posted March 11, 2021 02:01 PM            

What are Harleys feelings for me and should we pursue a relationship? Thank you 😊❤️
So really interesting...He really likes how you make him feel, and how you feel about him...but he's definitely feeling himself more than anything else...not sure if that makes sense. ( You are the ASC- Leo-representing the sun- he is the DSC-Aquariuss representing Saturn- in Horary astrology

The vertex(The Vertex in Astrology is a special point and quite telling when it comes to matters of fate) is also in the 5th house (sag /jupiter) again in his house (7th-aquarius with saturn, mercury, Jupiter) which is short term romance...doesn't necessarily mean a bad things...short term can also mean being together for several years and never marrying or making things official...but with this guy, I'm not seeing years-but a serial dater or very non-committall at the moment..so I would take the time to see how he feels about you..and not just him enjoying see you like him.

posted March 11, 2021 11:12 PM            

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lol...Does any do exchanges here anymore?

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posted March 11, 2021 11:49 PM            

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Originally posted by Saille:
lol...Does any do exchanges here anymore?

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  Saille,  I offer exchanges. No one ever wants to Exchange. Rarely and so little.  I've hopped on your exchange threads + others but one or two max ever wanna reciprocate with me.
Going back in the threads there is a trend ~ many come to recieve but don't bring back offered returns. The scales here in LL are off balance. LibraGirl92, Spring (of course you) and a few others are amazing at jumping in to reciprocate. 
 

  I would have been here earlier to offer a reading but I'm limiting of using my cards to particular days. LibraGirl92 offered one .. and it looks good from what I skimmed.   I'll throw another angle in. I'm sorry to hear you're having a hard time with your person.

Your energy towards them Knight  Of Swords
Your Friend/Love's  energy towards you King Of Swords

 Shared feelings  7 Of Cups~  you both are indecisive but hoping to find a way to mend this damaged fence. Something imaginative could be holding the harmony back. An illusion in something said but it is based upon the emotions that are Shared
Your energy may have been careless in your word choices or something was taken wrongly by him.  His energy may have been too high in the clouds for your dialogue together, which created a sharp tongue from one or both (swords) following with a cut in communication.
 The results of repairing this damage is going to rest in the other one's hands. That energy is high, sharp and feeling the emotions of being "right". Which meeting halfway may take time. There's a distance between you anyway so this could give them a chance (being up in their head) to find that "absence makes the heart grow fonder". All I can advise is, to wait it out,until the King thinks long enough,  he eventually will bend to the median for a debate to find common ground once more. The swords also together show you're both intelligent people with the cups, You both want this emotional connection. As well you both are feeling just as you are now.

posted March 12, 2021 12:17 AM            

Thank you so much for the reading...please let me know if you have a question!

Everything you said is so right on point. I know he feels I hurt him and was mean to him and he is not a fighter...so I'm sure my words cut him deeply..and he is someone that needs time to manage things.
Throw in the fact that he has a gf thank god we've never met, covid, distance..so many blockage that I take as a sign...I think deep down it boiled to that..and that communication came off the wrong way...

posted March 12, 2021 12:41 AM            

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Thank you so much Love. I do feel a lot better on my end too...so we'll see what happens.

What are Harleys feelings for me and should we pursue a relationship? Thank you 😊❤️
So really interesting...He really likes how you make him feel, and how you feel about him...but he's definitely feeling himself more than anything else...not sure if that makes sense. ( You are the ASC- Leo-representing the sun- he is the DSC-Aquariuss representing Saturn- in Horary astrology

The vertex(The Vertex in Astrology is a special point and quite telling when it comes to matters of fate) is also in the 5th house (sag /jupiter) again in his house (7th-aquarius with saturn, mercury, Jupiter) which is short term romance...doesn't necessarily mean a bad things...short term can also mean being together for several years and never marrying or making things official...but with this guy, I'm not seeing years-but a serial dater or very non-committall at the moment..so I would take the time to see how he feels about you..and not just him enjoying see you like him.

Thank you so much for helping!

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posted March 12, 2021 09:59 AM            

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Thank you for this thoughtful note, I always offer to exchange when asking for a reading. I know how time consuming it and and it's crazy people don't reciprocate to the point that I'll ask a question and leave it alone for a few days thinking people won't jump on it.

Thank you so much for the reading...please let me know if you have a question!

