posted January 15, 2022 10:01 PM            

I connected with my dogs sisters parents who are interested in having her. I love my dog more than anything but my lifestyle is never going to be fair for her. These people are the only ones I would even consider as they have her sister so they know similar personality traits of them, and also they have a house with a yard and live in a very outdoorsy and active city.
This would be the hardest thing I have ever had to do but I think it would be the best for both of us.
A year ago I ended up rescinding my rehoming idea which I bro k upset them as they were very excited about the prospect. Now I think I will be ready(within the year).

I will tell them that if it doesn’t work out to give me her back as I don’t want her shuffling through or ending up in the shelter.

posted January 17, 2022 12:17 PM            

I'm sorry for your and your dog's situation. 💙
I hope you will find a good solution.

What kind of reading do you prefere - tarot, psychic, astrology...?

posted January 18, 2022 06:46 AM            

So that's why I opened your thread.
Before I had even read the first sentence halfways, I unexpectedly saw and felt a picture/vision/scene.
It was in the home of those people, a scene of the future, there is a lot of light - I'm seeing it again now and it is 'continuing'.
It was and is a very beautiful scene, the light in that home and on and from out those people and both dogs is very much full of joy and warmth and even sparkling...

posted January 18, 2022 12:41 PM            

I also saw yesterday already, that it is recommended (from above) that you should be very soft and careful with the feelings of your dog (and your own) when you bring her there.

The transition should be smooth, not suddenly and hard.
For example :
Maybe let her stay there 2 days first and pick her up again, then next time, after a few days, let her show you if she wants to stay permanently already.
I saw that it's important to be sensitive and loving, but at a certain moment you must ignore her spontaneous wish/instinct to follow you as the leader of her pack/family and in case it is necessary, push her softly but a bit dominantly to the other humans, to make clear that they are the new leaders.
They should support you then by holding her when you leave.
But she might even show you after a while, that she wants to stay there.
That will not mean, that she loves you less, but that she has accepted her new family as her pack and the people as the leaders.
And she will feel that you are glad for her and will want to show you that she is happy, so you won't worry...

It could all hurt you and her a bit first, but you will feel happy, because you know she does as well.

In case it is possible, you could visit her sometimes, you both would like that.

All of this belongs to the 'recommendation'/message (not from me), but I never give any guarantee, I'm just human...and ofcourse I don't expect you to believe anything.
All the best for you two. 🍀 🧘🐕 🐞

posted January 20, 2022 06:57 PM            

Ofcourse only you know the whole situation and must decide yourself what is best. 🙂

At the moment I don't perceive any general messages for you, tell me in case you have anything specific in mind.

Only your dog was communicating with me a bit after I had finished my other posts and showing some emotions towards me, but no messages included.

The only question I would maybe have is how you experienced what I wrote and how I presented it/acted...(except the language barrier, I know my English is not perfect).
I'm not doing this professionally (not planning to either) and I'm not yet very experienced to 'read' a situation like this, where I see the potential of a future situation.
Mostly I see in the past or present (departed people often).
So a very honest and open little feedback could be helpful, since I want to be helping people, not the opposite.

I actually didn't want to do this online anymore, but couldn't ignore my spontaneous, unintentional vision and your boths' difficult situation...💙

posted January 22, 2022 08:07 PM            

This is so sad, I must digest this a bit...
I'll be back in a moment...

posted January 22, 2022 09:44 PM            

She didn't give me her oppinion directly about the possibility to live at this other place in the future
(but I saw in the vision that she was happy there), but she gave me the same little red heart, that you put at the beginning of your last post.
I saw her and suddenly she let that little heart, exactly that emoji (I was wondering), float through the air towards me - that's right now a sign for me personally, because I'm a doubting Thomas mostly...🙂
That was independent from the content of that message, but just for my effort for her, right now she is telling me : and for you (she cares for you...)
It was also shown to me at that time, that she is one of the spiritually far developt dogs (a bit complicated to explain how that was shown).

Thank you for your helpful feedback.
In case you like, maybe you could write something about the whole problem, possibly someone else or I would have some ideas ?
Why do you have no friends or family ? You seem like a very nice person...and why the dark garage ?
If the questions are too private, tell me and I'll delete them.

posted January 23, 2022 01:40 AM            

Also with my dog I had to quit my job and everything is around her - I basically just walk her multiple times a day and play with her so she is never alone bc she has anxiety and I don’t want to get kicked out of apartment if she cries. But I am totally alone, and I feel like it is now awkward talking to people as I rarely do anymore except when I get coffee or to the shops. Now I just do online selling stuff but it is not the same.
This is also why rehoming I have considered as i need to live my life without feeling guilt for going out, traveling, etc. I tried dog day care but she got attacked both times and it didn’t work. This other family has her sister and they say she too has anxiety issues so maybe they could help eachother. I don’t know. I just want to experience life and I think my worries for her stifle that.

Don’t feel sad for me, I believe I must have been an awful person in a past life so I must deserve this life like karma or something though I would not wish what I have lived on anyone.

posted January 23, 2022 09:46 AM            

but meanwhile wanted to tell you that I have the feeling, that today would be a good day for being open for or even starting something regarding the idea of rehoming... to be open inside about it, maybe contact, possibly even visit those people.

I know, this sounds much too quick, sorry, these are just possibilities I'm seeing.

Actually what I mainly perceive is this day, Sunday, looking, being, feeling like a wide, open, sunny (yet a bit winterly) landscape, open for this idea/project.
This is only how this day looks in the non physical regarding this, not necessarily in general regarding everything.

You know the whole situation better, I'm just mentioning an energy/possibility in this day, I'm seeing.
In the Sunlight (even in case it should be cloudy).
There is a blessing for this project in the light of the Sun today at this Sunday.

Also the (Sun/day)-light at this place seems important, as I saw before already.

🌄

posted January 23, 2022 07:07 PM            

I'm feeling very sad for you about your loneliness. 🤗
What you're discribing as your ideas for your future sounds good to me so far, but I could imagine you are a bit insecure about really leaving your isolation, that you didn't choose without reason.

In case you want to talk more about it, I'm willing to listen, maybe others might want to help as well...

In case you feel like it, you could maybe write about, what you think could happen if you would leave your isolation or what the problems in the past exactly were with family or friends...

posted January 25, 2022 11:30 AM            

You are right I think I have been comfortable in the isolation after a point as it felt safer, but safety is relative, because I think I endanger myself by this isolation.

posted January 26, 2022 01:08 PM            

Also our unconcious will cause us to feel/see things worse than they are, just to have a reason to maintain the status quo (short sighted security) and look for all kinds of confirmations, which we will find, because of our insecurity and the dynamics caused by it...

For example maybe also the problems regarding the possible rehoming of your dog.
Ofcourse in the very beginning it might be not easy emotionally for you both, but if you really try to look into the future as objectively as possible, I could imagine you know logically and deep in your heart, that it looks bright for everyone involved...
You don't need a medium for that even, but to be sure, it was maybe good that you asked for a reading, since your dog cannot send you an email if things wouldn't work out.

If you are insecure, your dog will feel it and might develop anxiety when you're not there. 🤷🐕
As a result you'll have the impression that you are both dependent on eachother and a seperation would be devastating.

If you empower yourself and her, be careful and loving during the transition, I think you will both be shining like Suns. 🌞
And you can always visit...

Maybe you could find somebody you can trust to talk about those problems you had with some people treating you in certain ways.
In person would be best, if there is no other possibility, I'll try to help. 🤗