posted November 07, 2021 09:08 AM            

These are the cards and my interpretations…but I could use an alternate perspective since I’m clearly biased!

What do you think?

What is the Page of Pentacles trying to tell me?
- Judgement
- Wheel of Fortune
- 5 of Cups (clarified by Knight of Cups)

Interpretation: It is time to review the relationship, where we are, the role of external factors, and address disappointment and sadness (can be done by injecting some romance and fun back into the relationship a la Knight of Cups).

Does this mean A and I can grow and develop our relationship?
- Strength
- The Lovers
- 7 of Cups ( clarified by 4 of Wands)

Interpretation: Strong bond and will to see things through; being strong in making decisions about what is realistic; will need to be realistic if we hope to achieve a solid foundation (4 of Wands).

What is the advice for how I should act in and in relation to the relationship?
- Justice (received a few times already for present)
- 10 of Cups
- 9 of Swords (clarified by 9 of Pentacles and King of Wands - two cards came out together)

Interpretation: I should act fairly and in a balanced manner (not over-giving or vice versa), and from a place of loving caring; I should address my anxieties by focusing on myself and being independent/setting boundaries (9 of Pentacles) and being clear about what I want in my relationship (King of Wands).

posted November 10, 2021 03:22 PM            

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Originally posted by StarX:
I have debated myself whether or not I want to continue the relationship. He has changed pretty drastically toward me and the relationship (in not good ways) and I’ve lost some trust in him as a result. Though he says he will try harder. Does it seem worthwhile to give it a chance?

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The best way to read the cards is to post the full spread. So what else was in your initial relationship reading with that page of Pentacles.

And look at those cards and combinations. Instead of the clarifying.

posted December 12, 2021 09:27 PM            

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Originally posted by StarX:
It wasn’t one single reading it was multiple readings over a month resulted in the page of pentacles making an appearance, which is why I did a spread specifically to ask what that card was trying to show me.

It didn’t turn out okay. We broke up today even though neither of us wanted to. We felt like we had to. And I’m devastated.

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Hi, thank you for the update and I'm sorry about your break up .

To me the cards were saying that the Page of Pentacles was a fated message (or conversation, etc), about what you wrote (reviewing the relationship) even though it may bring some disappointing words/sadness.

I just don't use 'clarification' cards because that just brings on more confusion (in my opinion). It's best to work with the cards you've already drawn.

Strength/Lovers/7 Cups

I see illusions and having other choices/options around. Perhaps fantasizing about other people (maybe not just him, but you two) as well, but a lot of lust existed/exist in the relationship, but for me this is a no due to being too unrealistic/dreamy - not having your feet firmly on the ground in the partnership as well as having other options around. Sorry if this doesn't resonate, but it's how I usually interpret these cards.

The advice cards were actually predicting the separation to me. It indicated emotional unhappiness and worries/anxiety. So, I'm assuming it was telling you that you should've either been ready for a separation due to the negative emotions listed, or you should've been the one to let go of the relationship.

Did you follow the advice as you interpreted it? Is that what caused the break up? You don't have to reply to that if you don't feel comfortable doing so.

Either way, hope this has been helpful. I hope you heal soon

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ReadingsbyAzul

posted December 13, 2021 02:48 PM            

I was too attached to the relationship because I was acting out of past hurts and trauma and my anxiety around that. He is dealing with a lot of life trauma right now (not related to our relationship) and has been for the past year. When we talked he indicated he doesn’t have capacity for a relationship and can’t be emotionally available in the way I deserve. But I also know he puts too much pressure on himself in that regard and it breaks my heart.

A pair of cards I got yesterday about the relationship but questions focused more on me as the reader (together in the present position - 2 cards for this spread, not a clarifier - and then together in the crowning/future positions) are Strength and Six of Swords. But I have not made a commitment to move on. I don’t want to and I very much want him back.

A celtic cross today asking where I’m headed on this path as it relates to this heartbreak and my partner had Two of Swords (crowning) and Two of Cups (outcome). Nine of Pentacles was in the immediate future. Nine of Swords was the present and Eight of Cups what crosses.