posted March 06, 2022 03:51 AM            

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Originally posted by Springtimeflower:
Hi Kira!

Today was much better in not picking up the Virgo energy. Yes, she is under 40. I think something interesting will happen after I leave. I also took a little bit of a break today as well, but still got some things finished. The neighborhood has a lot of that energy. From the info I could find, a lot of them either have their sun or moon in Virgo. The 4OC's has both in Virgo. The transit of Saturn in Aquarius is squaring both my 4th and 10th house cusps at the moment, but that will finish out by the end of this month.

My pupper seems to like my mother's backyard and spending some time there, but she is ready to go home when we leave--as she may see it as only a busy place for me right now..my mom also seems more comfortable there. Yes, I will be relieved when we are fully moved.

I think your time away has helped you a lot. You seem refreshed, relaxed and less hurried then before.

I hope your mother gets some inspiration from reading those paperbacks. I've put the writing aside for now but hope to start again after we move. Eloquent Sky suggested I get some smokey Quartz to help with keeping the faith and it's also good for creativity. Maybe make some jewelry for your mom with that stone in it for her to wear.

I'm happy to hear that you found a writing platform that makes you happy as your creativity in choosing words always seemed to sneak into your readings and our notes back and forth.

I think businesses are having a hard time getting quality people or maybe just ones that want to work. Hopefully as things get better or return more to a normal state with the virus, your husband's workplace will start to do better and hire more people.

I've already started thinking about my mom's yard and what could be done with it. We have another cold front coming next week. Morning low in the 40's and warming up to the low 60's. She needs some fast-growing shade trees and more native shrubs that are drought tolerant. We don't get the rainfall here that we once did.

Hope you finished all your home renovations and the collaborative project that you were working on as well.

Sending lots of good energy your way.

Spring

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Hi Spring.

I was going to respond sooner, so much other than that thread I started was thrown into my trajectory. I thought that other thread was dated, Christmas feels so far back now.

4OC is going to be in your past soon. I do believe many are clinging to their lower versions, which is sad. That move will most definitely be good for you energetically.

Your pupper is happiest where you go, as she's very connected with you. That move will be good for her too.

Thank you! I'm actually reoeasing myself from looking at any news, st9ries, commentary on current events. My energy took a huge cleanse from that alone. I am hurried still, yet not on LL as often. Actually I started a reading T channel on a video platform, it is very cathartic.

Nice suggestion regarding the smokey quartz. I tried to get something in that gemstone before but forgot that quest. I think there's many good qualities in them.

Things change so quickly, 4 of his co workers just quit. Which might change that outcome for the better. Time shall tell.

A cold front there too? We are expecting snow soon too ~ maybe. I suppose your ground isn't planting ready. I get excited when Spring is near. Spring fever maybe.

My mom is getting closer to something.
Her nature is to become tired if stagnated energy. She'll find herself in the Hanged man energy and decide something. Sagittarius Sun. She gets tired if ruts.

Yes! Our revamp on the homefront is finished. We found new teaspoons, a few small furniture pieces to make our garage an extension of the home more. It is a happier home here for our boys too. They got new cat furnishings.,

High, beautiful energy to to you too!
Be well and stay warm.

~ Kira

posted March 06, 2022 09:18 PM            

I remember you also liked to start a new thread to renew the energy, so it's all good.

What's interesting about the 4OC's is that I had the one person in the neighborhood that wanted things to also be nice stop by and leave me their business card. I called them and it was the usual (someone else in the neighborhood had already tried)--trying to find out what my plans were in a roundabout way (spying for the 4OC's) --they complained about their yard (a tenant not doing what they were supposed to) and the same neighbor next to them and said they might as well sell their property..I told them that that would be their choice and then I said nothing...I drove by and didn't see anything wrong with either yard..you are so right that I will be relieved and leave them all behind. Too much superficiality and games. You were right about me collecting boxes, too. With Pluto moving so slow..it's been challenging to downsize and let go of stuff..my brain is ready to let of some stuff now, but not other stuff yet...

My Sun and neptune conjuncts my pupper's moon and and all of that trines my moon and my pupper's neptune..we do have a good connection..

I need to do that with the news, etc. as it is so sad most days..that's great on the reading channel..you will do well...

I think we will have only one colder day..on the planting..maybe soon, but it may start to get hot already...sometimes the hit comes in mid-March like Summertime already..

My father was a Sagittarius Sun..he enjoyed sports, bicycling (when he was healthy)..., but I can see how he would get restless and start doing something different..

Happy for you on finishing your big project.

What's also interesting is that I started thinking about all the different readings that I had on what would happen after my mom passes. One reader saw me living with a family and I actually dreamed something like that--my pupper was running around the room, but that I had what seemed like furniture filling the room. There was a man with his grown daughter and grandson at the grocery store one night. His daughter was asking him if he liked a particular vegetable. He said that it was too hard to prepare. He was ahead of me in line and I looked at what he was taking out of his cart..all junk...I joked with him--looks like there's nothing healthy in your cart. He showed me his jacket--told me he was a nurse at the hospital, knew what not to eat, and had a house full of people living with him (apparently daughter, son-in-law and grandchild)...after he paid for his groceries, I said enjoy your groceries--he felt like he had won the discussion..it was an interesting connection, though..think he may have been an Aries Sun....then I thought about the card you pulled..the canyons, hiking, etc.

I bumped into a mother and her daughter (she has two puppers like mine--same breed) and asked about a restaurant near where she works..one of her friends works there...they serve British, Irish and other fare at that restaurant..one person saw me doing waitressing..I couldn't do that now with my mom here..

