posted February 15, 2021 09:28 AM            

Originally posted by AQUACap88:
I like you too ❤️ Can I be honest with you? I told her to drop him the moment we first found out he lied about his age. Basically they met in person and she asked for his age to which he lied to her face. She confronted a few days later (after confirming his age from somewhere else) about how he lied to her in her face etc and he said something along the lines of it being weird if there was an inconsistency in age. Our other friend (we have a group chat, so 2 other girls actually) told me that I am overreacting (apparently I always do and I am always too extreme), that it was just a 2 years difference from his real age vs actual dating profile age and he probably liked her too much so he continued the lie in fear she might back out after knowing his real age (red flag red flag red flag, was he planning to wait until she's in too deep and let her know his real age then?) so anyways I am skeptical and full of doubts (but then again, apparently I am always too extreme and should learn to chill, so what do I know? lols)
My friend is VERY pretty but also quite naive as she does not have much experience with guys (only 2 ex boyfriends, girls school all the way then stuck with the same clique i.e us during university) so understandably she is quite hesitant and unsure of how to conduct herself properly around guys who are into her (i.e the self sabotaging, she's really a pro at rejecting guys by deflecting). Her commitment issues arises from her lack of experience or fear of the unknown yet she's thinking of trying (even if not with ZF) so I want to be supportive since I know this is a huge step for her? I might also be biased out of being protective over her. She's like a little child with no experience so if she gets hurt, she might be REALLY hurt. So...😖

Anyhow I have told her to go voice her displeasure or find a way to have a conversation with him on what he wants from her and we will see where to go from there. She agreed to do it over the course of the day (its 8:30am now, so I will be back with an update for you 12 hours+ from now).

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Side note: I actually tried to sneakily get her birth information to do readings for her but she doesn't even know her birth time! Haha

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Edit: I have to go to work now so I will be back with the updates
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Of course you can be honest with me love, honesty is the best policy up in here! If you're 'too extreme' then so am I because you were correct to tell her to drop him. He lied to her face? Yeah nah lock offfff. It's not the subject but the principle, if he can lie about something seemingly small then what then?

On the other hand, your friend also sounds like me too. I don't have much 'relationship relationship' experience with guys either, I went to an all-girls school and I came to work with guys properly at uni. I avoided guys as much as possible during A levels. I appreciate your protectiveness over her but you do need to let her deal with her life too since she's 24 and needs to get some experience HOWEVER not with this guy. Heartbreak is inevitable in this life my friend, she needs to go through some hurt to build her character. I know I sure have and it sucks because we want to protect the ones we love (I know I do and get so protective) but it's important which I know you know. I feel like she needs more comfortability with guys in general to then get into another relationship otherwise she will be prone to trash guys. And that's a piece of advice I can give, know how guys are. It was kind of difficult for me too because most guys I tried to be friends with were into me so it just made things messy. But knowing how guys think and how they act in general would make her more comfortable and aware of when guys are interested. I hope that makes sense. This specific guy reminds me of my past dealing with a guy which didn't end well (not saying they're the same because that's unfair to the guy in question) but he was very eager to get into a relationship and ding ding, I was inexperienced and didn't know what to do. And, none of my friends knew about it looool so I was left to figure stuff out on my own so having friends that have your back is a MUST so I'm happy she has that.

I am LOVING your energy, I wonder if the Cap in your username hints at a Capricorn Moon (or rising). What are your time zones, I mistakenly thought you lived in the United Kingdom too. I live in London so time zones are always a struggle here lool, it was around 1am (I think) when you sent your message.

posted February 16, 2021 07:34 AM            

Aqua: Sun, Jupiter, Uranus
Cap: Venus, Mercury, Neptune

I don't want you to think I'm ignoring you since I have responded to other threads but I will come back and edit this comment in another few hours. I'm rushing work (even though its current 8:38pm) for my bosses. The update is well.. not so exciting LOL. So most likely just a ******** session between us HAHA.

posted February 18, 2021 12:02 PM            

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Originally posted by softissues:
Hi! I created a separate thread so our messages were more private and this thread can offer a more stable form of communication between us <3.

