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Topic: Anyone up for a couple exchanges??
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LilyIris07 Knowflake Posts: 724 From: A South African in Shanghai Registered: Jan 2022
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posted April 24, 2025 12:35 AM
Leave your Q’s here ☺️ What is J’s issue with me? Why is she trying to get me into a relationship, or having negative opinions or controlling energy towards me and my job/relationships? IP: Logged |
Emsie Knowflake Posts: 1689 From: EU Registered: Jul 2012
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posted April 24, 2025 05:02 AM
Hi,I'm in ☺️ I will get back with your reading during today. My situation: I met G not so long ago and at first the whole connection seemed like as if I found the person I was looking for. Since then, a few things turned out about him that make me question if he is indeed a genuine person I should invest in. He triggered my distrust and anxiety and right now I'm in the middle of the unknown not knowing if his past and current behaviour has even darker things. He has a very calm and stable side I really like, but then, he is in the wrong social circle having immature 'friends' who influence him in a bad way. They behave in toxic ways. My Q: What is going to happen within our connection between us, do we have a future together and a potential for making the effort and him changing his ways for the better? IP: Logged |
Emsie Knowflake Posts: 1689 From: EU Registered: Jul 2012
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posted April 24, 2025 06:18 AM
quote: Originally posted by LilyIris07: What is J’s issue with me? Why is she trying to get me into a relationship, or having negative opinions or controlling energy towards me and my job/relationships?
Star 4 of Pentacles 9 of Swords 5 of Swords Confirmation Altered View Narcissism To simply put I feel the energy from the cards that J possibly sees you and your life outstanding, I think she is pretty aware that you are shining in every type of situation and it makes her threatened somehow. What she does not see behind all you have is the effort and the hard work, she might think things fall into your lap. J probably clings onto old habits which are triggered and might cause her anxiety or overthinking. Unfortunately, J seems to have this lose-lose mentality which is also clarified by Narcissism - tries to manipulate you into situations where you might fall. Some keywords to think about: Narcissism - Manipulation, Control, Infidelity, Disregards Boundaries, Ego-Centric, Entitlement, Selfish, Rule-Breaker Altered View - Seeing Things Differently Than They Are, Past/Conditioning Influencing Situation, Re-Evaluate IP: Logged |
LilyIris07 Knowflake Posts: 724 From: A South African in Shanghai Registered: Jan 2022
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posted April 24, 2025 06:55 AM
quote: Originally posted by Emsie: Star 4 of Pentacles 9 of Swords 5 of SwordsConfirmation Altered View Narcissism To simply put I feel the energy from the cards that J possibly sees you and your life outstanding, I think she is pretty aware that you are shining in every type of situation and it makes her threatened somehow. What she does not see behind all you have is the effort and the hard work, she might think things fall into your lap. J probably clings onto old habits which are triggered and might cause her anxiety or overthinking. Unfortunately, J seems to have this lose-lose mentality which is also clarified by Narcissism - tries to manipulate you into situations where you might fall. Some keywords to think about: Narcissism - Manipulation, Control, Infidelity, Disregards Boundaries, Ego-Centric, Entitlement, Selfish, Rule-Breaker Altered View - Seeing Things Differently Than They Are, Past/Conditioning Influencing Situation, Re-Evaluate
Thank you for your reading! I’ll get to yours in a bit I find it interesting because if anything, she’s the one with the glamorous life, she’s got the boyfriend, a nice apartment and a very good job - she’s a bit older than me. I’m not established in any sort of way and I’m still figuring things out - so I don’t really fully understand.
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LilyIris07 Knowflake Posts: 724 From: A South African in Shanghai Registered: Jan 2022
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posted April 24, 2025 06:55 AM
quote: Originally posted by Emsie: Star 4 of Pentacles 9 of Swords 5 of SwordsConfirmation Altered View Narcissism To simply put I feel the energy from the cards that J possibly sees you and your life outstanding, I think she is pretty aware that you are shining in every type of situation and it makes her threatened somehow. What she does not see behind all you have is the effort and the hard work, she might think things fall into your lap. J probably clings onto old habits which are triggered and might cause her anxiety or overthinking. Unfortunately, J seems to have this lose-lose mentality which is also clarified by Narcissism - tries to manipulate you into situations where you might fall. Some keywords to think about: Narcissism - Manipulation, Control, Infidelity, Disregards Boundaries, Ego-Centric, Entitlement, Selfish, Rule-Breaker Altered View - Seeing Things Differently Than They Are, Past/Conditioning Influencing Situation, Re-Evaluate
Thank you for your reading! I’ll get to yours in a bit I find it interesting because if anything, she’s the one with the glamorous life, she’s got the boyfriend, a nice apartment and a very good job - she’s a bit older than me. I’m not established in any sort of way and I’m still figuring things out - so I don’t really fully understand.
