posted August 11, 2021 03:34 PM            

I would like to ask for your help regarding one question: Am I ever getting married?

My 7th house is empty, does that answer my question?
Looking back on the past, I have had some really beautiful relationships, but I did not see myself marrying those people. But that is another story...

I have moved to a new country since 3 years ago and I feel lonelier than ever. And I just hate online dating. It is the first time I realize loneliness is not so cool, so different from what I have felt before.

If you could help me with any information regarding my future love life or a potential life partner, I would be very very grateful <3

posted August 11, 2021 05:23 PM            

You have NN (your destiny) in the sign of Taurus, a sign that loves security, luxury, long term relationships, in the 5th house, a house of fun, dating, children in the loyal house of Leo.

It is your destiny, but not an easy one for you to accomplish, because your giant Scorpio stellium is on your south node, so it's easier for you to be a suspicious lone wolf that keeps people at arms length. But it's holding you back.

So you know that famous saying - to achieve what we have never gotten, we must do what we have never done. So you'll have to go against the comforts of your nature to achieve this.

You also have Chiron in your 7th house, conjunct your DSC. So the relationships you've been in may have been painful, traumatic on some level, where you've had to play the part of the healer.

But the transiting north node in Gemini is actually going over your DSC right now, so whatever romantic seeds your planting may actually bloom in the near future (if you're doing any of this at all).

Jupiter in Pisces will be going over your 3rd/4th house all of next year so it actually might be an auspicious time for a relationship.

posted August 12, 2021 12:24 PM            

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Originally posted by athenaia:
I would actually say you are *destined* to be in a partnership.

You have NN (your destiny) in the sign of Taurus, a sign that loves security, luxury, long term relationships, in the 5th house, a house of fun, dating, children in the loyal house of Leo.

It is your destiny, but not an easy one for you to accomplish, because your giant Scorpio stellium is on your south node, so it's easier for you to be a suspicious lone wolf that keeps people at arms length. But it's holding you back.

So you know that famous saying - to achieve what we have never gotten, we must do what we have never done. So you'll have to go against the comforts of your nature to achieve this.

You also have Chiron in your 7th house, conjunct your DSC. So the relationships you've been in may have been painful, traumatic on some level, where you've had to play the part of the healer.

But the transiting north node in Gemini is actually going over your DSC right now, so whatever romantic seeds your planting may actually bloom in the near future (if you're doing any of this at all).

Jupiter in Pisces will be going over your 3rd/4th house all of next year so it actually might be an auspicious time for a relationship.

Your 7th house ruler is in its fall (Mercury in Sag) so that may be another thing holding you back... have you ever considered dating younger (DSC in Gemini)?

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That actually sounds comforting. I've kind of lost all hope by now.

So I have to put myself out there more, move towards the light. Sounds like involving a lot of deep inner work.
But I don't do well in online dating. I'm mostly secretive and can hold a conversation about anything but myself. People want that you tell them who you are, but I appreciate more discovering things about each other along the way.

About my previous relationships, you got that right, it did require some healing but they were pretty much stabile.

I'm not planting any seeds, so clueless
I'm starting a new job in September, maybe that will help.

I have considered dating younger. It's also mostly younger guys approaching me. Why do you ask?