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Sorrow
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posted January 06, 2024 11:00 AM
  
Hello,if sashavittoria you get some time free,will i get healed from personality disorder and mental health issues next 1-2 years? Thnx in advanced.------------------
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posted January 07, 2024 09:10 AM
Three of Pentacles, Ace of Cups reversed, JudgmentYes but only with absolute dedication and considerable self-love practiced with patience and grace. You may always notice symptoms but these can be not only managed but fall into the background with time and effort. But Judgment is a great sign of healing. It will take longer than 1-2 years, but not too much longer - maybe 3 years. Three of Pentacles indicates you will succeed only with teamwork, the help of another - a therapist. You have to offer yourself the Ace of Cups, that is, you have to learn to love yourself wholly and completely, unconditionally, even with your current challenges, even if you never “heal”. Therein lies the secret: radical self-acceptance. In the end, Judgement indicates healing and a rebirth. Are you in therapy? IP: Logged |
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posted January 07, 2024 09:18 AM
Also, a synchronicity - I recently watched a short film called Thriving: a Dissociated Reverie. I’m not sure if it is similar to your experience, but I thought I should share in case it is a sync.IP: Logged |
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posted January 07, 2024 09:22 AM
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Originally posted by sashavittoria:
Three of Pentacles, Ace of Cups reversed, JudgmentYes but only with absolute dedication and considerable self-love practiced with patience and grace. You may always notice symptoms but these can be not only managed but fall into the background with time and effort. But Judgment is a great sign of healing. It will take longer than 1-2 years, but not too much longer - maybe 3 years. Three of Pentacles indicates you will succeed only with teamwork, the help of another - a therapist. You have to offer yourself the Ace of Cups, that is, you have to learn to love yourself wholly and completely, unconditionally, even with your current challenges, even if you never “heal”. Therein lies the secret: radical self-acceptance. In the end, Judgement indicates healing and a rebirth. Are you in therapy?
I'm in group therapy since september,it's a slow progress,i pay alone the therapist,no support from parents. ------------------
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posted January 07, 2024 11:27 AM
That's great! Stay in it - I know from my own experience that progress can feel slow or sometimes it even feels pointless, but then you have a breakthrough when you least expect it. We're not always aware of the progress we're making subconsciously, until one day it hits our conscious awareness. Keep at it! The cards definitely indicate that you can heal this, but you do need the support. It has helped me too.IP: Logged |
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posted January 07, 2024 04:48 PM
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That's great! Stay in it - I know from my own experience that progress can feel slow or sometimes it even feels pointless, but then you have a breakthrough when you least expect it. We're not always aware of the progress we're making subconsciously, until one day it hits our conscious awareness. Keep at it! The cards definitely indicate that you can heal this, but you do need the support. It has helped me too.
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posted January 07, 2024 04:52 PM
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That's great! Stay in it - I know from my own experience that progress can feel slow or sometimes it even feels pointless, but then you have a breakthrough when you least expect it. We're not always aware of the progress we're making subconsciously, until one day it hits our conscious awareness. Keep at it! The cards definitely indicate that you can heal this, but you do need the support. It has helped me too.
There is childhood trauma that following me several years,i'm learning reiki healing to help me too and there is a negative situation that happened back in 2020 that occured in my workplace back then,betrayals from colleagues,emotional hurt from some women that did gossip and slandering behind my back,i'm a sensitive person to stand negative criticism from others,all this pressure and anxiety caused social anxiety,massive depression,a chronic personality disorder diagnosis,a hashimoto disease diagnosis too and gaining overweight. That is why i asked you to take a read about mental and physical health issues and prospects of healing.
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posted January 09, 2024 08:23 AM
The cards indicate you can definitely heal with therapeutic help!IP: Logged |
Sorrow
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posted January 09, 2024 01:29 PM
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The cards indicate you can definitely heal with therapeutic help!
Alright,but will take long? ------------------
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posted January 10, 2024 12:36 PM
I am seeing that the time it takes depends on your dedication. 1-3 years.IP: Logged |
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posted January 11, 2024 11:50 AM
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I am seeing that the time it takes depends on your dedication. 1-3 years.