I'm glad to hear that you are refining your boundaries, so you have more balance and get rest as well.

Thank you for all the good energy, suggestions and well wishes...

Sending good vibes your way..

posted March 07, 2022 08:15 AM            

Take care..

posted March 07, 2022 11:59 AM            

Yes, new energy comes in like a Spring morning.

That 4OC energy is very small minded. Ir whomever is the complaining energy. You are at the wheel turning with leaving this toxic location.  I'm happy you're being on your toes over prying eyes and small minded spies.

I understand that challenge in downsizing.  I try to release things, yet struggle with, will I need it in the upcoming times? They say if we don't energetically align with something,  use it or touch it fir maybe a full year,  it isn't something we're likely to miss. Idk, that is a fuzzy area.

I just know myself, I can be drained and enormously sad, agitated with the negative cycles of news stories. I reoeased myself if seeing any of it. I simply don't align with it. My reading is better with my abandoning it too.

 That's funny, we're both Air Sun signs and we each have a Sagittarius Sun parent. Thank you. My guy is happy in the garage too. I found the right additions to bring some comfort. 

 I wonder what capacity the reader you mentioned, saw the family you resided with. Romantic involvement with the man? Interesting connection to the older  hiking, canyon reading. Hat you said here ... ".. ahead of me in line .."  really makes me winder if there's something to that. Maybe you meet him somewhere? Whee he starts just before you. Moving to a location or something similar?

Reading your added msg, I think you are aware if the need to use temperance.  Hopefully it would dilute and dissipate the negative energies.

 If you ever want a reading,  I'm  around.

Have a lovely, high vibe day!
~ Kira

posted March 07, 2022 09:31 PM            

I went by and double checked the yards (from a distance it looked better)..seems what she was complaining about was true, but you are right about the energy. I think I know what the 4OC's trigger will be, too, and I'll give more feedback later. The complainer could also be playing both sides as well.

My Virgo sibling visited for my mom's birthday earlier this month..think he hoped that I would walk away..so he could say something about me to her, but I talked about stuff in the news...he said our mother sounded really good. It was just like you read--she would thrive in my care. You had also read for me that I wouldn't fall for their shenanigans (he doesn't visit very often).

The hard part with downsizing for me, I think, is that some of the stuff I never got to use much or projects left unfinished, but if my life were different I would be able to. My Cap ascendant wanting to plan things. On the one tarot website I mentioned to you, I often get a card that says my life serves a greater purpose in helping someone else, but that I also tended to give too much (energy) away. Capricorn energy.

On the guy..I remember a reader telling me that I will have a man after my mom passes one day. My mom would be happy...and some of the things she saw my mom doing in spirit make complete sense with her. While meditating or in dreams, I've never actually seen what he looks like--a couple of times he faded out before I could see him..the British accent..the waitressing makes sense since I remember a girl from high school who told me she met her husband while waitressing and working at another company. Maybe I'll end up trying that, too. When my mom passes, I won't be able to stay in her home..as it would have to be sold...home prices are going up a lot here, so maybe I move in with the family instead of renting an apartment...start working outside the home and then meet a guy...then move..the feeling I got in my dream was that I would be a borderer with the family...the reader didn't say that I had a relationship with anyone. I know my pupper was happy with living there...

Sending happy vibes!

posted March 07, 2022 11:04 PM            

I just read for you, hope that everything in your restoration of the drywall works well. Thank you so much for your reading for me too. It's had me in such a quandary.

4OC might be easily triggered and it occurred to me, as I read your msg that what if that third party is a gaslighting type. Someone who stirs a pot to have an unhinged type do their bidding. Just a thought.

I'm glad you were on your toes with your sibling. I think your instincts really are aware of their immature/narrow minded side. This sibling might envy that you have been so wonderful with your mother's care. It was something they had secretly wished you may had failed at.
You mentioned Capricorn rising, your shadow rising is Cancer. When the chips are down and you're needed, you show up like a big nurturing energy. You might not wear it on your sleeve, it would still there irregardless if other's believing it until you are at bat (baseball jargon).
Your mom knows, pupper and many others. Doubters are one's simply looking only surface level.

I understand all too well regarding how you feel about releasing things you want to use but life threw a monkey wrench. I have a sewing machine I can't seem (pun intended) to part with. Yet it take space. There's a lot of change foisted on us as American people, change wasn't asked for, yet it is like a huge ball chasing us, Indiana Jones style. A bit dramatic. lol but I understand your position. In my situation, we are all combined in our living standards. One error, loss could be a tower card for us here

With your reading from that reader and your maybe being a border,
it might not be long term. It could be transition. Your sweet girl (pupper) would be balanced though by the sounds of this. Maybe pulling together with others brings a "family" feeling were these to be good people.

That guy is an interesting element though. Brits live in America too. I was thinking, there's some that might move here I know of. So ironic possibly near where you are. It's reaching. I was just thinking how coincidentally that is.
This waitress story has an intriguing possible tie, if you were to serve coffee/tea to a Brit who lives or travels to the USA. If you ever want us to revisit the Brit, I'm open to that too.

Your energy feels very clear Debbie.
Just like a Libra in a high vibration!
Wait .. you ARE that. I think these outsiders you have had were tests. Tests that brought you up, frequency higher than before they (those tests) arrived.

Happy, abundance and high vibration to you.

Hugs,
Kira

posted March 08, 2022 09:30 PM            

Thank you. You are welcome. I'm glad it helped in some way. Hopefully when I move I'll have more time to do more readings.

