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ILovePoems Moderator Posts: 7695 From: Registered: Feb 2015
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posted August 06, 2021 09:21 AM
Recently I made a love deck. This deck is for open ended questions, so please no yes/no.I just want one sitter that will be able to give me quick feedback(?) But also please don't take these cards to seriously, I'm saying that because this is my first deck that I've made so I can't say if it's accurate or not but I have been using it. I'm still adding cards so I'm just trying to see how this may work out. So yeah, if anyone doesn't mind giving me feedback, please leave me your question. 😅 Edit: if anyone else wants to sit, I can read for one more sitter. IP: Logged |
Saggy7 Knowflake Posts: 787 From: Registered: Sep 2019
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posted August 06, 2021 09:50 AM
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Saggy7 Knowflake Posts: 787 From: Registered: Sep 2019
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posted August 06, 2021 09:51 AM
quote: Originally posted by Saggy7: Hi Poems, I can give it a try How does J feel about me? Thank you!
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ILovePoems Moderator Posts: 7695 From: Registered: Feb 2015
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posted August 06, 2021 10:11 AM
Saggy7Hello! Two cards fell out when I asked your question. Rushing - Having Regrets Now, I don't know if things have been going to fast between you and this person. But either it means that something was going to fast, or that someone thinks that if there was sort of rush between you two then there would be regrets about it? Unless someone was rushing and then the other person may have regrets about it. Only Friends - Communication - One sided - I Trust You I actually just added in the Only Friends card, I was thinking to make this card as like a friend zone type of card, so are you two friends or someone is friend zoning the other person for now? I see someone communicating, either about just being friends or maybe someone is noticing the other person is friend zoning then and wants to communicate about it or have been. One sided says that something is one sided between you two, so there something that is not mutual between you and this person. This may have something to do with friendship(?) But I Trust You card is maybe saying that someone wants the other person to trust them or they maye they are.. but I'm thinking someone is wanting the other person to trust them? Does this make any sense?
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Saggy7 Knowflake Posts: 787 From: Registered: Sep 2019
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posted August 06, 2021 11:03 AM
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ILovePoems Moderator Posts: 7695 From: Registered: Feb 2015
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posted August 06, 2021 11:51 AM
Saggy7Thanks for the feedback. I'm glad the reading made sense. Okay, if I'm understanding correctly you don't know if he is wanting to friend zone you, or you saying it's only you doing that to him? Since you saying that you are putting in more effort to communicate to him. Communication + one sided is saying that communication is one sided as well and there is a need to trust.
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Saggy7 Knowflake Posts: 787 From: Registered: Sep 2019
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posted August 06, 2021 12:00 PM
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javaweb Knowflake Posts: 1213 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted August 06, 2021 01:05 PM
I’m not sure if this question fits with your deck, but it is…How does KL feel now that I’ve revealed my feelings for him? He has feelings for me too, but he is in a relationship at the moment so I respect it.If it doesn’t fit then no worries <3 IP: Logged |
ILovePoems Moderator Posts: 7695 From: Registered: Feb 2015
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posted August 06, 2021 01:30 PM
Saggy7I'm sorry to hear that. Maybe if you can try hanging out with him then maybe he will put more effort into communication? If you know trust is the issue then, then you can try to get him to trust you. Also, you can try to talk to him on why he is acting that way towards to get a clear answer, in that way maybe things between you and him can be worked on together? 😁 I hope things do work out between you two. IP: Logged |
ILovePoems Moderator Posts: 7695 From: Registered: Feb 2015
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posted August 06, 2021 01:47 PM
javawebI can try to read on this and see what I get. Hesitant - Public - Mad - Shock Hmm... So hesitant shows there's some hesitation from him. Now I'm a little confused with Public because I put that card as indicating other people or like a community. So please bear with me while I try to understand this. Lol. Did you tell him where there were other people involved? Or a community or something? Or did you tell him in person and this card may indicate an online community as well. But I'm sorta wondering does it mean a circle of people that he may know because again Public is where there are other people and socializing with others. I also thought that Public could mean him becoming single like hesitant + public is saying there is hesitation on him actually being single. Mad + shock says there could of been anger or just someone being mad because this was a shock. It was unexpected. Sorry this was a bit all over the place, but the public card sorta made it confusing. Either the public card is saying there was community (online maybe) or somewhere out in public somewhere. Or this could indicate people that be around him (circle of friends or people he know) or him hesitant on becoming single. 🤔 Just to be sure. There wasn't hesitation from you, right? IP: Logged |
Kekerina Knowflake Posts: 136 From: Dreams <3 Registered: Jul 2019
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posted August 06, 2021 01:54 PM
Hello!! Can I have a reading please? <3 okay this is Will me and LC see each other someday? do we have hope as a relationship?IP: Logged |
javaweb Knowflake Posts: 1213 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted August 06, 2021 02:45 PM
quote: Originally posted by ILovePoems: javawebI can try to read on this and see what I get. Hesitant - Public - Mad - Shock Hmm... So hesitant shows there's some hesitation from him. Now I'm a little confused with Public because I put that card as indicating other people or like a community. So please bear with me while I try to understand this. Lol. Did you tell him where there were other people involved? Or a community or something? Or did you tell him in person and this card may indicate an online community as well. But I'm sorta wondering does it mean a circle of people that he may know because again Public is where there are other people and socializing with others. I also thought that Public could mean him becoming single like hesitant + public is saying there is hesitation on him actually being single. Mad + shock says there could of been anger or just someone being mad because this was a shock. It was unexpected. Sorry this was a bit all over the place, but the public card sorta made it confusing. Either the public card is saying there was community (online maybe) or somewhere out in public somewhere. Or this could indicate people that be around him (circle of friends or people he know) or him hesitant on becoming single. 🤔 Just to be sure. There wasn't hesitation from you, right?