[b]Originally posted by AQUACap88:
I like you too ❤️ Can I be honest with you? I told her to drop him the moment we first found out he lied about his age. Basically they met in person and she asked for his age to which he lied to her face. She confronted a few days later (after confirming his age from somewhere else) about how he lied to her in her face etc and he said something along the lines of it being weird if there was an inconsistency in age. Our other friend (we have a group chat, so 2 other girls actually) told me that I am overreacting (apparently I always do and I am always too extreme), that it was just a 2 years difference from his real age vs actual dating profile age and he probably liked her too much so he continued the lie in fear she might back out after knowing his real age (red flag red flag red flag, was he planning to wait until she's in too deep and let her know his real age then?) so anyways I am skeptical and full of doubts (but then again, apparently I am always too extreme and should learn to chill, so what do I know? lols)
My friend is VERY pretty but also quite naive as she does not have much experience with guys (only 2 ex boyfriends, girls school all the way then stuck with the same clique i.e us during university) so understandably she is quite hesitant and unsure of how to conduct herself properly around guys who are into her (i.e the self sabotaging, she's really a pro at rejecting guys by deflecting). Her commitment issues arises from her lack of experience or fear of the unknown yet she's thinking of trying (even if not with ZF) so I want to be supportive since I know this is a huge step for her? I might also be biased out of being protective over her. She's like a little child with no experience so if she gets hurt, she might be REALLY hurt. So...😖

Anyhow I have told her to go voice her displeasure or find a way to have a conversation with him on what he wants from her and we will see where to go from there. She agreed to do it over the course of the day (its 8:30am now, so I will be back with an update for you 12 hours+ from now).

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Side note: I actually tried to sneakily get her birth information to do readings for her but she doesn't even know her birth time! Haha

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Edit: I have to go to work now so I will be back with the updates
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Of course you can be honest with me love, honesty is the best policy up in here! If you're 'too extreme' then so am I because you were correct to tell her to drop him. He lied to her face? Yeah nah lock offfff. It's not the subject but the principle, if he can lie about something seemingly small then what then?

On the other hand, your friend also sounds like me too. I don't have much 'relationship relationship' experience with guys either, I went to an all-girls school and I came to work with guys properly at uni. I avoided guys as much as possible during A levels. I appreciate your protectiveness over her but you do need to let her deal with her life too since she's 24 and needs to get some experience HOWEVER not with this guy. Heartbreak is inevitable in this life my friend, she needs to go through some hurt to build her character. I know I sure have and it sucks because we want to protect the ones we love (I know I do and get so protective) but it's important which I know you know. I feel like she needs more comfortability with guys in general to then get into another relationship otherwise she will be prone to trash guys. And that's a piece of advice I can give, know how guys are. It was kind of difficult for me too because most guys I tried to be friends with were into me so it just made things messy. But knowing how guys think and how they act in general would make her more comfortable and aware of when guys are interested. I hope that makes sense. This specific guy reminds me of my past dealing with a guy which didn't end well (not saying they're the same because that's unfair to the guy in question) but he was very eager to get into a relationship and ding ding, I was inexperienced and didn't know what to do. And, none of my friends knew about it looool so I was left to figure stuff out on my own so having friends that have your back is a MUST so I'm happy she has that.

I am LOVING your energy, I wonder if the Cap in your username hints at a Capricorn Moon (or rising). What are your time zones, I mistakenly thought you lived in the United Kingdom too. I live in London so time zones are always a struggle here lool, it was around 1am (I think) when you sent your message.

Sidenote: Her birth time is not always needed! You can still get so much info without the birth time and for the specific friend I have (L), I basically predicted her birth time depending on the dynamic of our relationship and when I actually got her birth time, I was correct! It's really helpful even if it's really time-consuming lol but my mercury oppose pluto loves it. ❤️❤️❤️❤️[/B]

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Hey so it's been 3 days? Let's update. Day 1 when she was supposed to confront him, it ended up with her asking "so when you asked if I would ever be willing to date a programmer, were you referring to yourself?" to which he said yes. She felt elated. (Good for her)

Day 2 and 3 went by, today being day 3, she said he disappeared again. She knows I like tarot so she asked me to do a reading for her and find out why (idk, why not just ask him directly? lol), which I promised to get to it during the weekends. My schedule is so crazy, I work in a big bank under a few directors and they have ever literally once called me at 2am to fix a bug in the program.

Anyway I don't think I will be doing the reading for her anytime soon, to do a reading requires a proper "frame" of mind, not a state of mind that is frenzy and trying to get **** done.

I don't get it. Sometimes I think all girls should read the book " he's just not that into you" y'know? LOL. I feel like its a red flag when you find yourself (ESPECIALLY YOUR FRIENDS) making excuses for someone you are not even dating.

posted February 18, 2021 12:05 PM            

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Originally posted by AQUACap88:
Hey so it's been 3 days? Let's update. Day 1 when she was supposed to confront him, it ended up with her asking "so when you asked if I would ever be willing to date a programmer, were you referring to yourself?" to which he said yes. She felt elated. (Good for her)

Day 2 and 3 went by, today being day 3, she said he disappeared again. She knows I like tarot so she asked me to do a reading for her and find out why (idk, why not just ask him directly? lol), which I promised to get to it during the weekends. My schedule is so crazy, I work in a big bank under a few directors and they have ever literally once called me at 2am to fix a bug in the program.

