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posted February 12, 2023 09:29 AM            

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I feel like I need to try therapy. I can't maintain healthy friendships or relationships with others. And after a recent situation with someone. I've finally realized that I should seek help.
I'm not sure if it will actually work for me. But I really feel like I need to try. These are the current transits to my natal chart.

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posted February 12, 2023 12:54 PM            

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Saturn is conjunct your descendant and will transit your 7th house for some time. At some point it would also square your natal Chiron. This seems a good time to find a “teacher” (Saturn) for relationships issues (7th house).

But I think it’s more important that you have noticed that you’re open to therapy. You have noticed something you would like to work on. I would definitely recommend that you try to find a therapist that understands your questions and that you feel comfortable with.

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posted February 12, 2023 01:22 PM            

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In addition to the Saturn, Tr. Nodes is activating your natal Pluto. If you can go to therapy to get help why not to try.

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posted February 13, 2023 11:49 AM            

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What makes you think you need therapy? What issues are you running into in relationships?

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posted February 14, 2023 09:28 AM            

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Originally posted by PlutoWasHere:
Saturn is conjunct your descendant and will transit your 7th house for some time. At some point it would also square your natal Chiron. This seems a good time to find a “teacher” (Saturn) for relationships issues (7th house).

But I think it’s more important that you have noticed that you’re open to therapy. You have noticed something you would like to work on. I would definitely recommend that you try to find a therapist that understands your questions and that you feel comfortable with.

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I mean based on my chart can you see why I’m saying I need to get therapy?

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posted February 14, 2023 10:41 AM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
I mean based on my chart can you see why I’m saying I need to get therapy?

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I don’t think anyone can say based on a birth chart if someone needs to go to therapy. Only the native knows what they actually struggle with.

There are some markers that could point to certain issues, Pluto square Moon is something to look into. There is also Scorpio IC and Saturn/Uranus in the 4th house square Venus in 8th house. There could be something from your childhood that is still impacting you now. Was there a lot of uncertainty or an unexpected event in your childhood that had a big impact? Especially on your sense of self worth?

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posted February 14, 2023 10:46 AM            

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Originally posted by PlutoWasHere:
I don’t think anyone can say based on a birth chart if someone needs to go to therapy. Only the native knows what they actually struggle with.

There are some markers that could point to certain issues, Pluto square Moon is something to look into. There is also Scorpio IC and Saturn/Uranus in the 4th house square Venus in 8th house. There could be something from your childhood that is still impacting you now. Was there a lot of uncertainty or an unexpected event in your childhood that had a big impact? Especially on your sense of self worth?

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Yes, issues with my childhood dealing with verbal abuse. Feeling like no matter what I did my parents wasn’t happy. Coldness from my mother the way she talks to me makes me feel bad. (still dealing with this to this day). I finally started standing up for myself telling her it isn’t right the way she talks to me. The past trauma makes it difficult for me to maintain relationships with other people. Because I’m always worried the person will hurt me. So I end up self sabotaging and then I treat people like crap when they are kind to me. To keep them from getting close so I don’t have to deal with being hurt. I also feel like I have abandonment issues.

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posted March 20, 2023 05:19 PM            

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Bump!

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