posted November 16, 2023 12:21 AM            

I use the equal house system but was still drawn to answer your question after viewing your husband’s chart.

Your husband is Leo rising with Sun in Pisces in 8th. This seems to be like the kind of husband who would avoid confrontations or disputes of any kind. As he is the Sun in Pisces, he naturally exalts Venus, L10, his mother. He also accepts into triplicity Mars, the secondary ruler of L4, of family of origin, family he has with you and father. This means that all things considered, he puts her on a pedestal. This is further cemented by the fact that his POF is conjunct his NN and conjunct the 10th house cusp, in equal signs. He brings his “whole self” to her and is fated to be with her.

Moreover, his Moon is in Sag in his 5th conjunct Uranus. He views her as his playmate/friend. And what house does Leo naturally rule but the 5th???

Seeing as his Sun is in Pisces, and I have known a few, it’s likely that his father wasn’t around a whole lot while he was growing up.

Meanwhile, his 7th, as in you, are ruled by both Saturn (Chaldean ruler) and Uranus (modern ruler). Uranus is in his 5th conjunct Moon so you likely have home duties. Saturn is on his 4th, in Scorpio. He probably sees you as a complication in his home. 😬

Right now Tr Pluto is square his Venus Mars conjunction in Aries. In April of last year, he even had a solar eclipse that hit these two planets. I suspect that was when the problems between you and his mother arose.

posted November 16, 2023 12:25 AM            

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Originally posted by StrangeCat:
Hello!

I use the equal house system but was still drawn to answer your question after viewing your husband’s chart.

Your husband is Leo rising with Sun in Pisces in 8th. This seems to be like the kind of husband who would avoid confrontations or disputes of any kind. As he is the Sun in Pisces, he naturally exalts Venus, L10, his mother. He also accepts into triplicity Mars, the secondary ruler of L4, of family of origin, family he has with you and father. This means that all things considered, he puts her on a pedestal. This is further cemented by the fact that his POF is conjunct his NN and conjunct the 10th house cusp, in equal signs. He brings his “whole self” to her and is fated to be with her.

Moreover, his Moon is in Sag in his 5th conjunct Uranus. He views her as his playmate/friend. And what house does Leo naturally rule but the 5th???

Seeing as his Sun is in Pisces in 8th square Moon in Sag and Uranus, and I have known a few Sun in Pisces, it’s likely that his father wasn’t around a whole lot while he was growing up or that he was suddenly or occasionally separated from the family by distance.

Have you ever heard men raised by single mothers disparage their mothers? Even Eminem, whose mother wasn’t exactly a paragon of virtue, has an enduring bond with her.

Meanwhile, his 7th, as in you, are ruled by both Saturn (Chaldean ruler) and Uranus (modern ruler). Uranus is in his 5th conjunct Moon so you likely have home duties. Saturn is on his 4th, in Scorpio. He probably sees you as a complication in his home. 😬

Right now Tr Pluto is square his Venus Mars conjunction in Aries. In April of last year, he even had a solar eclipse that hit these two planets. I suspect that was when the problems between you and his mother arose.

Don’t have any real life advice for you but he who lives the longest laughs the loudest. Stay well.

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posted November 19, 2023 06:51 AM            

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Originally posted by StrangeCat:
Hello!

I use the equal house system but was still drawn to answer your question after viewing your husband’s chart.

Your husband is Leo rising with Sun in Pisces in 8th. This seems to be like the kind of husband who would avoid confrontations or disputes of any kind. As he is the Sun in Pisces, he naturally exalts Venus, L10, his mother. He also accepts into triplicity Mars, the secondary ruler of L4, of family of origin, family he has with you and father. This means that all things considered, he puts her on a pedestal. This is further cemented by the fact that his POF is conjunct his NN and conjunct the 10th house cusp, in equal signs. He brings his “whole self” to her and is fated to be with her.

Moreover, his Moon is in Sag in his 5th conjunct Uranus. He views her as his playmate/friend. And what house does Leo naturally rule but the 5th???

Seeing as his Sun is in Pisces, and I have known a few, it’s likely that his father wasn’t around a whole lot while he was growing up.

Meanwhile, his 7th, as in you, are ruled by both Saturn (Chaldean ruler) and Uranus (modern ruler). Uranus is in his 5th conjunct Moon so you likely have home duties. Saturn is on his 4th, in Scorpio. He probably sees you as a complication in his home. 😬

Right now Tr Pluto is square his Venus Mars conjunction in Aries. In April of last year, he even had a solar eclipse that hit these two planets. I suspect that was when the problems between you and his mother arose.