Anyway I don't think I will be doing the reading for her anytime soon, to do a reading requires a proper "frame" of mind, not a state of mind that is frenzy and trying to get **** done.

I don't get it. Sometimes I think all girls should read the book " he's just not that into you" y'know? LOL. I feel like its a red flag when you find yourself (ESPECIALLY YOUR FRIENDS) making excuses for someone you are not even dating.

I hope you have been well~ It's 1am now and friday but I have to get up later at 5am to fix some stuffs before my meeting at 8am. I will be back xoxo. So sorry T^T

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Btw I have actually tried drawing cards for him a few times (ok twice, I think) and I always gotten good cards even though the feeling isn't very good. What are your thoughts? Am I just biased? Irrational? His actions are literally screaming "RED FLAGS" to my face. //Sigh

posted February 18, 2021 08:06 PM            

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Hey so it's been 3 days? Let's update. Day 1 when she was supposed to confront him, it ended up with her asking "so when you asked if I would ever be willing to date a programmer, were you referring to yourself?" to which he said yes. She felt elated. (Good for her)

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GIRL THE SHADE, how close are you guys?

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Day 2 and 3 went by, today being day 3, she said he disappeared again. She knows I like tarot so she asked me to do a reading for her and find out why (idk, why not just ask him directly? lol), which I promised to get to it during the weekends. My schedule is so crazy, I work in a big bank under a few directors and they have ever literally once called me at 2am to fix a bug in the program.

Anyway I don't think I will be doing the reading for her anytime soon, to do a reading requires a proper "frame" of mind, not a state of mind that is frenzy and trying to get **** done.

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That's something I feel too, unless you really can't ask someone, ask them how they feel. Like honest communication is just the way to go. And nobody understands how taxing tarot readings can be on oneself. Fam, I was having INTENSE migraines every single day when I was doing readings on here. Moon suggested it may be because of all the sword cards I was drawing (a very interesting observation) so I left off it for a while. You can't do readings when you're not up for it and that's something I've learnt the hard way.

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I don't get it. Sometimes I think all girls should read the book " he's just not that into you" y'know? LOL. I feel like its a red flag when you find yourself (ESPECIALLY YOUR FRIENDS) making excuses for someone you are not even dating.

I hope you have been well~ It's 1am now and friday but I have to get up later at 5am to fix some stuffs before my meeting at 8am. I will be back xoxo. So sorry T^T

Btw I have actually tried drawing cards for him a few times (ok twice, I think) and I always gotten good cards even though the feeling isn't very good. What are your thoughts? Am I just biased? Irrational? His actions are literally screaming "RED FLAGS" to my face. //Sigh

Seems like your cards were not that bad too. Are we doing something wrong? Truly perplexing.

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I've been alright...just eyeing up your comment about editing your comment in a few hours and then you messaged me 2 days later looool jkkk. I understand the hectic schedule especially for someone with a lot of Capricorn placements. I hope you get some rest soon so you can just relax and breathe.

I'd say go easy on her but be firm. She needs to learn but also not neglect your advice either. Him disappearing her again is just horrible. I hate that feeling so much. In terms of the reading, GIRL I SAID TO NOT TRUST HIMMM. I'll see how I feel around the weekend and I'll try to see if I can do a reading again. I like to wait a couple of days between questions as a minimum. Hopefully, we can pick up more on him too. And I'm sorry but I just get very underdeveloped vibes from your friends (which is true because of relationships) but Idk what to make of this sich either. At the same time, girl the shade about your friend, I sense a lot of irritance which is understandable but make sure she knows how you feel. I'm usually the 'I told you so' friend lol and their experiences are important for their growth but man he disappeared TWICE. She cannot let anyone make a mockery of her time.

posted February 21, 2021 12:40 AM            

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Originally posted by softissues:
I've been alright...just eyeing up your comment about editing your comment in a few hours and then you messaged me 2 days later looool jkkk. I understand the hectic schedule especially for someone with a lot of Capricorn placements. I hope you get some rest soon so you can just relax and breathe.

I'd say go easy on her but be firm. She needs to learn but also not neglect your advice either. Him disappearing her again is just horrible. I hate that feeling so much. In terms of the reading, GIRL I SAID TO NOT TRUST HIMMM. I'll see how I feel around the weekend and I'll try to see if I can do a reading again. I like to wait a couple of days between questions as a minimum. Hopefully, we can pick up more on him too. And I'm sorry but I just get very underdeveloped vibes from your friends (which is true because of relationships) but Idk what to make of this sich either. At the same time, girl the shade about your friend, I sense a lot of irritance which is understandable but make sure she knows how you feel. I'm usually the 'I told you so' friend lol and their experiences are important for their growth but man he disappeared TWICE. She cannot let anyone make a mockery of her time.

