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posted November 16, 2021 01:16 PM            

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Back in March, my ex and I broke up. I thought he was the one. Things were starting to look up & last month I lost one of my closest friends to a tragic accident. Will things start looking up after my Saturn return is over? Do I have to wait until Saturn is in pisces or just after it passes my natal Saturn?

Thank you. I’m just at a loss right now. My friend would’ve been a bridesmaid at my future wedding. Now I have no man or friend to do that with.

I want children so badly, but it seems like forever.

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posted November 17, 2021 01:56 PM            

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posted December 02, 2021 09:19 AM            

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posted December 02, 2021 03:14 PM            

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Hello.

Sorry to hear you're going through this.
I would say the events are not related. Your Saturn Return is coming up in a few months. I wouldn't worry about it much. My only concern is that Neptune is going to be transiting your 3rd house. You should guard against anxiety, unclear thinking and deception.

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posted December 13, 2021 01:41 PM            

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I'm sorry about your losses. I would say yes, it could be related to your Saturn Return. Our Saturn Return brings in events and catalysts that shock us out of how we've lived our first 27 years and how we will change and move forward into our next phase of life. This is why many astrologers believe we don't truly become adults until we go through our first Saturn Return.

It's a transition that usually starts within 1-2 years prior to the exact SR date and lasts 1-2 years after as well. We learn to let go of things that have been holding us back, whether it be career, relationships, ourselves, etc, and sometimes if we won't do it ourselves, life will do it for us. Treasure your friend, they decided to be part of your life and to give you this lesson/gift, and they're looking down on you cheering you on.

You have a earth trine and grand square in your chart which means you have the power to do great things and you may have been holding yourself back based on south node in cancer desires to be the peacemaker and part of the crowd, or relying on the support of others. Capricorn north node is your key to finding your way back out, but give it time, time heals all.

With empathy and love.

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posted December 17, 2021 02:07 AM            

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Im so sorry for your loss 💔
I don't know how I would function if I lost a dear one.
I'm going through my Saturn return as well. I've just ended a relationship with someone I was deeply in love with too.
I believe this is Saturn return at play and I just have a general feeling of malaise as well despite my usual peppy disposition.
When this transit it over, it's said to make us stronger, as we are clearing the slate and shedding the things that aren't serving our purpose. Everything that's happening now no matter how sucky is paving the way for us to move forward in the next stage of our lives.
Saturn in Aquarius is in one of its signs of natural rulership, and will be peregrine in Pisces.. Its effects can be felt well before an exact conjuntion. I think once it's separated 8 to 10 degrees away we might statt to feel better.. mine is exact at the moment 😭
Hang in there with me xxx

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posted December 17, 2021 02:15 AM            

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