posted February 15, 2021 10:36 PM
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Originally posted by manques:
Hi moon! Can u pls help me.
I just quarrelled with K. He told me he wanna break up. I feel so lost. Is this the end
Hi manques ~
I hadn't seen the Valentine thread was bumped. I'm sorry about that [i]and your troubles with K
And I didn't want to confuse anyone so I created a thread for you. Asking for Ks, yours and combined energy. We'll pull the fourth card for the outcome.
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Your cards are
Yours - 5 of Cups
K's - 5 of Wands
Together shared - 7 of Pentacles
Outcome - 3 of Swords
Recent past - 10 of Wands (hindside of deck)
Fell out - 4 of Cups
The numbers between you both and individually was 17. Q .. which we know questions come easily with Q. 17 =8 which is Saturn.
You recieved 17 again with the additional cards ~ more Qs. There's a lot unresolved answers between you two. 34 is the total and broken to a 7. 7 is search for spiritual enlightenment. Perhaps this is in part involved? Maybe someone's beliefs are conflicting in the r/s.
Before one or both of you came into this r/s there was a burden. One so big it was not forgotten, never healed. Lingered within and possibly the energies of recent astrologically- Mercury rx brought this to the surface.
Your energy is reflecting your loneliness and tears for K. You feel he walked away with these cups, leaving you alone with them. K might be looking for "himself ", somehow he's distant from you because he's looking "within himself". Maybe he feels conflicted with "if he's able to fullfil both your wishes". His emotions are fiery due to his uncertainty of his feelings, which he might want to quit your r/s and feels he's wasting your time, in haste he may already spilled those words - "break up".
You're combined energy, reflects you both felt you nourished this union and it was growing beautifully He might have panicked recently with that question to himself "where's this going?" Maybe you inquired as well which might have sent him into panic mode, due to past relationships that he recalls were unsuccessful.
Thinking backwards now is likely is why he was caught up in "past experiences". ~ burdens.
The release is imminent because the pain coming otherwise may far out measure letting this dissolve.
What fell out (4 of Cups) there's nothing left between you outside fantasy. He's decided he needs to find those lost coins (3) and this dreaming with you he has little faith in at this time. He might have felt he was building his side with you in illusion and maybe he can't measure up? In any case this does appear to be rooted from the past lovelife of either if you. You may remind him of a past love that he failed with. He isn't strong enough to repeat this.
Adding that despite all these cards, none were court cards or major arcana. It didn't launch to a serious level. In his mind, possibly. Major arcana might have shined a stronger resolve for this to work out.
If we saw his and your charts maybe there could be more indication by the transits. Saturn+Neptune are curious to me. (saturn > karma, restrictive and Neptune illusion and fantasy).
Pls let me know if this helped or you need more. ♡
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