SENDING YOU MY LOVE OKAY, GO BE A REALLY STRONG BOSS WOMAN THAT YOU ARE. YOU GOT THIS. Talk to you whenever girl xoxo.

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HEY ❤️❤️❤️ Omg I am loving your vibe so much as well LOL. Do I have a lot of capricorn placements? Haha. What are your placements like?

I MEAN, weren't the cards kinda good just that we didn't really have a good gut feeling?
To update, apparently he went MIA on her AGAIN so she told me she's done (privately) LOL.
She IS kind of underdeveloped? (Naive remember?) And I guess I sounded irritated because I was so tired a few days ago and she knows I dislike it when people wave the same problem over over again in my face despite me taking the time out to give advices. By then it's almost a case of same problem, same solution just with different phrasing over and over again. And for what?
There is a quote I quite like "over analysis is a form of denial. It means you already know the correct answer yet refuse to accept it so you over analyse to search for a version of truth you prefer."

(I am also always the "I told you so" friend LOL. It has basically gotten to the point where when my friends go into the over analysis mode, trying to make excuses for the guy etc I just tell them " he is trash. For the x amount of years we have known each other, when was there EVER a single time where I was wrong in my judgement and you were right in defending the guy or the circumstances? <- like I know its kind of mean and maybe I should be more empathetic/understanding/a better listening year but I frankly can't be bothered. Before this job I was juggling two degrees at the same time so I have been sleeping on average 3 hours every single day for the past 4 years of this life and sometimes none. Though I try my best to be a good friend, I am not a listening ear. If I had the time to be one, then I seriously and most honestly would like to just sleep more.)

I do care though, like sincerely care from the bottom of my heart.

REGARDLESS, A isn't like those friends I talked about. I always found A to be quite similar to me so she only bothers me when something is *really* up, hence I was so concerned. And is also why I think this issue resolved so quickly. Usually with my other girlfriends, over such a guy, they'd probably still be bugging me about it 5 weeks later + on a daily basis (if they could).

posted February 21, 2021 01:45 AM            

Was he being deceptive on purpose?
- Knight of wands
- Knight of swords (clarifier)
/*oh wow, 2 knight cards. */

What does he plan to do with her?
- The world (dropped out)
- Queen of swords
- 10 of wands

/*Hmm.. a little confusing*/

Is he talking to other women aside from A?
- 2 OF CUPS
(?! I'm confused. 2 of cups means a 'yes' right, but there is only 2 people. Wouldn't such a question usually be better off with 3 of cups?)
- Queen of pentacles (clarifier)

As a friend, what should my advice to A be?
- 4 of swords
- 2 of cups... (clarifier)

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Hmm I don't really know what to say or feel about this. Okay firstly, I think the cards are asking me to bug out of their relationship with the 4 of swords.

Was he being deceptive on purpose?
I feel that there could be two different interpretations for this.
1. He wasn't being deceptive on purpose, it was done so on impulse, without thinking through
2. He was indeed being deceptive on purpose

What does he plan to do with her
Queen of sword, 10 of wands.
He sees her as "the world", so he wants to cut to the chase (queen of sword) and either get her or cut his losses (10 of wands) without wasting any time further. Queen of sword is logical and decisive.

Is he talking to other women?
2 of cups, despite being a 'yes' card might be a 'no' Hence as a friend, I should take a step back (or possibly advise my friend to do so) so 2 of cups could happen?
- Possible reasons: His quitting his job on 1st Mar if everything goes well with his start up so he might be extremely busy (not an excuse to me) and also, since my friend said it usually takes her 4-7 months to get into a relationship, him as "queen of swords" and being a more fastidious" person (from the knights) might be going MIA on her to not *overwhelm* her with "too much too soon". A was also saying that if they continued to text every single day from morning to night then maybe a target of 2-3 months rather than 4-7 months of getting to know each other would be a better fit (to prevent accidentally getting led on/wasting too much time and wounding up in nothing serious).

Will they ever meet again?
2 of wands- it's up to them, presently at a cross road. But quite possibly, yes they will meet again. King of pentacles linking towards queen of pentacles connected to two of cups.

But right now, a step back is what they both need.