It's possible, but the 3rd party is most likely the wife of my sibling with the narrow viewpoint. Think she sends messages to the 4OC's through a mutual contact on FB. What's interesting is the company that picks up our yard waste hasn't picked up hers--think the company tightened up on following their policies--if what you put down isn't a large pile of stuff, then it needs to go in a container. I believe someone knew a person that worked for the waste company and told them not to pick up what I put down. One time it took them over a month to pick up and then a completely different crew that I had never seen before came and took what I had. Think the karma--what comes around, goes around has started to kick in already for them. Many months after I stopped putting the yard stuff down and I took a chance again, my ESP then picked up..I'm sorry maam I can't do that..so they tried again--think it was the 4OC's.. The stuff I put down was picked up like it usually is. Not sure what else will happen..

On the NM sibling..they were doing things to try and make me fail...not helping very much..some of the nonsense that went on at the short-term care/nursing places. When my mother was at the first one, she told me one day (the sibling earlier told me that his wife would be visiting her with him), if you don't want to take care of me, I can go live with H (a different male sibling). Remember back in the days when people used to hypnotize others and they could say a word or just be present to activate what they had told them? It's almost that way with the sibling and his wife. I noticed that when the NM sibling visited and didn't get alone time with her, she didn't say anything when he mentioned his wife. Before she would smile and say..how is she..like a light bulb came on?

Thank you for sharing the acknowledgment of my efforts and how people and my pupper may see me. I know my pupper realizes how much time I spend caring for my mom..there will be less distractions for the pupper as one neighbor down from me (think he makes noises to spook her--another Virgo)..I put some country music on and played it outside..I picked up his wife telling him--you shouldn't be messing with her dog. She picks up the scents from other people that she doesn't like and then runs around the backyard--makes it hard for us to play..there are more dogs around her in the neighboring yards where my mom lives.

I think once I finish some projects, I will part with more things on the crafty/sewing side..

Your possible scenerio in me meeting someone doesn't sound far fetched as I had already thought about one restaurant I wouldn't mind working at--and I can see meeting him there--

I bumped into a girl that my pupper enjoyed visiting--stopped going there because the nonsense followed from the sibling..we talked and I mentioned B, the guy I had been interested in..I knew it would go back through the grape vine..I felt good that I said what I needed to. I thought she was a good person, but think she is being manipulated by the others. She had been hit by a car while crossing the road as she tried to take a picture; and I remember someone talking about how dark energies can make a deal with you to help you heal faster. She said that she healed up really fast and was out of the hospital rather quickly.

As for B, there was even a country song about a woman who pined for a particular man, but everything that happened in the relationship was on his terms..whether they would date or not date, get married or not get married, even eating out or staying home, etc. B was very much like that, but I guess I just never acknowledged it until I had time to think about it...he was from the let's get married and then work it out old school...not good...especially if you weren't compatible to begin with..

My sun is in scorpio, but in the 9th with neptune near by--gives me the softy look to others. My mercury and venus are in libra and are being trined/highlighted by the planets transiting in Aquarius.

Yes, I do feel like my vibration has come up a lot.

Hope you continue to get rest and rejuvenate yourself. You've been a beacon again on LL and I can really see others appreciation more for you than before. The rest has given you a balanced approach to your readings and they are responding to that energy.

I also hope all goes well with your husband's work, so you can continue doing what you love to do.

Sending higher vibrations back to you and hugs for you and your family.

posted March 10, 2022 06:16 PM            

 In-laws can be toxic. I know this myself. We all are varied by our maturity in spiritual sense. The inner awareness of how treating other's shouldn't be low vibration. Eventually they/anyone who is in that way, will experience a boomerang effect.  Social media is very base level vibratory too. Today I messed up and spoke to another reader regarding their reading being good, they responded with an immediate block saying I'm there as competition and I'm simply blocked.  Even light types on these social places bring some low attitudes.  Sad that too many need to grow beyond these energies.

Your SIL will some day face her own energy and if she ever grows, she'll recognize it. As you said, which so true " Think the karma--what comes around, goes around has started to kick in already for them" ~

 It is nice in the end you were vindicated regarding your mother, she  has been better cared for with you. She's the only ine you've needed to make happy. Which she certainly sounds as though she has. You feel like a conscientious daughter. Your pupper too has been good for her. The jealousy is a reflection, they realize they *could not* had done better themselves.

 You're wecome.
It's  always nice to see they (fur pals) recognize us for our actions.
They don't have a person's voice to say "that was nice of you mommy", yet they have special looks they give. Adoration,  seeing the warmth you embody when caring for another.
 

Music is so therapeutic.  I've been doing my radio playing again too. It brings more lightheadedness. Wonder which country music  you listen to. I have in past liked some.

 It's too bad we're so far apart.  I have sewing, craft things I may be releasing. My life is about to change drastically. At least in the next 9 months or earlier. I need to create room for what will be most necessary. In terms of "extra" belongings.
 

 The girl your pupper visits, that is unfortunate both her accident and she has been influenced by lower energy ones. She used nefarious actions to recover quickly?
Spell magick?  That sounds like a mistake. I've heard that it can really backfire.

  B sounds mutable?  Is he a Pisces,  gemini,  Sagittarius or the other mutable? That quality is frustrating.  I'm partly that myself but to be honest,  in my circumstances,  I'd be far worse if I didn't have the one mutable.  Fixed is very rigid.
  With B, could that be why it didn't  continue with you?
I botched your sign. Sorry. I think you might be Libra in sidereal thrn.
Very spiritual placement though, 9th.

