posted March 27, 2021 03:46 PM            

Today is my 8th year anniversary with my man but I'd like to understand the relationship better. I've heard that composites are super important, even more so than synastry. Could you please help me read the composite and explain the aspects? I'm eager to learn about them

Composite: http://imgur.com/gallery/Iq2ZYfK

Davison: http://imgur.com/a/OkkPV6f

Him: http://imgur.com/gallery/mYfAeIy

Me: http://imgur.com/gallery/k0OVAns

posted March 28, 2021 06:13 PM            

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Originally posted by Stoika7:
Hi CappyLove!

With the Sun/Pluto/Mars in the 10th house and Saturn conjunct Moon the relationship looks very intense and long term, especially with the Moon/Jupiter midpoint conjunct to the stellium, you can really feel like ideal partners, I wouldnt rule out marriage even though Venus square to the Nodes and Uranus gives a lot of sparks and mental/soulmate connection, this may also look creative/artistic... there may be some instabilty with this aspect, or there's a very independent and uncommon trait or the relationship may remain unofficial, i.e. no official marriage, even though it looks like marriage cause Moon/Jupiter midpoint is conjunct MC.
I honestly don't like the Saturn-Moon/Chiron/Mercury t-square, this suggests there may be emotional issues at communication level, a deeply frustraring side despite all other positive traits. Otherwise, since Chiron is in the 6th house and Sun is in the 10th, there may be some issue or burden around career/work, hopefully not health issues, giving a stressful energy to the relationship.

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posted March 29, 2021 05:32 AM            

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Originally posted by Stoika7:
The Davidson shows the inner dynamic of the relationship, at soul/karmic level. Even though the Composite is usually more effective on the reality of the relationship...

In the Davidson chart it is clear that there's a big karma in your connection. You have a similar stellium conjunct IC and in the four house, so your "soul connection" is about family, you are members of the same soul family. The Moon/Saturn/Juno conjunction and the Juno/Jupiter midpoint conjunct IC/stellium points to marriage again, in any case a "lifetime" union. North Node conjunct Vertex is extremely fated, this is a clear soulmate aspect. There may be something difficult here, as the intensity of your exchange may not always find realistic effect, its a very otherworldly dimension carrying an unsolved aspect, is there an issue about making the relationship more "official" or about having a child ?

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posted March 29, 2021 11:07 AM            

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Originally posted by CappyLove:
Wow!!! That's ready cool in a way! When I saw him for the first time in life I was intensely drawn to him and couldn't stay away. I had to have him kind of sensation and I've never had that feeling with anyone else. I was ecstatic when I met him a second time and since then I cannot imagine a life without him.
As for marriage and kids, we've had some issues, yes. I've been pushing for it actually, nearly happened not long ago...we have a ring chosen and paid for and I proposed to him years ago, it's his turn to do so as he wasn't ready then. He has been using the excuse of a career and needed to be in a better and more stable financial situation before taking the responsibility of a marriage. I've tried to show him that I don't wanna marry him for his money and that we will figure it out. It doesn't make a difference if we are a couple or married when perusing the career. It's been 2 years of a yes/no kind of thing with marriage. We had a date, documents were on the way and as soon as it got very real he pulled away again. It's super frustrating cuz I won't be able to feel fully at ease until he gives me a marriage, I'm not even asking for a wedding at this point (though I do have a wedding dress even.) He reckons that marrying would lead to kids straight away and I am trying to assure him it doesn't have to be the case. He seems even more open to having kids out of wedlock but I'm against it. So it's a struggle but I'm not willing to back down on the title of a wife, it's important to me...

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Well, this context is a mix of what I can see in the charts actually :-) The energy for marriage is strongly there, even though with the Davidson Node/Vertex and Composite Chiron 6th house square Mercury, considering Sun in 10th house, there may be this career issue interferring and something "unsolved" or taking quite an effort to be achieved.