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More negative interpretation could be while he wants a relationship with my friend, he also plans on cutting his losses hence 'yes' he is talking to other women. Queen of pentacles being that's just the way he is, his full of abundance and not lacking.
Will they ever meet again- right now they are at a cross road with 2 of wands but regardless, the outcome will not be a bad one. They may or may not meet again, but it doesn't matter.
They will each find their own king/queen of pentacles, their other half being someone else in their own 2 of cups.

posted February 21, 2021 08:19 AM            

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Originally posted by AQUACap88:

HEY ❤️❤️❤️ Omg I am loving your vibe so much as well LOL. Do I have a lot of capricorn placements? Haha. What are your placements like?

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I mean hehe, let me show you my chart girl (will delete this after you respond).

Sidenote: Maybe it's my pluto but I saw your chart and I had such a strong feeling you have similar placements as a friend I know and you do! You have moon in the 8th like her (although hers is a virgo moon). I want to ask what a natal mars in 8th placement is like? I know someone who has it and I wondered how it would manifest natally for them.

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I MEAN, weren't the cards kinda good just that we didn't really have a good gut feeling?
To update, apparently he went MIA on her AGAIN so she told me she's done (privately) LOL.
She IS kind of underdeveloped? (Naive remember?) And I guess I sounded irritated because I was so tired a few days ago and she knows I dislike it when people wave the same problem over over again in my face despite me taking the time out to give advices. By then it's almost a case of same problem, same solution just with different phrasing over and over again. And for what?
There is a quote I quite like "over analysis is a form of denial. It means you already know the correct answer yet refuse to accept it so you over analyse to search for a version of truth you prefer."

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Tbh I don't remember but I'm glad she's done with him. Idc idc I said it. I understand, I'm like that too. Like you asked me once, and I told you but you decided that wasn't good enough so you're asking again? Slappp. I like that quote too, it's really relatable.

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(I am also always the "I told you so" friend LOL. It has basically gotten to the point where when my friends go into the over analysis mode, trying to make excuses for the guy etc I just tell them " he is trash. For the x amount of years we have known each other, when was there EVER a single time where I was wrong in my judgement and you were right in defending the guy or the circumstances? <- like I know its kind of mean and maybe I should be more empathetic/understanding/a better listening year but I frankly can't be bothered. Before this job I was juggling two degrees at the same time so I have been sleeping on average 3 hours every single day for the past 4 years of this life and sometimes none. Though I try my best to be a good friend, I am not a listening ear. If I had the time to be one, then I seriously and most honestly would like to just sleep more.)

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Tbh I've said this before too looool, not to my friends per se but especially my sister. Girl with that amount of sleep, I am shook you're still managing. If no one understands that then they're trash. 3 hours???? Girl, you need to rest. You are a go GETTER.

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I do care though, like sincerely care from the bottom of my heart.

REGARDLESS, A isn't like those friends I talked about. I always found A to be quite similar to me so she only bothers me when something is *really* up, hence I was so concerned. And is also why I think this issue resolved so quickly. Usually with my other girlfriends, over such a guy, they'd probably still be bugging me about it 5 weeks later + on a daily basis (if they could).

Let me just try to read 1 card about their ending now for fun LOL.
(it's like 1:44pm where I am now and I just finished a mock paper for my CFA 🤣 so I am in a SUPER good mood)

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posted February 21, 2021 10:08 AM            

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Will they ever meet again
- 2 of wands
- King of pentacles (clarifier)

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I think the pentacles here represent career. If they get together it would be for some sort of career-related issue which I can see happening. If she has Capricorn in her or 10th house placement (even pluto in there) then she's gonna want someone to advance her in some way and he could really help with that since he was giving her advice. I had to lol at the cards calling you out, like they're telling you to let divine timing take its action. I think your interpretation is quite good.

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Was he being deceptive on purpose?
- Knight of wands
- Knight of swords (clarifier)
/*oh wow, 2 knight cards. */

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Gosh I get triggered by the Knight of Wands man (BUN THIS CARD YO). I don't think he was being deceptive on purpose but he was so eager to get into something hence this. And wand and energy are the two quickest energies out of the four.

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What does he plan to do with her?
- The world (dropped out)
- Queen of swords
- 10 of wands

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This is so obvious to me, he wants to go to the next level, complete this cycle (world) and I think cut her off because maybe keeping contact is weighing on him (10 of wands) and he'll do it in a mature manner (Queen of Swords).

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Is he talking to other women aside from A?
- 2 OF CUPS
(?! I'm confused. 2 of cups means a 'yes' right, but there is only 2 people. Wouldn't such a question usually be better off with 3 of cups?)
- Queen of pentacles (clarifier)

As a friend, what should my advice to A be?
- 4 of swords
- 2 of cups... (clarifier)

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When I see a repeat of cards in one context of reading then I carry that message on. I think your advice is meant to gear around the fact he may be talking to other women. I'm ngl the cards confuse me to. I think he really wants to settle down with someone and is trying to weed out whoever isn't gonna be the Queen of Pentacles for him.