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Emsie Knowflake Posts: 1689 From: EU Registered: Jul 2012
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posted April 24, 2025 07:00 AM
quote: Originally posted by LilyIris07: Thank you for your reading! I’ll get to yours in a bit I find it interesting because if anything, she’s the one with the glamorous life, she’s got the boyfriend, a nice apartment and a very good job - she’s a bit older than me. I’m not established in any sort of way and I’m still figuring things out - so I don’t really fully understand.
Somehow I have the feeling that it can be just a facade to keep up the appearances, but she might not be happy deep down. I think she might see your potential to be happy on your own terms even if you still need some time to figure things out in your life. I'm thinking she does not want you to be happier than her (5 of Swords) - the typical "if I can't have it, you shouldn't have as well" mentality IP: Logged |
LilyIris07 Knowflake Posts: 724 From: A South African in Shanghai Registered: Jan 2022
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posted April 26, 2025 01:15 AM
quote: Originally posted by Emsie: Hi,I'm in ☺️ I will get back with your reading during today. My situation: I met G not so long ago and at first the whole connection seemed like as if I found the person I was looking for. Since then, a few things turned out about him that make me question if he is indeed a genuine person I should invest in. He triggered my distrust and anxiety and right now I'm in the middle of the unknown not knowing if his past and current behaviour has even darker things. He has a very calm and stable side I really like, but then, he is in the wrong social circle having immature 'friends' who influence him in a bad way. They behave in toxic ways. My Q: What is going to happen within our connection between us, do we have a future together and a potential for making the effort and him changing his ways for the better?
Hello! I’m so sorry for my late response So I got the two of pentacles, the ten of cups in reverse, justice and the seven of wands. So, I do feel like someone is holding their ground, I’m not sure if it’s signaling being stuck in their ways or if they just don’t see the issues you exactly. There’s some indecision, especially because things are a little bit out of alignment at the moment. I think with justice and the seven of wands, you need to make it clear what you want, demonstrate that and then hold your ground. I also pulled the ten of swords, the page of pentacles, the the moon and the three of pentacles… so there may be some reflection or introspection going on from both your sides, and there is some hard work being put into it, some stability - with the ten of swords I feel like it’s definitely triggering some things, and this is where perhaps you need to go within to release these things through the hard inner work. The ten of swords could also be indicating that these are caused from inside your head, and perhaps they may release after some of this introspection. I feel like this is for both of you in a way, G is also assessing their own stuff and wanting to smooth it over. I think you guys may try to work it out, but there may be decisions made where one of you walks away. I’m not sure if it’s you or him, because I got the six of pentacles, five of pentacles, queen of swords, the tower, judgement and the eight of cups. So after trying to make it work, realizing perhaps you aren’t on the same page one of you (perhaps you) may realize we gave it our best but this is not for us. IP: Logged |
LilyIris07 Knowflake Posts: 724 From: A South African in Shanghai Registered: Jan 2022
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posted April 26, 2025 01:16 AM
Thank you for your reading it definitely resonates - do you mind doing one more? I’m asking about someone named M, and where exactly this situation is going between us; and how we feel about each other? IP: Logged |
Emsie Knowflake Posts: 1689 From: EU Registered: Jul 2012
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posted April 26, 2025 09:57 AM
quote: Originally posted by LilyIris07: Hello! I’m so sorry for my late response So I got the two of pentacles, the ten of cups in reverse, justice and the seven of wands. So, I do feel like someone is holding their ground, I’m not sure if it’s signaling being stuck in their ways or if they just don’t see the issues you exactly. There’s some indecision, especially because things are a little bit out of alignment at the moment. I think with justice and the seven of wands, you need to make it clear what you want, demonstrate that and then hold your ground. I also pulled the ten of swords, the page of pentacles, the the moon and the three of pentacles… so there may be some reflection or introspection going on from both your sides, and there is some hard work being put into it, some stability - with the ten of swords I feel like it’s definitely triggering some things, and this is where perhaps you need to go within to release these things through the hard inner work. The ten of swords could also be indicating that these are caused from inside your head, and perhaps they may release after some of this introspection. I feel like this is for both of you in a way, G is also assessing their own stuff and wanting to smooth it over. I think you guys may try to work it out, but there may be decisions made where one of you walks away. I’m not sure if it’s you or him, because I got the six of pentacles, five of pentacles, queen of swords, the tower, judgement and the eight of cups. So after trying to make it work, realizing perhaps you aren’t on the same page one of you (perhaps you) may realize we gave it our best but this is not for us.