Everything you said is so right on point. I know he feels I hurt him and was mean to him and he is not a fighter...so I'm sure my words cut him deeply..and he is someone that needs time to manage things.
Throw in the fact that he has a gf thank god we've never met, covid, distance..so many blockage that I take as a sign...I think deep down it boiled to that..and that communication came off the wrong way...

Thank you again.

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You're very welcome Saille. The Queen of Swords is the distance "between" I eluded to so maybe that is a hindering energy as well?
I hope that he thaws out the frost soon. It looks as though it will shake out though, we have excellent healing energies coming in and a new moon too. Wishing it having a quick healing between you. 💖

Thank you for exchanging.
I hadn't thought of an old friend in so long and out of thin air he appeared in my dream. Indirectly, in it - I was calling him and on his vm msg, he said was overseas. This was peculiar, the dream.

Q - Is my old friend DC reaching out to me in my dreams for a specific reason?

posted March 12, 2021 10:59 PM            

Q - Is my old friend DC reaching out to me in my dreams for a specific reason?

So using horary...the asc is Scorpio and mars is in the 8th house(Gemini) and the Desc Taurus venus is in the 4th house pisces(water dreams) with the moon and sun..

The 11th house -dreams has Libra into (venus again)
It feels like he's missing home 4th house like deeply or home missing friends specifically. I don't know if you're any of the signs I mentioned-scorpio, Gemini, Libra, Pisces- but they may simply thinking of friendships and relationship. Gemini being in the 8th and Gemini being a talkative sign...they may feel they can no longer talk t friend or connect with friends the way they use to. If anything reach out to them to say hello...I do feel they are hiding something or there is something to be said with Scorpio being the Asc.

Let me know if you have another question...I'm wondering if my guy is expecting an apology or even I should reach out to him or even when.

posted March 13, 2021 03:02 AM            

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Q - Is my old friend DC reaching out to me in my dreams for a specific reason?

So using horary...the asc is Scorpio and mars is in the 8th house(Gemini) and the Desc Taurus venus is in the 4th house pisces(water dreams) with the moon and sun..

The 11th house -dreams has Libra into (venus again)
It feels like he's missing home 4th house like deeply or home missing friends specifically. I don't know if you're any of the signs I mentioned-scorpio, Gemini, Libra, Pisces- but they may simply thinking of friendships and relationship. Gemini being in the 8th and Gemini being a talkative sign...they may feel they can no longer talk t friend or connect with friends the way they use to. If anything reach out to them to say hello...I do feel they are hiding something or there is something to be said with Scorpio being the Asc.

Let me know if you have another question...I'm wondering if my guy is expecting an apology or even I should reach out to him or even when. I'm representative of the 11th house 3×

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Thank You Saille. You are spot on. We lived in a complex, growing up as teens together (buddy's) unseperable (except his engineering and my bfs). Even slept over at his house often. Neither mom was ever worried. He was that type guy (responsible) we were platonic.
I was racking my brain to recall his sun sign. He was either Pisces/Aries or Aries/Taurus but I do think he carried much earthiness. Has to be the second one. That might be your Venus feeling. My Venus is aqua (11th owned).

I haven't a way to contact him. I don't wanna cause him trouble anyway. We had a fling later in the years (possibly 7 later) idk if he's thinking on me cause of that too or just our bonding. The weird thing about him is supposedly I was never an interest to him but when he met a gf from my HS class that many said we were similar in looks, he dated and married her, since divorced. So thinking over that - maybe there was.

Can I ask another -
Q - Did DC carry secret feelings for kira?
Thank you Saille.

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My phone is not cooperative with tags, pls forgive my blah delivery.

Your card (another Court + sword suit)
Page of Swords. Yes
I feel he wants you to prove that you feel he's worth it. As this can be an aggressive energy there's a bit up/down effect to the POS energy. It's not so much as your guy is being stubborn, as he feels once you are first, he'll better understand that shared energy we pulled last night. 7 Of Cups.

Should Saille reach out and apologize to him?

Ace of Pentacles. Yes
A Solid and grand yes. He'll see you as an integrity based lady, who thinks and feels enough to be the first to come around.

posted March 13, 2021 05:10 AM            

So.. using Horary...I don't think there was a lot of love to give to her.( He's Aqu asc-with saturn in it's own house-while she is Leo with the sun in the 2nd house with the sign of pisces-hidden elements) He was caught in his own head more than anything else, though I do think she tried really to receive affection from him. seem like a like of hidden things ..like she knew she couldn't tell him how she felt about him bc he wouldn't be responsive to it.