With the advice, I think you should tell her to deliberate about this union (what I told you in the beginning so HMM) and then take the next steps. With what you told me about him, he's quick and ready to get in relationships quick and in this way, it's more quantity over quality of relationships.

OVERALL,

posted February 21, 2021 10:34 AM            

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Originally posted by softissues:
ALRIGHT SO,

LOOOL you narrate stuff you're gonna do like me, loveee it. Love that good mood, I'm glad you were. And I don't doubt that you don't care for her, I believe you do. I think it's very important for her to have someone like you in her life to give it how it is. And that's why I can say, I really think she could take your advice because especially when one doesn't have experience, they're naive, they need someone to be that voice of reason ygm?

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OMG I'M THINKING WE COULD BE SOULMATES LOL. (You are the only other bowl chart person I have seen on here)
My chart: http://imgur.com/lJuFRoc

TELL ME THE TRUTH, ARE YOU MY SOULMATE?! HAHA

I honestly don't know much about my natal mars being in 8th. I think it's very toned down due to its libra nature. I know another 8th house Libra mars and I think the both of us deal with arguments/aggression the same way. In a diplomatic/enduring/tolerant manner. We have mars opposite saturn so once we hit pass an enduring limit, our anger comes out explosively and almost unwarranted. In the case of mars placement, I feel the sign that mars is in and it's placement to saturn plays a huge part since I have seen it played out differently in so many people.
Do you have a more specific question for mars? Like are we good in bed? HAHA LOL.

Man I don't like my 8th house moon either. Its so afflicted //sigh//

posted February 21, 2021 11:14 AM            

Fam I never said I didn't like your 8th house moon so wdym 'either'. I have progressed Scorpio Moon transiting 8th house rn which is nice tbh it was the worst when it was in the 7th. I have libra in my progressed 7th so when it was libra moon it was calm but then when it hit the Scorpio in 7th too, it was the worst.

Tbh I think mars in 8th would be good in bed looool, the specific person is mars in leo. And they say those who have Leo in the 8th house are good in bed so sigh.

skskskssk well if you knew me, I think I'd change your mind, Moon conjunct ascendant is difficult. Really difficult. Mine comes out more with my expressions on my face. You can see everything. Even if I'm a little bit irritated, it'll show. Like ffs, I grew up getting told to fix my face and 'are you ok?' every 5 mins. It ruined some friendships growing up but tbh idm. People open up to me easily. I embrace it. Kind of emit that mothering, lemme-take-care-of-you-baby kind of vibe.

And what do you know, you have pluto conjunct your MC like me. What's that been like for you? Bare people chatting trash about you too I presume lool

posted February 21, 2021 11:27 AM            

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Originally posted by softissues:
sksksk I mean if you're my soulmate then you're lucky ;-) Idk what you mean by bowl chart and what does that have to do with soulmates like is it an indicator?

Fam I never said I didn't like your 8th house moon so wdym 'either'. I have progressed Scorpio Moon transiting 8th house rn which is nice tbh it was the worst when it was in the 7th. I have libra in my progressed 7th so when it was libra moon it was calm but then when it hit the Scorpio in 7th too, it was the worst.

Tbh I think mars in 8th would be good in bed looool, the specific person is mars in leo. And they say those who have Leo in the 8th house are good in bed so sigh.

skskskssk well if you knew me, I think I'd change your mind, Moon conjunct ascendant is difficult. Really difficult. Mine comes out more with my expressions on my face. You can see everything. Even if I'm a little bit irritated, it'll show. Like ffs, I grew up getting told to fix my face and 'are you ok?' every 5 mins. It ruined some friendships growing up but tbh idm. People open up to me easily. I embrace it. Kind of emit that mothering, lemme-take-care-of-you-baby kind of vibe.

And what do you know, you have pluto conjunct your MC like me. What's that been like for you? Bare people chatting trash about you too I presume lool

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Omg my 'either' meant smth like since I don't really know much about my mars being in 8th house I don't know much about my moon either HAHA. I basically ignore my 8th house cuz of how much I hate it :x

I wear expressions on my face too though? I think it might be my scorpio moon. Its either I like you or I dislike you and I'm not afraid to show it (Aquarius + cap placement makes me more ruthless/unfeeling). It's sad I would think wearing expressions on your face would come off as "genuine", making people like you even more.