Don’t have any real life advice for you but he who lives the longest laughs the loudest. Stay well.

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Thank you very much for your response!
Well,we all live in the same house,when I first come here his sister yelled at me,humiliated me,he didnt respond the way I wanted.Years and years his mother and sister talked bad things about me,last time his mother called me stupid women,with ugly face.He didnt respond again the way I wanted,he just calmly talked to her.Because of this I am sp mad at him.We have a baby,most of times I wanted to divorce because of them and his behaviour.His mother especially sister,are very evil towards me,and he dont know how to respond in this situation.Yes,he lost father when 20 years ago.So his mother is more important to him than me?Nice to hear this

posted November 19, 2023 04:25 PM            

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Originally posted by sunshinetree:
Thank you very much for your response!
Well,we all live in the same house,when I first come here his sister yelled at me,humiliated me,he didnt respond the way I wanted.Years and years his mother and sister talked bad things about me,last time his mother called me stupid women,with ugly face.He didnt respond again the way I wanted,he just calmly talked to her.Because of this I am sp mad at him.We have a baby,most of times I wanted to divorce because of them and his behaviour.His mother especially sister,are very evil towards me,and he dont know how to respond in this situation.Yes,he lost father when 20 years ago.So his mother is more important to him than me?Nice to hear this

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I’m sorry to hear about your predicament.

Please bear in mind that I only read charts as per the question. I do not offer advice or my opinion on the matter.

I guess it’s possible to see if you have options to remedy things but being Saturn, you are very slow-moving. If you were represented by one of the inner planets, I would say that you have greater “agency” in this situation.

posted November 21, 2023 07:23 AM            

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Originally posted by StrangeCat:
I’m sorry to hear about your predicament.

Please bear in mind that I only read charts as per the question. I do not offer advice or my opinion on the matter.

I guess it’s possible to see if you have options to remedy things but being Saturn, you are very slow-moving. If you were represented by one of the inner planets, I would say that you have greater “agency” in this situation.

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Well,I don't know if I am slow moover,I think my husband is,I told him from the beginning that we need to moove from this house but he insist to stay here :/ Can you please tell me from the chart when he will get inheritance?Because than we can move to other place
Thank you very much!!

posted November 21, 2023 03:37 PM            

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Originally posted by sunshinetree:
Well,I don't know if I am slow moover,I think my husband is,I told him from the beginning that we need to moove from this house but he insist to stay here :/ Can you please tell me from the chart when he will get inheritance?Because than we can move to other place
Thank you very much!!

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As his 7th, your are represented by Saturn in Scorpio in 4th (Chaldean ruler) and Uranus in Sagittarius in 5th (Modern ruler). Uranus, a planet known for unpredictability and upheaval is conjunct Moon. So maybe it’s the Uranus that you are referring to when you say that you are not slow-moving.

Astrology involves the interpretation of symbols, their placement in the chart, relationship to one another, their characteristics, their strengths and weakness, how they receive planets they are in contact with. There are 1440 possible “singular” interpretations, not accounting for chart patterns.

Inheritance is ruled by the 8th and its ruler, which is Jupiter (Chaldean ruler) and Neptune (modern ruler). Your husband’s significator is in the 8th and exalts Venus, as I mentioned in my first response. Any inheritance he gets is going to be dependent on her.

If we were to look at Venus, we can see that she’s not only combative, in the sign of Aries, conjunct a dignified Mars, but dislikes you.

Furthermore, if we look at the secondary ruler of inheritance, Jupiter, it is in your sign, Aquarius, but in the 6th, of illness. Taking the sign on the 8th plus these factors, I’d be aware that any money he gets would be 1) unexpected 2) possibly spread out as a recurrent payment instead of a lump sum

If you were to split, he would give you maintenance dependent on your home duties and the child. I would have to take a look to see whether the 8th ruler makes any aspects to him.

Saturn only wins by putting in the hard yards. It endures and improves with time. So since you have 2 chart rulers, your options are 1) Saturn, stay and endure and hope to outlive his mother and sister 2) Uranus, up sticks and go make a new life without him.

posted November 21, 2023 03:47 PM            

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Originally posted by StrangeCat:
As his 7th, your are represented by Saturn in Scorpio in 4th (Chaldean ruler) and Uranus in Sagittarius in 5th (Modern ruler). Uranus, a planet known for unpredictability and upheaval is conjunct Moon. So maybe it’s the Uranus that you are referring to when you say that you are not slow-moving.

