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Topic: Why am I bad at communicating?
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PensivePisces Newflake Posts: 13 From: Registered: May 2022
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posted September 23, 2022 12:17 PM
I've found that I'm a very poor communicator. Many people say that I'm judgemental and rude, because I point out their "flaws". But I don't see them as flaws, but apparently they do. I'm usually just pointing out facts. And they get upset and claim that I could just keep it to myself, but if I don't point out the facts of things, I wouldn't have anything to say, and would be practically mute, which they would also complain about. Is there anything in my chart that could explain why I'm like this?https://imgbb.com/LZxkL4y IP: Logged |
vansio Knowflake Posts: 2412 From: the outskirts of Delphi Registered: Dec 2017
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posted September 23, 2022 03:42 PM
Read more about “combust Mercury”; this is what causes it. Your Mercury (and retrograde) is tightly conjunct Sun; when combust, this means that the native cannot think outside of their own ego. The self-ego blinds the analytical processes. quote: Eg Let’s check out the combustion of Mercury in detail.Mercury being so close to the Sun will be combust in about 25% of the horoscopes. So what happens is that the Sun will draw up all the power of Mercury to give results. It is like he will evaporate Mercury’s essence. The closer he is, more intense is the evaporation. All keywords of Mercury are now appropriated by the Sun. The Sun will decide how to use them. The separate agency called “Mercury’ has stopped existing. So if you have such a Sun in your horoscope, all your Mercury related abilities will be diverted only for your selfish and self-oriented purposes. Mercury is a very important planet, the son of the Moon. Thinking ability, way of thinking, using the memories and data available in your astral self, direction of thought, skills, networking, financial ability, speech, creation of options, boldness to act, siblings, trades, etc. All this will be directed to the self. You will not bother about others while using your Mercury talents. eg You can hurt others with your speech and not be even aware of it or lying is easy if you consider it necessary for your own needs. Mercury controls teamwork, so you fail at this miserably, you cannot work in a group nor can you listen to other’s opinions. Having a good time with siblings and brothers can be impossible. Getting others to cooperate with you can be difficult and you feel that you don’t need their help. But it doesn’t work like that in real life. Everything we do, we need some help from others. The self-ego blinds the analytical processes. Over-confidence and then problems are quite common with this placement. You might waste energy in projects which are logically unable to succeed. This false sense of self-ego over-shadows the intellect. And strangely in the background there is low self-esteem too. The planet knows that he has been destroyed by the harshness of the Sun, so exists in a highly uncomfortable state. The Sun is a natural malefic, remember! He feels a mix of defeat, fear, debilitation, inferiority, he is sitting with a malefic and just wants to die! Thus you feel an inner sense of inferior in the matters indicated by the planet. But there is the overshadowing self-referential influence of the Sun. So this mix turns into a superficial exaggerated bravado in the matters controlled by Mercury. You internally know that all your Mercury abilities are hollow but you cannot stop yourself from projecting that you are superior in their context. It can get quite mixed.
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 162808 From: I hold a Juris Doctorate (J.D.) and a Legum Magister (LL.M.)! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 24, 2022 11:49 AM
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 162808 From: I hold a Juris Doctorate (J.D.) and a Legum Magister (LL.M.)! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 04, 2022 02:26 PM
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