Pluto conjunct MC, along with my Sun and Moon being polar opposites, people tend to either like me a lot or dislike me (yet refrain from showing obvious hostility unlike me). I think people talk about me quite a lot (or so I heard) but almost never anything bad. I think its because I eliminated the bad ones really early and for the good ones, whatever they say about me, they have already told it to my face over the years so its like an inside joke about that just being the way I am.
I find people tend to have really strong reactions towards me though? Or maybe its me to them.

posted February 21, 2021 11:28 AM            

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Originally posted by softissues:
I think the pentacles here represent career. If they get together it would be for some sort of career-related issue which I can see happening. If she has Capricorn in her or 10th house placement (even pluto in there) then she's gonna want someone to advance her in some way and he could really help with that since he was giving her advice. I had to lol at the cards calling you out, like they're telling you to let divine timing take its action. I think your interpretation is quite good.

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Yes, don't you just hate it when the cards call you out/personally attack you? Like "hey, thats not very nice" LOL.

What you said makes sense. I think it was a spur of a moment thing since she asked him in person quite suddenly so he probably panicked.

You are also right to say that I am basing off whether he is serious about her or not on whether he is talking to other women. Apparently he had 4 ex girlfriends though and he has been single for about a year +
For a 31 year old I think that is not too bad.

I think they may have cut each other off since they haven't spoke/texted each other for 2 days. I haven't told her anything about the reading and our interpretations including how he might be serious about her in the sense he wants to be serious/get into a relationship with her.

I think it is better to just let nature take its course. I hope he at least come back and let her know like:

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Originally posted by softissues:
cut her off because maybe keeping contact is weighing on him (10 of wands) and he'll do it in a mature manner (Queen of Swords).

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But still I feel reassured that you feel he wants a relationship.
To me in terms of worse case scenarios:
Being pressured into a relationship > Getting played

posted February 21, 2021 11:30 AM            

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Originally posted by softissues:

Edit: I've just seen the Chiron conjunct moon, and all those squares. I'm sorry. I just wanted to say that. You have some pretty exact orbs up in here.

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Sigh I know right. My moon is just out to give me hell, really. I hate it so much hence by association, my 8th house.

posted February 21, 2021 11:44 AM            

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Originally posted by AQUACap88:
Omg my 'either' meant smth like since I don't really know much about my mars being in 8th house I don't know much about my moon either HAHA. I basically ignore my 8th house cuz of how much I hate it :x

I wear expressions on my face too though? I think it might be my scorpio moon. Its either I like you or I dislike you and I'm not afraid to show it (Aquarius + cap placement makes me more ruthless/unfeeling). It's sad I would think wearing expressions on your face would come off as "genuine", making people like you even more.

Pluto conjunct MC, along with my Sun and Moon being polar opposites, people tend to either like me a lot or dislike me (yet refrain from showing obvious hostility unlike me). I think people talk about me quite a lot (or so I heard) but almost never anything bad. I think its because I eliminated the bad ones really early and for the good ones, whatever they say about me, they have already told it to my face over the years so its like an inside joke about that just being the way I am.
I find people tend to have really strong reactions towards me though? Or maybe its me to them.

Argh I hate all leos :x (sorry)

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Nah I'm an Aqua rising so hating Leos is native to me looool but guys that I annoy me end up really turning me on so like if you **** me off the most (not all guys lol) but some, like if you challenge me and if you're cute but really annoying, I'll probably really like you. Basically I'm jarring.

Yeah exactly, I'm a living me. My reactions are genuine so. I think it's my lilith conjunct ascendant that brings jealousy too.

I have that same vibe. I'm not for everyone. That exact mercury oppose pluto makes me weed out people real quick. Tbh people rarely said anything to my face but I know I was talked about a lot. Dealt with 'bullying', teasing growing up. Dealt with crowds of people coming up to me to beef me etc etc. But character development loool. Idk I'm very intuitive so if I don't like you, I'll know in a few mins and I'll probs end up right about the hunch I had in the beginning.

I have scorpio moon and rising in my draconic chart so go figure. If I didn't have moon and venus in my ascendant tho, I'd be maddddd. They really help balance my masculinity.

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Sigh I know right. My moon is just out to give me hell, really. I hate it so much hence by association, my 8th house.

Here is a bowl! http://www.myastrologybook.com/Bowl-planetary-pattern-astrology

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posted February 21, 2021 11:50 AM            

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Originally posted by AQUACap88:
Yes, don't you just hate it when the cards call you out/personally attack you? Like "hey, thats not very nice" LOL.

What you said makes sense. I think it was a spur of a moment thing since she asked him in person quite suddenly so he probably panicked.

You are also right to say that I am basing off whether he is serious about her or not on whether he is talking to other women. Apparently he had 4 ex girlfriends though and he has been single for about a year +
For a 31 year old I think that is not too bad.