Awe, thank you. Yes, my pulling away and resting is good.
This year sring come in and I realized everytime this time a year I'm  exhausted with no reason. Every year. It is my birth that my dna recalls. It was a very troubling birth but my actual due date was Pisces season. I just past that date, it really dragged me to fatigue. I am back to dipping  my toes in, not my feet - fully.

Thank you!  I do hope as well with my husband he remains happy and it will keep us going the right direction.  Old things have surfaced. His doctor also quit his prescriptions so we need to get him on holistic healing. His job is a factor in his stress, blood pressure.
Honestly I wanted him off prescribed drugs so long, they easily threw his way, so long ago. He is the type to hold his hand open for quick remedies with long term ramifications.  I'm happy he has to quit them but he's  argumentative about changing certain behaviors. 
 With time maybe he'll  overcome that.

posted March 11, 2022 10:25 PM            

Yes, after transiting Neptune left my first house, I saw things more clearly and still do. On the reader...some of that is just ego and not positive at all.

On my mom..someone saw the NM sibling as the prodigal son..think that may have been you..it's so true..when he and his wife were busy raising their children, they didn't have as much time for the nonsense as they seem to now. Thank you for your kind thoughts..with transiting mars squaring my natal neptune right now...today was tough..lower energy..just doing so much each day, but I keep moving forward with making the change..think I figured out what to let go of with the furniture today..will donate it..

I will be happy when I can slow down with the pupper..feel like I'm rushing her at times, but some days it's hard to find a few kind souls that will pet her.

The song that B was listening to and then thinking about himself was Better Man, sung why Little Big Town and written by Taylor Swift. I think he recognized it in himself, but then brushed it aside like that's just the way I am. He has mars in Sagittarius opposite uranus in Gemini. He told me that his mother (if she's still living now..close to my mom's age) was in an assisted living facility and that one of his daughters was helping her. I don't think he is interested in anyone that helps to take care of their parents like I am. What's interesting is that his on again and off again girlfriend, as you call her, shares the same birthday with my mom and her natal venus is 27 Cap just like my mom. I think transiting pluto will make its last conjunction to their Venus in October 2023. So weird the similarity. What's interesting is that I picked up on him intuitively saying Can you help me out here? Like he was doing all the work around the house..just like me..my mom has helped some, but I think she has less energy now..

I listen on occasion to the newer country..

I think someone on LL talked about it once..it's like a lower energy coming to you and making you an offer (when you are in pain or at your lowest point)..I still believe that people can be intimate with others that have the lower energy and can pick it up the negativity from them..

Thank you for thinking of me with your sewing and craft stuff..I will be making stuff for Xmas to give away..and clean out more stuff..if you're teaching tarot classes, you can make cloths to wrap their cards in or something like that...easy stuff for friends/family..

Interesting how your energy levels seem to change..are you outdoors much during the early Spring?

On your husband..sodium reduction and eliminating sugar in his diet will help him to deal with any stress that comes his way. A shower in the evening to remove any negativity he picked up from work and it should also help to ground him...

posted March 12, 2022 06:10 PM            

  It's  nice when Neptune isn't adding optical illusions in our situations. Yeah, people who are apt to use energy unwisely (not aware of their useage of it),  are easily triggered if they are bored, less directed as your one brother and SIL seem to be. One wrong transit, it can emphasise that.

I understand  that "lower energy" you spoke of. My mother gets "low vibe" and it's  been ups and downs with her, my whole life. She's  a Taurus moon and moody/controlling. Those whom are receptive of the lower vibe/challenging transits, can absorb the darkess far too easily. 

Releasing items is difficult on some moreso. I  have a lot of fixed energy. I get too attached,  I have seen this in myself. Last we spoke of me thinning down, I thought "im okay, I got this" but since have seen - maybe not as much as I thought!

Pupper will enjoy the more relaxed lifestyle. 

Oh, I think I know that song, they're  a good band. B's on/off gf sharing your mom's  birthday is interesting.  I think we see mimicking in our lives often. In people and dates, names etc.
That date they share might be meaningful to both you and B. Maybe things each year in transit show some event for you too?
So your mother is very similar to her? That is so funny, ironic funny.
*hugs* and high vibes to your mother. 

The country band's I most liked were Dixie Chicks and Lady Antebellum.
Yet I think both are renamed now. Oh I have a massive crush on Kid Rock too, he's talented imo.

I agree  regarding the LL person's comment. Lower energy, exhastion, sadness, giving into fear or lower thinking can really reel in unwanted energies, that's  why white light and high vibe thinking is so essential when dealing with energy working. 
Just living life in these times, asidefrom crystals and cards.We have certain dark energies hunting  any weakened sheilds.

 I had thought of that too, regarding creating pouches and such for the tarot cards. I am uncertain how much to release. I have one ordinary machine and one marvelous one but they are aging now. If I'm  unable to put them to use soon anyway, deterioration might set in. I think we purchased them in '09.

Maybe someday life will improve, our world especially. I'll  buy a new one if I'm to return to sewing. I honestly didnt master the art, I just learned the basics.

Haven't been getting outdoors enough to be completely honest. We have a lot of homelessness right around us. It isn't as pleasurable a walk when some arr very low v. just on the pathways. I  don't begrudge them at all, I do feel bad, it's  just some have terrible habbits and hold anger. Towards anyone. Carrying light, dark carriers always seen to navigate towards me.