Hi LilyIris07, Many thanks for the reading. This is indeed the current situation, indecision as there are still blindspots I'd need to have confirmation on. I'm not even surprised about seeing the indecision as right from the start he seemed like a great guy and I felt his stable and calm energy, but at the same time I have quite a few dealbreakers and e.g. partying and occasionally using drugs over 30 is not gonna cut it for me. We haven't been on a date yet, but I think we both know that the attraction and the feelings are there on both sides (he literally can't stay away from me for a long time) Another dealbreaker for me in general for any guy is the core values regarding sexuality. I would like to have a partner who shares similar/same values like me (not doing one night stands, hookups and casual sex) This is something I'd still need to ask from him. So far, he told me only that he is very picky and cautious when it comes to dating and getting into connections (he has natal Saturn/Venus which also confirms that), but my inner Queen of Swords is constantly telling me that this doesn't mean anything until I get the truth from him. At this point, I'm not entirely sure if partying for him involved only drinks and sometimes drugs, or even hooking up with random girls. Btw, my lifestyle used to be similar to his for a long time and I also have Saturn/Venus in my natal chart, so attending parties and concerts didn't involve one night stands at all, only having fun and letting the steam out. He told me that there was someone he met once or twice before me who told him that she wouldn't have tolerated drinking and 'partying' at all - I responded that for me it's on the border of acceptance if there is moderation involved, so I wouldn't require full blown abstinence as I'm not abstinent, either. A few weeks ago he told me that he didn't even like partying at all, but he can't say no. I assume it might be some kind of people pleasing the other guys in the circle and he goes against himself and his good judgement basically... Right now, I'm trying to cool down my feelings and remain as realistic as possible. I don't want to get lost in an illusion and then get hurt. What I'm planning to do is indeed standing up for myself and being as direct with my must list and wants as I can, in case he asks me out. Somehow, I have a feeling he might eventually. I'm also getting from my cards that he is equally assessing a possible future for our connection as he might see me as the real deal for my core values and how I'm trying to hold myself in life despite my horrible past - building my life and personality IP: Logged |
Emsie Knowflake Posts: 1689 From: EU Registered: Jul 2012
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posted April 26, 2025 11:00 AM
quote: Originally posted by LilyIris07: Thank you for your reading it definitely resonates - do you mind doing one more? I’m asking about someone named M, and where exactly this situation is going between us; and how we feel about each other?
Sure, we can do another one. I will be back soon with yours. My Q: Will I ever find and be committed to a partner whose sexual core values (hasn't done hookups, one night stands, casual sex) match mine? IP: Logged |
Emsie Knowflake Posts: 1689 From: EU Registered: Jul 2012
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posted April 26, 2025 11:13 AM
quote: Originally posted by LilyIris07: I’m asking about someone named M, and where exactly this situation is going between us; and how we feel about each other?
2 of Swords Ace of Cups Page of Cups Knight of Pentacles 8 of Swords There might be a current standstill in the situation. When I look at the spread I have the impression that someone either is massively in their head about a potential decision, or has walls up protecting themselves despite experiencing feelings. Can be both of you. But there are definitely feelings - if M is a male and this is a romantic situation a crush and wanting to date, if platonic situation, perhaps some kind of honest and heartfelt apology? The situations feels like a 'slow-burn' with slow progress, patience and being grounded is required. With 8 of Swords someone (or both of you) need to unstuck yourselves from something, pull the blindfold and see some kind of truth, or say the truth out loud which sets you free from any mental anguish/anxiety. IP: Logged |
LilyIris07 Knowflake Posts: 724 From: A South African in Shanghai Registered: Jan 2022
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posted May 02, 2025 07:13 AM
quote: Originally posted by Emsie: Sure, we can do another one. I will be back soon with yours.My Q: Will I ever find and be committed to a partner whose sexual core values (hasn't done hookups, one night stands, casual sex) match mine?
Hello, sorry for my late response. Hmm, i get two sort of messages. the cards are the page of cups clarified by the three of pentacles, the knight of wands clarified by the ten of wands, the nine of cups clarified by the knight of swords, the four of cups clarified by the king of pentacles.. i do think there will be someone who is capable of this yes, as you align more with this energy this person will come into your existence. although, with all the wands either this person is phasing out of those shallow encounters and becoming someone more committed stable etc, OR you may still deal with someone whose a still bit in that energy and you will realise that this it not what you want and start to cast more of those energies out. it also looks like, you're finding relationships like these burdensome these shallow ones with immature sexual partners and you may feel a slight burden. there is someone coming tho, may be two people may be one - but both you internally and perhaps the other are phasing out of this casual energy. you're almost there it seems usually with these things, there are still some of our own patterns to sort through - even if you have completely decided on what you want, it may take some time to come through.
