soul Contract atm. In light of the other portion of your reading, it is possible Houses 6/10 are the focus first.
I took this as a Yes because this card has a date (today) the 22nd,
that it is connected to. As well your 9+C echo from your numbers on this card. This is just your next Contract. The other is first.
Adding a "C" and "9" with this card!

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I had 22nd (4) .. the swords were (4) and in this reading your houses 6/10 but we had two more clues (C) Cardinal sign? and 9 (sag?) .. Can Lunacariot and/or Stoika look for connecting details? I feel you might have had F as a stepping block to prove fo yourself in an agreement (SC) You are strong - Patience and worthy ALL you need/want and wish for in your happiness with another.

A thought here is 22 ÷2 is 11 (a very important number in mates) what in synastry would aspect with houses 11 to 11 in overlay?

posted December 28, 2020 10:35 PM            

Oic. I was thinking if you blended the details of that study, perchance something may be highlighted. 11/11 overlay might show in your upcoming synastry with a known -even an unknown yet guy. Cause I pulled the card 22 that was dated as a 22nd of sny month. Your reader (me) pulled it on that date. Which IS a Master number too. As is 11.