  Thank you, with your advice for him. He remembersto get a shower sometimes first thing. Other times he grabs the clicker and gets lost in splashing screens. lol We are discussing his dietary changes. I need this too. Several  years ago I was in phenomenal shape, my mother and hubby - not so. I had some hardships cause me to decline backwards,  I eat as horrible as they do anymore, so this is a family  change. I say this knowing it's  harder this time - we all are older now. Yet I'm weight training (+cardio) again, hubby is physical in his employment.  I think he will quickly see an improvement. 

Thank you Debbie, for everything!
Happy, high vibes to you and your ♡Pupper, + mother too!

posted March 13, 2022 09:12 PM            

Some people know how to tap into people who are experiencing those Neptune transits. Sad. I think the girl that had the accident has a planet affected by it, but also an aspect in their chart/character that makes them gullible. I'm thinking J has an Aquarius Sun, which would give her some planets in Pisces or another sign affected by the Neptune transit. She is both eclectic and unique in her hair and clothing choices. I had an intuitive reader tell me something a few years ago and now it makes sense with some of the stuff they are spreading around about me. When my life changes after my mom passes, it will dispell what was said about me and makes sense what will happen to my SIL. She said my NM sibling will notice it, too. Karma..the boomerang you call it...same thing the SIL has been trying to do towards my mom and I. What's also interesting is the natal Mercury square Saturn that I have in my chart..it rules my 5th, 8th and 1st houses..Gemini on 5th and Virgo on 8th...one of the characteristics I've read in books on this aspect describes it as being narrowminded..Gemini..twins..and also youth..two brothers..both taking a narrow view of things..Gemini also represents neighborhoods, superficial..makes sense there too..not seeing the big picture..only focused on some things..

The SIL also has her saturn return coming 29 deg pisces...things will have changed for me by then..she also has her moon in taurus like your mom, but it's opposed by neptune in Scorpio and the opposition is squared by her mercury in leo..she and my brother lead their motorcycle pack and that includes B and his off and on again girlfriend...

I thought at first that I couldn't part with some of the stuff and didn't, but now I thought about how infrequently I use the items..I have an electric fireplace (not expensive), but then thought about the electric bill going up when using the heat--just like having central heat..I also noticed that I have some non-materialistic and instead they are more spiritual transits happening, which is helping me to thin things out as you call it.

Yes, I think the pupper will enjoy it more and also that I'll have more time for her.

Your kit kats seem to be very enlightened. Are they with you in each lifetime?

On the birthdate and planet similarities, pluto rules destruction...B's last square to his natal venus occurred this past December..her conjunction from pluto to her natal venus continues up and until next year and is the same for my mom..not long after the conjunction to my mom's venus it will make its last conjunction to my natal jupiter.

My mother is thrifty, but she has her natal saturn squaring her venus...the gf has saturn trining her venus...think she has benefitted from the men around her, and also has her moon in taurus like my SIL. The gf is very attractive to guys and so was my mother when she was younger, but my mom's moon is in Leo.

I also like the Dixie Chicks and Lady Antebellum..there are a lot of new female artists now, too.

Your sewing machines aren't as old as my mom's (she bought it when I was born) and one that she gave me for my birthday (she purchased it from a man that was getting a new one for his wife as a surprise). Oddly, he passed away not long after selling it.

I took sewing in school in the 6th and 8th grades. I enjoyed it, but as the years passed, I got too busy with other things (mostly working too much).

Sad about the homeless people there. I see them around every so often and I know what you mean..

I'm glad you are working as a family to help to improve on your eating habits.

Sending happy vibes back to you and your family. Be safe out there..even though it looks like masks are on the decline again..

posted March 22, 2022 09:40 PM            

I'm glad you are taking periods of rest. You are helping me to do the same.

I wanted to give you some feedback on what you wrote:

4OC might be easily triggered and it occurred to me, as I read your msg that what if that third party is a gaslighting type. Someone who stirs a pot to have an unhinged type do their bidding. Just a thought.

I think when they see a particular commercial on TV, someone mentions something that is or isn't directly related to me or someone else they don't like, it reminds them of something else that has happened related to them or the neighborhood and it helps to trigger their behavior. This also makes me think of one chore that I will do right before moving and that may trigger something else into happening as their focus will start to go elsewhere. I also think the third party is gaslighting them as well just like you said. My other brother's ex, who has been buddies with the SIL, would stir the pot at her workplace. The ex tried to backstab me at our niece's first wedding...coincidentally she had a truck come out of nowhere in a parking lot and hit the back seat on the driver's side of her car, which caused her to have a "back" injury. So weird how karma works.

Also, you had given me an idea on how much the repair work that I needed would cost..they are more experienced as you said than some of the others and very close to amount that you predicted, but it may change later this week--could be exact, too.

I did get some TLC this week--haircut today and resting on the patio with the pupper. I think she was surprised to see me out there.

Trying to decide on home people I've talked with to help me when everything is fixed. L, F or R. The first two are girls. They all seem to be experienced, but maybe I just need to meditate on them or look elsewhere. What's interesting about F is that she recommended a guy to help with my repairs, but he never sent me a message or followed up on our conversation. I picked up intuitively that he mentioned to her that I had gotten her referral..she passed on to at least two people..thinking that she told the clients that there was a possible home coming up for sale..but what bothered me was her saying that if she didn't get the sale, that she would get two percent more..

L seemed to really want to help me, was very experienced and good at what they do..kind of pushy and then when I backed up to contemplate and do what I'm doing now with the repairs, she softened up and became more human..she wanted to work with me on the percentage then, too, but they handle both sides of any sale and another person (for another much smaller cost) works with the buyer..

R has a lot of drive...he's very sales oriented and knows how to spin a good deal (almost too good of one) and wanted to work with me on their percentage..also, he's the only one of the three that has followed up consistently...

