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Stawr
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posted November 02, 2022 04:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Stawr     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am really at a crossroads right now in my marriage. My husband kind of makes me sick to my stomach. I think our marriage might be too toxic. I don't think I can be with someone who for certain issues only wants to cooperate when I am completely fed up, burned out, don't care anymore. I feel like I am doing all the work, and coming up with all the ideas to fix things.

We do have certain compatibilities. Certain things we make a great team.

I've been contemplating having an affair...that's how beyond my breaking point I am. I've been contemplating opening our relationship. I've been contemplating divorce.

I've cried that I've got to this point. I've kinda grieved that if I go through this, I might not have my own biological children. My husband and I were going to try to have kids next year. My husband also has motivation issues having 3 planets in the 12th house. He is in therapy for his childhood sexual abuse, and for our relationship.

Anywho, I am more than happy to post my chart up here. I thought I would first ask, are there any asteroids that I should add?

I discovered that I have Juno square Mars in my chart. This can lead to not feeling appreciated or satisfied in commitment. But then I also have Juno sextile Saturn. I see it playing out as I am a great partner who works hard but gets under appreciated.

Also I have contemplated if I do actually divorce my husband... I have considered trying to be in an open relationship, swinger, poly, etc. Because with my chart it looks like I will never find "my everything."

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MonteCristo
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posted November 02, 2022 09:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MonteCristo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I’m so sorry you’re going through this. Feeling that way can be so depleting and can often feel like there’s no hope.

I know astrology is a great tool, but I’ve also learned throughout my life that there are other tools that help transcend the negative aspects we carry in our natal charts or in transits.

Have you read anything by Neville Goddard or Dr. Joseph Murphy? I’ve found their works to be life changing, especially in terms of creating our own reality, even when circumstances dictate the complete opposite of what we want.

Hold on a little while longer. There’s more power in this universe than we can even imagine, and every single one of us has access to it.

Would you be open to a few book suggestions?

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Randall
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posted November 02, 2022 02:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This forum is for Horary. Moving this to Personal Readings.

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PlutoWasHere
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posted November 02, 2022 02:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PlutoWasHere     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
That sounds like a difficult period right now, Stawr. I’m sorry you’re going through this. I think it’s a good thing you’re in therapy, it offers an opportunity to talk about the things that bother you and make you doubt your future together. It’s better to talk about it than to let it fester inside of you. My ex has his Moon in the 12th house and he struggles with opening up about his emotions. It didn’t help my Mars/Saturn is conjunct his Moon, I probably trigger him like crazy. The 12th house is a very difficult house, very karmic too. But you can’t solve someone’s karma for them, it’s their own journey.

It helped me to take walks by myself so I could think through what it was that I need in a relationship and why I was so unhappy at that time. I took my time to think it all through. There are no regrets now. It’s a good idea to look at your own chart and let it help you to ask questions and you find out what it is you need. Wishing you all the best.

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Randall
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posted November 05, 2022 03:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Randall
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posted November 22, 2022 01:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted January 05, 2023 05:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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