You see current therapy will be the solution,should stick with it? I'm in therapies since 2021 and two previous attemps failed. ------------------
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posted January 26, 2024 05:13 AM
Bump!! Bump!!------------------
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posted January 26, 2024 08:19 PM
Hey Sorrow. I am getting three of wands, so yes, stick with it. Eventually someone may come through this therapy who helps you. It is preparing you for something next. Be patient because even when you don’t think you are making progress, you are making progress. Trust, have faith, persist. A synchronicity will happen or a fortuitous encounter and when it does, you will know this was the reason. Give it your all and give it your faith.IP: Logged |
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posted January 26, 2024 08:21 PM
I also got three of cups and then eight of cups, which in the Marseille indicate healing and maturity, respectively. I think this current therapy will be very good for you, but it will take time. You must have the maturity to stick to your commitment. You deserve your own best effort.IP: Logged |
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posted January 27, 2024 09:44 AM
Thanks about the positive outcome of your reading,actually last 3-4 years i have been dissapointed about searching or trying therapies,changing therapists,paying a lot alone for them with just a basic job and basic salary,without support of family.I'm tired as i see that even current group therapy needs years to deliver its progress and results of changing me and i don't have the proper patient to wait as i need "quick fix" for mental health issues. However,i gave a promise to my self this time,to not give up this therapy until i got healed completely,no matter the financial cost overall. This damn retirement from my first toxic job back at 2020 did very bad to me,all the hidden issues revealed all together and i found my self to have fight with a lot of issues combined together. ------------------
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posted January 27, 2024 09:46 AM
The “quick fix” attitude is the problem.IP: Logged |
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posted January 27, 2024 03:26 PM
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The “quick fix” attitude is the problem.
I don't think is that,the inner child is an issue,i'mi fighting mental and physical health problems last 3 years alone.
*sashavittoria,you got a reading with a negative vibe or more a positive outcome? Till when i will suffer and struggle?
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posted February 11, 2024 01:11 PM
Should i continue this therapy,will work,did you read it will work for me?------------------
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posted February 11, 2024 04:40 PM
Hi Sorrow. I'm sorry for everything you are dealing with. I got positive vibes from the original spread.Now I am getting Ten of Pentacles, Queen of Cups. The therapy you are in now will lead you to great reward. Ten of Pentacles is about commitment and choosing long-term goals over short-term gain. This is about playing the long game. It also alludes to family... Do you have a Queen of Cups in your life whom you can ask for support and guidance? You would do well to lean on her, even if there is a maternal type in your therapy group. Alternatively, and more likely, it could mean that you must become your own Queen of Cups and learn to mother yourself, to re-parent yourself. I'm strongly feeling that you should stick with your current therapy. You haven't been committed enough in the past to see it through, that's why you've been struggling. Ten of Pentacles shows you have been trying to see fast results instead of having the patience to persist for the long term. Queen of Cups is saying to focus on mothering yourself, nurturing yourself, re-parent your inner child. I know this work is hard, it also took me 2 years recently but I made healing my priority and dedicated myself to it full time. I even left school to dedicate myself completely to my healing. It worked but I had to be completely focused, dedicated, persistent, and patient. I stuck with a therapist even though I didn't think she was helping me much, but she still helped me in ways I couldn't help myself. I hope my story is helpful. IP: Logged |
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posted February 12, 2024 02:05 PM
Thank you for helping, sashavittoria.IP: Logged |
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posted February 12, 2024 06:53 PM
 I wish I could help more.The kind of work Sorrow is doing is some of the hardest kind, but I know they can do it. We are always stronger than we give ourselves credit for. IP: Logged |
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posted February 12, 2024 06:58 PM
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However,i gave a promise to my self this time,to not give up this therapy until i got healed completely,no matter the financial cost overall.
Sorrow, do not forget your promise to yourself. Part of healing is also keeping promises to ourselves, to our inner child. IP: Logged |
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posted February 15, 2024 06:23 PM
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Sorrow, do not forget your promise to yourself. Part of healing is also keeping promises to ourselves, to our inner child.
Yeah,it's a bit hard to keep balance and self discipline,i will use reiki therapy too,now i'm finished level 2. ------------------
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posted February 27, 2024 07:50 AM
It's just hard to understand my deep emotions,not to dissapoint,to grow up emotionally,to up emotional defence wall against life struggles.------------------
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posted February 29, 2024 04:18 AM
Hey Sorrow, I left LL awhile ago but was just thinking of you and hope you are doing okay. Yes, this work is VERY difficult and it takes SO LONG and our worst enemy is sometimes our impatience. But I know you will see it through. Stay persistent. I am proud of you, it sounds like you are already doing as much as you can and I know that if you keep at it you will see results and you will begin to feel better, a little every day. Anyway I meant to tell you that I left LL so I won’t respond again, but I will keep you in my heart and in my thoughts. I hope you celebrate every small victory and I wish you the very best. IP: Logged |
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