posted December 13, 2023 05:51 PM            

Y’s feelings for you

Nine of Pents, Devil, 8 of wands, and the magician
Card overall- the hanged man

So, right away, with the context I’ve seen- and intuitively from what the cards are saying- I think feels content being single/without ‘labels’ in this connection. I don’t think he’s of a clear and stable mind to be honest- there’s definitely an obsessive attraction and desire for you, but it’s thwarted by unstable emotional immaturity and to me- it speaks to him literally (since i use Rider Waite) feeling free to do as he pleases and him moving on mentally to his next mental high and plateau. I think he feels as though you’re mature and stable- but you also seem (to him) as a stable and beautiful prize he lusted after and achieved. Now he’s able to show you his true colors and mania, and feels liberated to show you his uglier side. And my hanged man as a clarifier above all for feelings shows that he does, at his core, like you. He’s submitted himself to that feeling but again… In my spread it sits over the devil card. It really comes across as him letting his manic self run over any calmer and rational sensibilities, and I feel like he might just genuinely be too mentally unstable to bank upon for stability in the context of a relationship (you already have that and that’s probably why he felt drawn to you, lol). He feels like he’s surrendered himself to self destruction. This spread also feels like a warning with him testing your boundaries. I know this sucks to hear but you deserve someone more mature and able to handle their own emotions when it comes to a relationship, even if its a situationship.

What should you do (in general) ?
9 of cups, ace of pents, the empress
Quite literally, appreciate yourself and what you have, and give back your power to yourself. Appreciate and grow you femininity and appreciate your natural sexiness and strength give yourself time to heal from this sickness and to heal from the hurt Y has caused you.

posted December 14, 2023 03:11 AM            

You are an angel. Like honestly, you are. I just wanted to cry while reading what you wrote.

I constantly see the Devil and Magician show up in my readings when I ask this question.

I also asked yesterday how he feels about me and the 6 of pentacles reversed showed up for me too.

Question I asked, How does Y feel about me?

6 of pentacles reversed, clarified by night of pentacles.

7 of swords, clarified by 2 of wands.

3 of cups clarified by queen of pentacles,

10 of cups, clarified by the moon

7 of cups by the knight of wands

I took the reading as he was remorseful for what he had done but didn’t want to talk about it too much. And that he wanted to give us another go and see where it led us. But l don’t know if my own energy is involved in my reading. Like I’m seeing what I want to see.

I’m sick and this guy is all I think about. We briefly texted yesterday and it was nice to hear his voice again in a voice note. He said he’s doing better mentally and physically but idk how long that’ll last.

posted December 14, 2023 10:33 AM            

He’s not been in contact with me since yesterday and he knows that I’m unwell and told me to rest up. I just don’t know what to do but heal atm.

posted December 14, 2023 10:42 AM            

Should I end this connection or wait it out?

What steps should I put in place to protect myself from this connection?

posted December 14, 2023 04:02 PM            

How should she protect herself?
8 of pents rv, 3 of pents, ace of wands
Feels like they’re saying to stop obsessing and overworking this (like, drop him for now), focus on work and your studies (if a student)- but mostly go back to your roots of work and life business. And, have some fun! Make plans with friends, exercise, and make time self care. Ace of wands reads as the card for trying new things too. Maybe talk to new people? Be open to new experiences

posted December 14, 2023 05:54 PM            

I’m fine with this being a friends with benefits situation but want to make sure he’s being honest with what he tells me for the sake of my safety etc. He said he hasn’t been intimate with anyone else since we’ve been trying to coordinate getting sexual for the past 4 weeks and now it’ll most likely be 6 or more weeks ffs.

There’s just obstacles after obstacles which are signs that perhaps this should end but I don’t want to let it go. Not yet anyway.

What does Y like about me?
What does Y not like about me?

posted December 14, 2023 06:18 PM            

BTW- 9 of swords flew out during this reading between questions. I think you really need to stop worrying and at least give it some time and rest and stop fixating

posted December 15, 2023 06:45 PM            

You are honestly so f*cking right and you’re so special. He messaged me that he’s working from the 26th onwards and I was just like in my head, what’s the ******* point.

Today I had my work party and I got all glam and had so much fun with my colleagues and danced for hours. I was being complimented, having so much good convo and just dancing with such stars and having fun. I didn’t think about him once.

I’d love to get a reading again and see what messages you’re getting but honestly, I can’t believe I spent so much bloody time and money on this guy man.

posted December 16, 2023 06:58 PM            

He asked why I couldn’t meet up tomorrow and I said before than let’s talk on the phone so I could just gauge the vibe but he said he was out. It’s not my vibe man.

Could I ask how he feels about me and this connection at this moment?

Could I also ask what AA thought of me on Friday night at the party?

posted December 17, 2023 09:09 PM            

How does feel about the connection?
KoP + Death
He feels fine with how it was and how it progressed, and now he feels it’s completed. Smugness.

I hate reading for someone and it’s this kind of prognosis. I am really really sorry babe, you deserve better. Don’t download that app again, he’s a total loser. I think this is all the information you need to drop him honestly

How did AA feel about you at the party?
AoW, the Star, the Fool + 3oP RV
Uh, is AA a guy? LOL
I ask because of ace of wands is my boner card (im sorry lmao)- it sounds crude but you definitely made him feel some type of way. He feels like you’re out of reach and untouchable but you’re very attractive and fun and magnet- making him feel a fool. Dizzy! Be careful of him doing anything dumb, if it’s a coworker I feel like there’s a rational word of caution from the 3 of pents reversed.

posted December 18, 2023 01:54 PM            

I downloaded the app back again today and he had asked yesterday how I was feeling. I’m most likely going to dead this connection this week. The desire to sleep with him that one more time has just faded away. I think last weeks convo, just did so much damage to even have this purely be sexual and your readings have also done the same. I just know better so thank you so much for providing clarity when I didn’t want to see it.

And yes, AA is a guy and a coworker. He ****** up his chances too lol. Long story and a similar figure to Y. He just doesn’t stop staring at me and he was doing it the whole night. I feel like some fairy and I don’t know what he wants. Like it’s your fault that we aren’t anything in the first place.

posted December 18, 2023 04:11 PM            

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Originally posted by softissues:
Hey all,

Please leave your questions on my original thread, I’ll most likely read these over the weekend. Still currently trying to recover on whatever I’ve caught and want my readings to be as accurate as I can make them.

I just need some answers to a few questions and I just need to rant a little bit basically lol.

What are Y’s true feelings about me?

What should my next steps be in this connection?

Any advice or wisdom is well appreciated. Appreciate everyone’s patience with me.

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Y is confused about you in some way but he likes you. But he thinks you are shy or awkward around him. But he finds it cute and wants to get to know you better.

The next step is to be yourself with him and everything seems to go in the positive direction for you both.

-Spica

posted December 18, 2023 11:17 PM            

I downloaded the app back again today and he had asked yesterday how I was feeling. I’m most likely going to dead this connection this week. The desire to sleep with him that one more time has just faded away. I think last weeks convo, just did so much damage to even have this purely be sexual and your readings have also done the same. I just know better so thank you so much for providing clarity when I didn’t want to see it.

And yes, AA is a guy and a coworker. He ****** up his chances too lol. Long story and a similar figure to Y. He just doesn’t stop staring at me and he was doing it the whole night. I feel like some fairy and I don’t know what he wants. Like it’s your fault that we aren’t anything in the first place.