Thought about getting one more person to help with a door (the insulation--I have the pieces already, but I'm not strong enough to pull out the old stuff and put the new stuff in), some trim on the pantry and the baseboard in one area...just wondering if all that would be overkill or inconsequential. I was thinking about one of those chain type handyman services.

I looked at the chart you posted. It's a very challenging one. My head is kind of up and down now with trying to move stuff around and do some decluttering. Once things are more settled for me, and if no one else takes a look at it, I'll give it a shot.

I saw a couple of weeks ago that they are making daylight savings time permanent. Hope you are enjoying the extra daylight some--even if just through the windows.

Sending you lots of good energy and thoughts.

posted March 23, 2022 07:28 PM            

Sending you very high vibe energy.
Be well and I'll be back as soon as I'm
more clear in thinking.

Kira

posted March 27, 2022 03:33 AM            

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Originally posted by Springtimeflower:
Hi Kira!

I'm glad you are taking periods of rest. You are helping me to do the same.

I wanted to give you some feedback on what you wrote:

4OC might be easily triggered and it occurred to me, as I read your msg that what if that third party is a gaslighting type. Someone who stirs a pot to have an unhinged type do their bidding. Just a thought.

I think when they see a particular commercial on TV, someone mentions something that is or isn't directly related to me or someone else they don't like, it reminds them of something else that has happened related to them or the neighborhood and it helps to trigger their behavior. This also makes me think of one chore that I will do right before moving and that may trigger something else into happening as their focus will start to go elsewhere. I also think the third party is gaslighting them as well just like you said. My other brother's ex, who has been buddies with the SIL, would stir the pot at her workplace. The ex tried to backstab me at our niece's first wedding...coincidentally she had a truck come out of nowhere in a parking lot and hit the back seat on the driver's side of her car, which caused her to have a "back" injury. So weird how karma works.

Also, you had given me an idea on how much the repair work that I needed would cost..they are more experienced as you said than some of the others and very close to amount that you predicted, but it may change later this week--could be exact, too.

I did get some TLC this week--haircut today and resting on the patio with the pupper. I think she was surprised to see me out there.

Trying to decide on home people I've talked with to help me when everything is fixed. L, F or R. The first two are girls. They all seem to be experienced, but maybe I just need to meditate on them or look elsewhere. What's interesting about F is that she recommended a guy to help with my repairs, but he never sent me a message or followed up on our conversation. I picked up intuitively that he mentioned to her that I had gotten her referral..she passed on to at least two people..thinking that she told the clients that there was a possible home coming up for sale..but what bothered me was her saying that if she didn't get the sale, that she would get two percent more..

L seemed to really want to help me, was very experienced and good at what they do..kind of pushy and then when I backed up to contemplate and do what I'm doing now with the repairs, she softened up and became more human..she wanted to work with me on the percentage then, too, but they handle both sides of any sale and another person (for another much smaller cost) works with the buyer..

R has a lot of drive...he's very sales oriented and knows how to spin a good deal (almost too good of one) and wanted to work with me on their percentage..also, he's the only one of the three that has followed up consistently...

Thought about getting one more person to help with a door (the insulation--I have the pieces already, but I'm not strong enough to pull out the old stuff and put the new stuff in), some trim on the pantry and the baseboard in one area...just wondering if all that would be overkill or inconsequential. I was thinking about one of those chain type handyman services.

I looked at the chart you posted. It's a very challenging one. My head is kind of up and down now with trying to move stuff around and do some decluttering. Once things are more settled for me, and if no one else takes a look at it, I'll give it a shot.

I saw a couple of weeks ago that they are making daylight savings time permanent. Hope you are enjoying the extra daylight some--even if just through the windows.

Sending you lots of good energy and thoughts.

Hugs to you and your family,
Debbie

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Hi Debbie.

It's good to hear you're resting up too.
Thank you for your understanding my delay in return. My energy has waned from various energy tasks and people, 5of wands energy.

It is sad how easily some fall for gaslighting but I think so many are very creative using energy to do it. Which the good things they could do should far exceed a trickery energy. That's too common people enjoy toying with others.
In the triggering, there's a "programming" theme that many don't recognize in the tv viewing that may PGM them.
That is interesting, the truck incident.

My fingers are crossed that you are sealed with a reasonable price and the restoration goes smoothly too.

Oh the new hairdo. I envy you. It must have been a treat. My hair dresser quit and since then had a stroke. She was terribly busy after a move. Which she pushed too hard.. it's sad. I think she'll be fine but she's not enjoying their new home yet. As she's needing recovery firstly.

R sounds like a very good option from your description. The chain handymen you speak of may be your best option as they may offer guarantee on final results.

I think that chart was a blended energy like composite I threw up there. No hurry, thank you if you do. I have a strange situation going on that I'm embarrassed to go into detail but the twin flame Journey is the crux of it and this was a coworker dynamic we met at.

I like that and don't. The Daylight savings. To make it permanent, I feel they opposite way might be better for afternoon, evening light. Weird imo.. but the accident rates are very bad around these clock changes. Hopefully that will prove a major decrease once this is complete and set.

Hugs, wishing you happy energetic frequency and sunny days. For your mom and Pupper too.

posted March 27, 2022 09:58 PM            

Resting now. Earlier today I put primer on the ceilings. One area I just covered what was fixed. Now I'll wait till it dries well and I can paint it all. You had read for me that I would choose one that had more experience than another one (an apprentice). Thinking that was my other brother that helped me as he got a little less $$ than the ones that did this work (more experienced). Once I get all the painting finished, I think everything else will go faster. Taking a break tomorrow, but rain is forecasted and usually the humidity rises, so will try to finish before the end of the week.