Well I'll buckle down and do it.

Thank you so much and happy to always answer Qs.

posted March 13, 2021 11:15 AM            

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Can I ask another -
Q - Did DC carry secret feelings for kira?
Thank you Saille.

So.. using Horary...I don't think there was a lot of love to give to her.( He's Aqu asc-with saturn in it's own house-while she is Leo with the sun in the 2nd house with the sign of pisces-hidden elements) He was caught in his own head more than anything else, though I do think she tried really to receive affection from him. seem like a like of hidden things ..like she knew she couldn't tell him how she felt about him bc he wouldn't be responsive to it.

Well I'll buckle down and do it.

Thank you so much and happy to always answer Qs.

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I agree with your reading. "not a lot of love to give" he was not a very loving guy towards his gf in hs, my friend he later married and he was sorta not so much towards me during the fling. I'm disinterested in anything re him outside that great bond as friends we shared. I'm just perplexed to his energy seeking me. Or a secret.

Saille, let me know how that goes. Your reaching out to him. The cards show you so near in energy, he may wish to as well but the King OS likes "upper hand" . . if you have other questions, let me know, I'd be happy to. I have my deck here with me.

posted March 14, 2021 12:55 PM            

  I saw your other response,  I'll add my  responses here ..

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So update
He responded, and apologized too, and acknowledge I hurt him, and not only does he need time to heal( idk maybe I'm a psychopath...but I'm fine and just want o move forward and onward) but he also thinks our relationship needs time to heal so we can be stronger together...so I'm feeling better. Thank you so much for your help.

He's very much the Libra(ASC)-Venus and I much Aries(ASC)-Mars- I don't think these two ever stopped fighting in their mythology....but were each others.

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He (your guy) felt your words were damaging. It's an ego strike - probably.  You're not a psychopath. Why would you think that?  I'm  glad you feel better. Getting it worked out, now you can better navigate without "wondering".   You're welcome. Wow you two are very pole opposite. You are very balanced in your thinking. It should eventually work out.
If it doesn't  - he had too big an ego to see you cared enough to offer that olive branch. Let me know if you ever want an answer from my cards ~ I enjoy reading (learning the energies) and helping. ☺

 Regarding your reading on this last DC question.
He's the one who began thinking of me but him doing so triggered me via thst dream he slipped into. *unless this is a spiritual nudging from guides. It could be just remembering when we were younger and times much more carefree.  I wondered too because he was military. I wondered if he went back in and was stationed in the country that I dreamed him saying he was at. Your reading does feel accurate as he was never that  big on showing emotional affection, he was very nurturing towards me though.  Re his closed off heart chakra with others - *heavy sigh* ~ it is sad for him as he may have divorced again due to that.

- Oddly too, Just listened to a short Taurus video. Someone who is Taurus said "I think ,my  heart is dead ".  :/ Possibly he needs an ear to listen and thought of me.

posted March 14, 2021 07:01 PM            

 
- Oddly too, Just listened to a short Taurus video. Someone who is Taurus said "I think ,my  heart is dead ".  :/ Possibly he needs an ear to listen and thought of me.

Have you reached out to him yet?

posted March 14, 2021 07:33 PM            

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You're so right. The ego. I know it was a ego strike which is what bother me...and then he said he forgives me..I wasn't asking for forgiveness ...I was apologizing bc I clearly hurt him...but I wasn't hurt. But honestly i'm more annoyed than anything...how can you say time will fix the wound and make us stronger? When you have to clean and bandage the wound before letting it alone to heal? I feel like he's asking me to wait because he can just ignore this and bounce back to his gf anytime he wants.
He's an aquarius sun, libra asc and gemini moon while I'm Aries Sun/Asc and Scorpio moon.

Thank you let me know if you have more questions.

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Saille, I'm sorry. I hope you're not upset with me. :/

posted March 14, 2021 07:37 PM            

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- Oddly too, Just listened to a short Taurus video. Someone who is Taurus said "I think ,my  heart is dead ".  :/ Possibly he needs an ear to listen and thought of me.

Have you reached out to him yet?

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posted March 14, 2021 07:41 PM            

OMG NO! Not upset with you at all. I meant him. I felt it was more of an ego thing and me apologizing to him meant for him a win more than anything else I just don't see it that way.
I'm definitely going to give myself time to understand where my head and heart are. I replied to his message and asked him about a workout he planned for me...and this was yesterday and clearly he's choosing to ignore it.