Astrology involves the interpretation of symbols, their placement in the chart, relationship to one another, their characteristics, their strengths and weakness, how they receive planets they are in contact with. There are 1440 possible “singular” interpretations, not accounting for chart patterns.

Inheritance is ruled by the 8th and its ruler, which is Jupiter (Chaldean ruler) and Neptune (modern ruler). Your husband’s significator is in the 8th and exalts Venus, as I mentioned in my first response. Any inheritance he gets is going to be dependent on her.

If we were to look at Venus, we can see that she’s not only combative, in the sign of Aries, conjunct a dignified Mars, but dislikes you.

Furthermore, if we look at the secondary ruler of inheritance, Jupiter, it is in your sign, Aquarius, but in the 6th, of illness. Taking the sign on the 8th plus these factors, I’d be aware that any money he gets would be 1) unexpected 2) possibly spread out as a recurrent payment instead of a lump sum

If you were to split, he would give you maintenance dependent on your home duties and the child. I would have to take a look to see whether the 8th ruler makes any aspects to him.

Saturn only wins by putting in the hard yards. It endures and improves with time. So since you have 2 chart rulers, your options are 1) Saturn, stay and endure and hope to outlive his mother and sister 2) Uranus, up sticks and go make a new life without him.

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I had another look. Inheritance makes no aspect to either of your rulers. Why is this important?

You want him to come into inheritance and move away from his mother. The chart says that he can come into inheritance suddenly, but seeing as how his chart is set up, getting the money will not be easy nor will it actually be within your control.

So long as his mother is in his life, her influence over him is far stronger than yours. You are in his family and with his child. So even if he were to come into money or have money, what he chooses to do with it is dictated by her.

posted November 22, 2023 08:12 AM            

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Originally posted by StrangeCat:
I had another look. Inheritance makes no aspect to either of your rulers. Why is this important?

You want him to come into inheritance and move away from his mother. The chart says that he can come into inheritance suddenly, but seeing as how his chart is set up, getting the money will not be easy nor will it actually be within your control.

So long as his mother is in his life, her influence over him is far stronger than yours. You are in his family and with his child. So even if he were to come into money or have money, what he chooses to do with it is dictated by her.

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posted November 22, 2023 06:29 PM            

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Originally posted by sunshinetree:
Thank you very much for your response.Everything you said is true,if his aunt die soon,her inheritance will be on his mother,so she will do with this money whatever she wants.Yes I know,fee months ago he finds some bad things his mother said to me,and he changed behaviour to her,he doesnt speak to her anymore,only say few things.Well,She has influence to whole family,only husbands aunt and I knows how she really is.Well,we planned to get a loan and buy apartment and move in,that's why inheritance would be good so we can get smaller loan.So this in not going to happen either?So my life is so miserable especialy after reading all this,I dont see exit from this situation except divorce,but I have nowhere to go.How can I know how long his mother would live?
I needed to consult astrologer before marrying in this family,if I can turn back time I would never do that.

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Happy to help! 🙏😁

Speaking from experience (I’ve been married for over 20 years +) in dealing with in-laws, you have two things at your disposal: 1) proper boundaries, courtesy of Saturn (do not engage) 2) time, also courtesy of Saturn.

When I started my married life, my in-laws and their needs cast a long dark shadow over my life. My Venus, 7th lord, conjuncts a debilitated Saturn. What has worked in my favour? Detaching emotionally from the situation (I am highly Uranian) and time. It took 4 years for my husband to finish financing his useless ungrateful sister through uni; after which we bought our first home. It took 14 years before his gambler of a father, who he supported and paid debts for, passed. It took 20 years before I said enough is enough and told his in-laws that the law recognises me and not them. It took 20 years before I fully owned my Pluto in Libra chart ruler.

It will take time to improve from where you are. Time and detachment.

posted November 22, 2023 06:37 PM            

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Originally posted by sunshinetree:
Thank you very much for your response.Everything you said is true,if his aunt die soon,her inheritance will be on his mother,so she will do with this money whatever she wants.Yes I know,fee months ago he finds some bad things his mother said to me,and he changed behaviour to her,he doesnt speak to her anymore,only say few things.Well,She has influence to whole family,only husbands aunt and I knows how she really is.Well,we planned to get a loan and buy apartment and move in,that's why inheritance would be good so we can get smaller loan.So this in not going to happen either?So my life is so miserable especialy after reading all this,I dont see exit from this situation except divorce,but I have nowhere to go.How can I know how long his mother would live?
I needed to consult astrologer before marrying in this family,if I can turn back time I would never do that.