The NM sibling showed up again today. They tried to ask me (in a roundabout way) what time I get up in the morning. I told him that my pupper can make it different for me every day. I think that was coming from the intrusive 4OC's as he sent a text message yesterday that I missed until earlier today saying he wanted to come by. I had told my mom on the way to the car only 15 min before the message came that I would need more primer so I could work on all of it today. Think the 4OC's passed that info on and the SIL thought I would be in the garage while he talked with our mom. Those microphones on video cameras work very well..there's an echo between our homes and I can hear someone talking while they are standing on my sidewalk. Luckily my mom was sleeping late today as I was finished before he showed up.

I think the 4OC's knows I'll be leaving, but will most likely continue to visit the circus tents until I move. On the gaslighting, when people only think of themselves, there seems to be no limit to their nastiness. People don't always see through those types, though.

According to the newsletter I get from Astrodienst, April 1 will be an interesting day as deep wounds from way back in the past will surface, so maybe these people including the 4OC's will start to see where their behavior is coming from.

On the handyman..the reviews were really good or bad, but another person in a nearby city has started up a franchise and they have better ratings..don't know if they would cross over, though. Many like to add on lots of $$ to anything that is added to the original project.

The last time I had my haircut was Feb 2021..when the stylist looked me up in her computer, she thought it was Feb 2022..my hair had grown about 6 inches. Thank you for sharing your hairdresser's story...

I was thinking about R...just need to talk with them when I'm ready..

Thank you for sharing the info about the chart..I usually just compare the two separate charts..it's harder for me to read the blended ones.

If you want me to read on something for you, just let me know.

Hope all goes well for you and your family. Be safe, too.

posted April 02, 2022 09:16 PM            

Hope you are doing well, feeling better and on the mend. Sending you big hugs and healing energy.

Just wanted to give you a brief update. I started the selling process today and need to do a few things first before the listing is active. I had my energy return some today as well, but just finishing the paint in one area was tough. People I'm told are buying these days without them being perfect, so hopefully that works. I pulled some cards on picking R and got Knight of Wands as one card--think that represents him, but also got King of Wands, so maybe that is the buyer. I don't remember the other cards. I'm guessing R is a Leo and he said he is analytical, so maybe some Virgo or Libra in his chart--most likely his natal mercury.

Anyways, what you said makes sense..soon is what I'm thinking, too. R said that they are getting multiple offers on all the listings, so that fits, too.

Take care. Be well. Reply when you're up to it.

posted April 06, 2022 06:10 PM            

More feedback..my intuition picked up a conversation the 4OC's was having with her mother--I won't have anything to do when they move...

You were right about them using the 🎪 tents as something to do..and that it would become more difficult... trying to find a circus tent..

posted April 13, 2022 09:31 PM            

It's been a busy couple of weeks or so for me.

How are you and your family doing?

More feedback..you mentioned that things would become more difficult for the 4OC's with the circus tents..I sensed that this has been happening lately as well..

Hopefully you're on the mend and haven't injured yourself more...sending you healing energy and hugs.

I should have more feedback for you soon.
Time for me to get more rest.

Take care. Sending you good vibrations kind of like the Beach Boys....

posted April 15, 2022 11:06 PM            

I am sorry I didn't respond sooner.

I'll be back in awhile with a response. I hope you're doing well.

Thank you for your tarot answers too. I'll also be responding there too.

Hugs,

posted April 16, 2022 03:47 PM            

quote:

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Originally posted by Springtimeflower:
Hi Kira!

Resting now. Earlier today I put primer on the ceilings. One area I just covered what was fixed. Now I'll wait till it dries well and I can paint it all. You had read for me that I would choose one that had more experience than another one (an apprentice). Thinking that was my other brother that helped me as he got a little less $$ than the ones that did this work (more experienced). Once I get all the painting finished, I think everything else will go faster. Taking a break tomorrow, but rain is forecasted and usually the humidity rises, so will try to finish before the end of the week.

The NM sibling showed up again today. They tried to ask me (in a roundabout way) what time I get up in the morning. I told him that my pupper can make it different for me every day. I think that was coming from the intrusive 4OC's as he sent a text message yesterday that I missed until earlier today saying he wanted to come by. I had told my mom on the way to the car only 15 min before the message came that I would need more primer so I could work on all of it today. Think the 4OC's passed that info on and the SIL thought I would be in the garage while he talked with our mom. Those microphones on video cameras work very well..there's an echo between our homes and I can hear someone talking while they are standing on my sidewalk. Luckily my mom was sleeping late today as I was finished before he showed up.

I think the 4OC's knows I'll be leaving, but will most likely continue to visit the circus tents until I move. On the gaslighting, when people only think of themselves, there seems to be no limit to their nastiness. People don't always see through those types, though.

According to the newsletter I get from Astrodienst, April 1 will be an interesting day as deep wounds from way back in the past will surface, so maybe these people including the 4OC's will start to see where their behavior is coming from.

On the handyman..the reviews were really good or bad, but another person in a nearby city has started up a franchise and they have better ratings..don't know if they would cross over, though. Many like to add on lots of $$ to anything that is added to the original project.

The last time I had my haircut was Feb 2021..when the stylist looked me up in her computer, she thought it was Feb 2022..my hair had grown about 6 inches. Thank you for sharing your hairdresser's story...

I was thinking about R...just need to talk with them when I'm ready..