I think they may have cut each other off since they haven't spoke/texted each other for 2 days. I haven't told her anything about the reading and our interpretations including how he might be serious about her in the sense he wants to be serious/get into a relationship with her.

I think it is better to just let nature take its course. I hope he at least come back and let her know like:

But still I feel reassured that you feel he wants a relationship.
To me in terms of worse case scenarios:
Being pressured into a relationship > Getting played

Since my friend is rather naive, I want at least this experience to impart her with nothing or for her along the lines like "she's so awesome this guy is begging to be with her" rather than "she's so undeserving of happiness, guys are just out to hurt her/play with her feelings, guys cannot be trusted"
You get what I mean? ^ is actually what I wanted to confirm so much I came onto this forum xx

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posted February 21, 2021 11:55 AM            

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That exact mercury oppose pluto makes me weed out people real quick. Tbh people rarely said anything to my face but I know I was talked about a lot. Dealt with 'bullying', teasing growing up. Dealt with crowds of people coming up to me to beef me etc etc. But character development loool. Idk I'm very intuitive so if I don't like you, I'll know in a few mins and I'll probs end up right about the hunch I had in the beginning.

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Oh I'm so sorry to hear that =/
I'm very intuitive as well! Within a few minutes or second, I instinctively place people into 2 categories (LOL)
Trash vs Not trash.
May I say I have never been wrong thus far?

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I have scorpio moon and rising in my draconic chart so go figure. If I didn't have moon and venus in my ascendant tho, I'd be maddddd. They really help balance my masculinity.

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posted February 21, 2021 11:58 AM            

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Originally posted by softissues:
You want it to turn out better for her which I completely understand. Okay his past history isn't too bad at all. I do think he wants a relationship, he's just dodgy to me (and you) loool. True about the pressure bit but she needs to be ready or she needs to want it otherwise she'll blame him and her other friends ygm? Omds are you leaving the forum now because you've got some sort of conclusion? ((

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Aww that's so sweet. No no, I still have to reply to Stoika, Graham and Mirage. I think you are my age? Maybe 3 years younger with your Saturn in Gemini? Are you 21 this year?
Not sure if its allowed but I don't mind being friends xx

posted February 21, 2021 12:05 PM            

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Originally posted by AQUACap88:
Aww that's so sweet. No no, I still have to reply to Stoika, Graham and Mirage. I think you are my age? Maybe 3 years younger with your Saturn in Gemini? Are you 21 this year?
Not sure if its allowed but I don't mind being friends xx

I do try to make time to come by and we can also keep this thread up for normal conversations/updates ❤️
(About our own lives. Probably not this anymore since it has concluded LOL)

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posted February 21, 2021 12:09 PM            

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Originally posted by AQUACap88:
I have that same vibe. I'm not for everyone. Oh I'm so sorry to hear that =/
I'm very intuitive as well! Within a few minutes or second, I instinctively place people into 2 categories (LOL)
Trash vs Not trash.
May I say I have never been wrong thus far?

MASCULINITY!?!?
//attacked due to no moon and venus in ascendant//
//hurt//
LOL

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posted February 21, 2021 12:21 PM            

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Originally posted by softissues:
I'm turning 20 this year. (first time I've admitted that on here looool). I hate telling people my age especially online because it's filled with the idea that one's immature etc but experience ages you not a number. The person I said was similar to you turned 25 this year so similar ages lol. She's a Cap Sun and Rising. I would love to be friends! And I think that would be best. Fam I initially thought you were 33 because of the 88 in your username looool. It's crazy, I initially got on this thread to get someone to help me with my relationship at the time (bare toxic, I was losing my head yada yada yada) but then I was so active. I had built connections with people on here and then started doing tarot literally around 2 months ago now? And it's just been up from there.

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posted February 21, 2021 12:27 PM            

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Originally posted by softissues:
Issa okay and we are pretty similar and NO IT'S FINE WITH YOU but for me, I don't like it for myself. I personally think women having a 'masculine' side is far more sexier, sultry than anything but also excuse you because you literally have a Pisces rising so your femininity is still there.

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posted February 21, 2021 12:29 PM            

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Originally posted by softissues:
Okay girl i got your profile, delete it asappp. I don't use Facebook like that 😭😭😭😭 but I'll find a way to talk. Mercury in Gemini loool.

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Ok, let me know ❤️❤️
I'm signing off now (it's 1:33am) and I gotta be up later at 6 to draft some notes for a meeting later T_T But I will reply you if there's time xx

I went onto your thread to help you out a little LOL. Thought you might be feeling overwhelmed.