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Happy to help! 🙏😁

Speaking from experience (I’ve been married for over 20 years +) in dealing with in-laws, you have two things at your disposal: 1) proper boundaries, courtesy of Saturn (do not engage) 2) time, also courtesy of Saturn.

When I started my married life, my in-laws and their needs cast a long dark shadow over my life. My Venus, 7th lord, conjuncts a debilitated Saturn. What has worked in my favour? Detaching emotionally from the situation (I am highly Uranian) and time. It took 4 years for my husband to finish financing his useless ungrateful sister through uni; after which we bought our first home. It took 14 years before his gambler of a father, who he supported and paid debts for, passed. It took 20 years before I said enough is enough and told his in-laws that the law recognises me and not them. It took 20 years before I fully owned my Pluto in Libra chart ruler.

It will take time to improve from where you are. Time and detachment.

posted November 23, 2023 12:39 AM            

Her money is Sun in Pisces, which like your husband, exalts your MIL. Apart from the real possibility of money going towards her medical bills, being that it is in the sign of Pisces, in the turned 8th, it dislikes your MIL’s own money and your husband’s own money. There is no aspect to show money going from her to your MIL or your husband.

If there is any leftover after the medical bills, being a Uranian lady, she’s likely to leave a bequest or an endowment to some medical institution.

posted November 23, 2023 05:21 AM            

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I wouldn’t hold out for any sizeable inheritance from his aunt. In your husband’s chart she is 3rd from his 10th, which is the Moon conjunct Uranus in Sagittarius. Jupiter the dispositor of this moon is in the sign of Aquarius. She strikes me as a learned, eccentric or advance in some way sort of individual.

Her money is Sun in Pisces, which like your husband, exalts your MIL. Apart from the real possibility of money going towards her medical bills, being that it is in the sign of Pisces, in the turned 8th, it dislikes your MIL’s own money and your husband’s own money. There is no aspect to show money going from her to your MIL or your husband.

If there is any leftover after the medical bills, being a Uranian lady, she’s likely to leave a bequest or an endowment to some medical institution.

Your best bet is making your own money. 🙏😁

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posted November 23, 2023 05:24 AM            

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Originally posted by StrangeCat:
Happy to help! 🙏😁

Speaking from experience (I’ve been married for over 20 years +) in dealing with in-laws, you have two things at your disposal: 1) proper boundaries, courtesy of Saturn (do not engage) 2) time, also courtesy of Saturn.

When I started my married life, my in-laws and their needs cast a long dark shadow over my life. My Venus, 7th lord, conjuncts a debilitated Saturn. What has worked in my favour? Detaching emotionally from the situation (I am highly Uranian) and time. It took 4 years for my husband to finish financing his useless ungrateful sister through uni; after which we bought our first home. It took 14 years before his gambler of a father, who he supported and paid debts for, passed. It took 20 years before I said enough is enough and told his in-laws that the law recognises me and not them. It took 20 years before I fully owned my Pluto in Libra chart ruler.

It will take time to improve from where you are. Time and detachment.

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I will stick to this advice,I detached from them already,I will continue like this.
You have though situation either,in most cases in laws just make problems to married couple.Disaster

posted November 23, 2023 05:43 AM            

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Originally posted by StrangeCat:
I wouldn’t hold out for any sizeable inheritance from his aunt. In your husband’s chart she is 3rd from his 10th, which is the Moon conjunct Uranus in Sagittarius. Jupiter the dispositor of this moon is in the sign of Aquarius. She strikes me as a learned, eccentric or advance in some way sort of individual.

Her money is Sun in Pisces, which like your husband, exalts your MIL. Apart from the real possibility of money going towards her medical bills, being that it is in the sign of Pisces, in the turned 8th, it dislikes your MIL’s own money and your husband’s own money. There is no aspect to show money going from her to your MIL or your husband.

If there is any leftover after the medical bills, being a Uranian lady, she’s likely to leave a bequest or an endowment to some medical institution.

Your best bet is making your own money. 🙏😁

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