Thank you for doing this I can see this! I was hesitant on telling him in terms of the timing - I wasn’t sure if I wanted to wait a little longer. I was hoping to tell him in person but that didn’t work out so I sent him a text which I know was unexpected on his end LOL so I can most definitely see him being shocked. The attraction was always there although never verbally expressed. In terms of community hmmm…my 2 close girlfriends know about this situation, not sure about the people in her circle. In regards to the mad, maybe he’s mad that’s he unavailable now (in a relationship)? Not sure what’s that like since he’s very private… All in all, I can see this resonating!
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ILovePoems Moderator Posts: 7695 From: Registered: Feb 2015
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posted August 06, 2021 02:46 PM
KekerinaHello. With this deck I can't answer those questions because it's a yes/no. IP: Logged |
ILovePoems Moderator Posts: 7695 From: Registered: Feb 2015
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posted August 06, 2021 02:54 PM
javawebThanks for the feedback. Well if it doesn't mean a community then I would see it as being single and that could indicate him being mad about it. But if public mean single for him then I do think it may change the hesitation towards him then instead of you? But yeah I'm thinking it did made him mad because he isn't single and it was unexpected. That public card really threw me off 😅 did you had feelings for him before he got into a relationship? Because then the hesitant card could be you and you was hesitant on telling him when he was available (hesitant + public). And that what could of made him mad at the time. IP: Logged |
javaweb Knowflake Posts: 1213 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted August 06, 2021 03:08 PM
quote: Originally posted by ILovePoems: javawebThanks for the feedback. Well if it doesn't mean a community then I would see it as being single and that could indicate him being mad about it. But if public mean single for him then I do think it may change the hesitation towards him then instead of you? But yeah I'm thinking it did made him mad because he isn't single and it was unexpected. That public card really threw me off 😅 did you had feelings for him before he got into a relationship? Because then the hesitant card could be you and you was hesitant on telling him when he was available (hesitant + public). And that what could of made him mad at the time.
Hmm maybe he was hesitant too at some point before he got into a relationship. I honestly believe though had I not told him I liked him, he would never had shared his feelings. Don't know how long he's been in the relationship he's in now so not sure, but I was hesitant for a few months...Thank you!
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Kekerina Knowflake Posts: 136 From: Dreams <3 Registered: Jul 2019
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posted August 06, 2021 06:04 PM
Okaaay heres another quest thanks, okay, what does feel LGC about me? and what does feel JAMM about me? thanks a lot for reading meIP: Logged |
Saggy7 Knowflake Posts: 787 From: Registered: Sep 2019
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posted August 07, 2021 09:07 AM
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Saggy7 Knowflake Posts: 787 From: Registered: Sep 2019
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posted August 07, 2021 09:08 AM
Oops, this was an accident. Thank you for your kind words, Poem, I am really okay either way. I always find peace in knowing that it all happens for a reason and what is for me will never miss me IP: Logged |
ILovePoems Moderator Posts: 7695 From: Registered: Feb 2015
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posted August 07, 2021 10:59 AM
KekerinaI'll try to answer those and see if it make sense to you. For how L feel about you: A card fell out Competition. Now either there has been a competition about you or maybe this person feels there are other people that may want you? Maybe this person feels they have to fight in order to get your attention or get what they want. But I do think competition means that there could be other's involved or at they think that they have someone they are up against. You're Selfish - Mad - Stay - Shocked So the Selfish card is saying someone may act mean or rude. Maybe even just plain selfish. Either someone feels the other person is selfish or they are acting that way. It does seems that someone is angry or upset and I think someone wants the other person to stay and not leave. Now it shows someone is surprised or it was unexpected. Let me know if this make any sense. For J
Stealing - Happiness - I Love You - Take It Slow So... Stealing indicates taking something that isn't theirs. I would assume that this is how he is feeling? I do wonder was/is he thinking of stealing you or taking you and maybe you belong to someone else? I didn't put much meanings behind the stealing card but either it means someone is taking someone/something that isn't theirs or someone is doing something bad(?) But happiness indicates someone feeling happy about it. There is feelings coming from someone as this tells me that someone is in love. But someone is trying to take it slow or being slow about it. So maybe someone does love the other person but there is a need to take things in a slow pace. Let me know if this make sense to you? IP: Logged |
