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posted November 20, 2021 12:01 AM            

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We have been friends for a year. We met online, and then recently met up in person and shared our feelings for each other. Now he wants to get into a long distance relationship. I am hesitant for a few reasons. We also tend to clash a lot. It’s like our egos are constantly at odds. But we also, have this sort of transformative effect on the other where it could lead to major growth for us both. I’m also going through a saturn square my venus transit but I believe it’s gonna end soon . We also have his Saturn square my moon in our synastry. He can also be kinda intense at times and I have a tendency to attract overbearing men. But I’m not sure if it’s feeling his saturn harsh aspect to my moon or the mars square mars. I’m not sure what I should do next. I feel like it’s my call. I would love some insight based on our synastry. If y’all can give me any type of feedback it’ll be much appreciated!!!

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He’s blue I’m red!

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posted November 20, 2021 06:56 AM            

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If you two get together it'll definitely cause some major growth, and major destruction.

All these Saturn themes and the Chiron so close to the node point to this being a relationship to teach you two some kind of lesson and
to help shape you in some fashion.

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posted November 20, 2021 07:59 PM            

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Curious what you mean by major destruction ! I’m all ears . Thanks for your response

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posted December 01, 2021 03:03 PM            

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Originally posted by artificial_paradise:
Curious what you mean by major destruction ! I’m all ears . Thanks for your response

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artificial_paradise,
I think 'major destruction' means that the relationship will be so hard that it won't work out, or if it does work out, you two will have gone through major difficulties that will have changed you both.
Saturn - pain
Chiron - old wounds
The combination in the theme of your attraction and his character just screams "learning big lessons" which usually ranges from uncomfortable to very painful.

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posted December 03, 2021 11:47 AM            

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thanks for your response! I will keep this in mind, i do get a sense that we bump heads a lot and trigger each other's wounds. I feel i trigger his wounds more (subconsciously), but he also is pushy in other ways that trigger my own.

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posted December 24, 2021 06:14 PM            

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Bump!

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