Thank you for sharing the info about the chart..I usually just compare the two separate charts..it's harder for me to read the blended ones.

If you want me to read on something for you, just let me know.

Hope all goes well for you and your family. Be safe, too.

Debbie

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Debbie, I apologize for my Very tardy responses. As well for my quoting. I'm unable to utilize my notepad as easily as I'd like. I'm going to respond each message separately.

How did your restoration projects go?
I believe you may say in an upcoming message I've yet to respond to.
4OC may have deliberately teamed up with that SIL so they could both be stalker-ish. Which is pretty. Sorry you have that to deal with. I am someone that has had my share if outsiders doing it too. Definitely low vibe energy. These individuals have much growing to do. Though I know if now if two that are in their 60s. It seems some just don't wake up to it.

I wonder if Apr 1st brought old wounds out for 4OC. I am envious of your getting your hair done by a professional. I'm bathroom barber still. lol I need to get a new one sometime this year as my hair may need evened in layers, back etc. I use my thinning shears too. So it might be an awful look in the back. Yikes.

Regarding the read you did, thank you so much. It resonates well. I'll respond to it after I get everything here updated with response.

posted April 16, 2022 03:52 PM            

quote:

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Originally posted by Springtimeflower:
Hi Kira!

Hope you are doing well, feeling better and on the mend. Sending you big hugs and healing energy.

Just wanted to give you a brief update. I started the selling process today and need to do a few things first before the listing is active. I had my energy return some today as well, but just finishing the paint in one area was tough. People I'm told are buying these days without them being perfect, so hopefully that works. I pulled some cards on picking R and got Knight of Wands as one card--think that represents him, but also got King of Wands, so maybe that is the buyer. I don't remember the other cards. I'm guessing R is a Leo and he said he is analytical, so maybe some Virgo or Libra in his chart--most likely his natal mercury.

Anyways, what you said makes sense..soon is what I'm thinking, too. R said that they are getting multiple offers on all the listings, so that fits, too.

Take care. Be well. Reply when you're up to it.

Hugs,
Debbie

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Hi Debbie.
I'm all better. I am having more issues with a situation-ship than with my injuries now. It's always something. Nothing a few weeks of good rest can't resolve.

How's the sell of the house going? Is it sold yet? Did a KO-W buy it already?
R sounds like he had the best mind, capabilities to get this sold though. Maybe Your worry there is all history already?

posted April 16, 2022 03:57 PM            

quote:

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Originally posted by Springtimeflower:
Hope you are doing well Kira!

More feedback..my intuition picked up a conversation the 4OC's was having with her mother--I won't have anything to do when they move...

You were right about them using the 🎪 tents as something to do..and that it would become more difficult... trying to find a circus tent..

Take care,
Debbie

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Debbie, she said you would have nothing to do when you leave? Is she a complete narcissist? That's a myopic view from her.

These two really need to get therapy. It's sad they worry more about other's than working on themselves. I'm sorry you've endured this. Was this street by chance a dead end or culdesac?
In my experience, those neighborhoods are often full of toxic neighbors. Shenanigans etc.

Hugs,

posted April 16, 2022 04:59 PM            

quote:

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Originally posted by Springtimeflower:
Hi Kira!

It's been a busy couple of weeks or so for me.

How are you and your family doing?

More feedback..you mentioned that things would become more difficult for the 4OC's with the circus tents..I sensed that this has been happening lately as well..

Hopefully you're on the mend and haven't injured yourself more...sending you healing energy and hugs.

I should have more feedback for you soon.
Time for me to get more rest.

Take care. Sending you good vibrations kind of like the Beach Boys....

Debbie

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I haven't injured myself. But ...
My husband hurt his hand badly. It's been a month ago tomorrow. He keeps getting it cleaned up and they find more stitches that weren't removed previously. It's been hard on him. He's unclear of hand useage until June.

Thank you, I'm sending you healing energy too.
Kira

posted April 16, 2022 10:16 PM            

I think the full moon got LL here, too. The screen is doing some weird things with the website. I'm seeing three more white squares besides the one I'm typing in.

Actually R told me I didn't need to finish and he was right..people interested and not concerned about me not finishing with a fresh coat of paint in the living room.

I don't know what all that my SIL and the 4OC's are up to, but they are similar. Growth or maturity is needed for sure. April 1st could have brought more wounds out for the 4OC's--another trigger as you called it. I started thinking about all the stuff that went on over the last five years while living her--it was a great purge for me.

I had an $8.95 coupon for my haircut. I was taken aback at the price they want now. I remember when it was $10 or $12. It's now $24. When I was leaving, I saw an older woman by the door waiting to get her hair done. I asked her if she would like the extra coupon I had. She looked at me and I handed it to her. She said thank you and then looked up at the price board. After that, she said thank you very much. Sticker shock. My hair was getting into my eyes and before when I tried to cut it, I don't think it was straight, so I can relate to the DIY thing.

The full moon tonight was big and beautiful. Went looking for more groceries. Never thought I would go to multiple ones to get what I needed.

Glad to here that you are mending.

The last initial fits--think that may be the parent of the one that is interested. I'll let you know how it goes.

The 4OC's said to her mother, "When she moves, I won't have anything to do." Their mother said, "You can come over here (think she said something about a swimming pool at her home)." They don't live together. I think I know what will happen when I leave, though.

Most of those neighborhoods have people that just greet each other, and nothing more.

I hope your husband's hand gets better. I think I remember you saying something about it before..long time healing. Sending him good energy.

Hugs. Sending you uplifting energy, so you can get through each day more easily.