Kekerina Knowflake Posts: 136 From: Dreams <3 Registered: Jul 2019
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posted August 09, 2021 12:58 AM
quote: Originally posted by ILovePoems: KekerinaI'll try to answer those and see if it make sense to you. For how L feel about you: A card fell out Competition. Now either there has been a competition about you or maybe this person feels there are other people that may want you? Maybe this person feels they have to fight in order to get your attention or get what they want. But I do think competition means that there could be other's involved or at they think that they have someone they are up against. You're Selfish - Mad - Stay - Shocked So the Selfish card is saying someone may act mean or rude. Maybe even just plain selfish. Either someone feels the other person is selfish or they are acting that way. It does seems that someone is angry or upset and I think someone wants the other person to stay and not leave. Now it shows someone is surprised or it was unexpected. Let me know if this make any sense. For J
Stealing - Happiness - I Love You - Take It Slow So... Stealing indicates taking something that isn't theirs. I would assume that this is how he is feeling? I do wonder was/is he thinking of stealing you or taking you and maybe you belong to someone else? I didn't put much meanings behind the stealing card but either it means someone is taking someone/something that isn't theirs or someone is doing something bad(?) But happiness indicates someone feeling happy about it. There is feelings coming from someone as this tells me that someone is in love. But someone is trying to take it slow or being slow about it. So maybe someone does love the other person but there is a need to take things in a slow pace. Let me know if this make sense to you?
Well with L it was always a platonic love...He knows that im single now, maybe is because he is married, maybe the competition is from me to his wife I dont know.. and with J well he is an ex who really treated me bad, so I feel like the stealing is because je may think that i have patner and it would be fun to him to steal me, I guess. He always tries to contact me but I never response, we havent talk im years.Keep practicing with that desk,I really have the hope to really see LC again ): I dont ever want to lost him anymore. IP: Logged |
ILovePoems Moderator Posts: 7695 From: Registered: Feb 2015
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posted August 09, 2021 08:48 AM
KekerinaSorry that the reading didn't resonate. I hope you do see L again though. I keep trying to practice with this deck and still adding new cards. 😁 Do you have a known question that I can practice on and see if it make sense? IP: Logged |
ILovePoems Moderator Posts: 7695 From: Registered: Feb 2015
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posted August 09, 2021 08:49 AM
Does anyone have a known question that I can practice on?IP: Logged |
marciamia Knowflake Posts: 166 From: Registered: Apr 2016
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posted August 09, 2021 09:29 AM
quote: Originally posted by ILovePoems: Does anyone have a known question that I can practice on?
If this question works: What is going on with my current situation with C? IP: Logged |
ILovePoems Moderator Posts: 7695 From: Registered: Feb 2015
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posted August 09, 2021 09:49 AM
marciamiaOkay so the first time I shuffled the cards, I don't think it will make sense. If you still want me to mention the cards I got the first time, just let me know because I honestly don't know if it will resonate. 😕 So the second time I shuffled these cards came up
Dishonesty - Sad - Betrayal - Reunite So what I got here is that maybe someone was not being truthful or someone thought someone wasn't being honest about something or just in general. There is sadness here, so someone must be sad or upset about it? Betrayal tells me that someone felt betrayed and reunite indicates wanting to come back together. Maybe rekindle or just being together? Does this make sense? IP: Logged |
marciamia Knowflake Posts: 166 From: Registered: Apr 2016
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posted August 09, 2021 10:29 AM
quote: Originally posted by ILovePoems: marciamiaOkay so the first time I shuffled the cards, I don't think it will make sense. If you still want me to mention the cards I got the first time, just let me know because I honestly don't know if it will resonate. 😕 So the second time I shuffled these cards came up
Dishonesty - Sad - Betrayal - Reunite So what I got here is that maybe someone was not being truthful or someone thought someone wasn't being honest about something or just in general. There is sadness here, so someone must be sad or upset about it? Betrayal tells me that someone felt betrayed and reunite indicates wanting to come back together. Maybe rekindle or just being together? Does this make sense?
So this resonates to how I currently feel. I thought they were being dishonest (they weren’t), I’m sad over what’s currently going on and feel a bit betrayed. And am wanting to rekindle and reunite. IP: Logged |