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LilyIris07 Knowflake Posts: 724 From: A South African in Shanghai Registered: Jan 2022
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posted May 02, 2025 07:17 AM
I have another couple of questions if anyone is up for it Does K ever think of me? Why didn't he open up to me? Was he truly just that uninterested in me? Who will my next partner be? and what will our relationship be like? IP: Logged |
Emsie Knowflake Posts: 1689 From: EU Registered: Jul 2012
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posted May 02, 2025 11:10 AM
quote: Originally posted by LilyIris07: Hello, sorry for my late response. Hmm, i get two sort of messages. the cards are the page of cups clarified by the three of pentacles, the knight of wands clarified by the ten of wands, the nine of cups clarified by the knight of swords, the four of cups clarified by the king of pentacles.. i do think there will be someone who is capable of this yes, as you align more with this energy this person will come into your existence. although, with all the wands either this person is phasing out of those shallow encounters and becoming someone more committed stable etc, OR you may still deal with someone whose a still bit in that energy and you will realise that this it not what you want and start to cast more of those energies out. it also looks like, you're finding relationships like these burdensome these shallow ones with immature sexual partners and you may feel a slight burden. there is someone coming tho, may be two people may be one - but both you internally and perhaps the other are phasing out of this casual energy. you're almost there it seems usually with these things, there are still some of our own patterns to sort through - even if you have completely decided on what you want, it may take some time to come through.
Hi LilyIris, Thank you again for the reading. I've never participated/been interested in these types of shallow connections, so in this case it's definitely me feeling burdensome by the fact that so far in my life I've encountered a lot of these guys who only wanted one thing from me. I'm demisexual and need a connection based on deep friendship, emotional intimacy to feel safe and secure enough to feel sexual attraction towards a person. I would like to have someone with the same/similar orientation and not to feel rushed any minute, or even feel pressured into anything for which the time isn't ripe yet. I think Page of Cups here shows the need for emotional depth/intimacy, and the Knight of Wands + 10 of Wands me getting the ick from the guys I attract 99,9% of the time. I would need that solid King of Pents at the end of the day who has always rejected these type of things (4 of Cups) and is not even phasing out any casual energy - hopefully this means a big YES if it's at the end of the spread. IP: Logged |
LilyIris07 Knowflake Posts: 724 From: A South African in Shanghai Registered: Jan 2022
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posted May 02, 2025 11:28 AM
quote: Originally posted by Emsie: Hi LilyIris,Thank you again for the reading. I've never participated/been interested in these types of shallow connections, so in this case it's definitely me feeling burdensome by the fact that so far in my life I've encountered a lot of these guys who only wanted one thing from me. I'm demisexual and need a connection based on deep friendship, emotional intimacy to feel safe and secure enough to feel sexual attraction towards a person. I would like to have someone with the same/similar orientation and not to feel rushed any minute, or even feel pressured into anything for which the time isn't ripe yet. I think Page of Cups here shows the need for emotional depth/intimacy, and the Kinght of Wands + 10 of Wands me getting the ick from the guys I attract 99,9% of the time. I would need that solid King of Pents at the end of the day who has always rejected these type of things (4 of Cups) and is not even phasing out any casual energy - hopefully this means a big YES if it's at the end of the spread.
I see I totally understand that - and yes I do think with the king of pentacles that’s what’s coming, it felt like something aligned was coming in. Something suitable to you, I do wonder if these cards are also perhaps pointing to the person you were/are involved with? Perhaps they are learning or phasing past this energy? But either way, I can understand you wanting someone who doesn’t have struggles in this area.
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Emsie Knowflake Posts: 1689 From: EU Registered: Jul 2012
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posted May 02, 2025 11:54 AM
quote: Originally posted by LilyIris07: I see I totally understand that - and yes I do think with the king of pentacles that’s what’s coming, it felt like something aligned was coming in. Something suitable to you, I do wonder if these cards are also perhaps pointing to the person you were/are involved with? Perhaps they are learning or phasing past this energy? But either way, I can understand you wanting someone who doesn’t have struggles in this area.
I was also wondering if the guy I'm currently dealing with might be involved in the spread. He mentioned he is very picky and wants a stable relationship, and his natal Saturn/Venus is confirming this as well, not to mention he is very closed off even talking about this topic in general, so he definitely has fears and inhibitions, but I don't know anything about his sexual past/history as we haven't yet had that conversation. I'm not sure if he's been like that so far all in his life up until today. Maybe we can exchange on that as well. As my Q itself was pointing solely at my potential ability to ever find and get committed to a person who ticks the box on my must list - I'd definitely take it as a YES. But, I'm not so sure about the person, so I will submit my Q about this one as well. I will reply to your latest post and we can do another round of exchange.  IP: Logged |
Emsie Knowflake Posts: 1689 From: EU Registered: Jul 2012
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posted May 02, 2025 11:59 AM
quote: Originally posted by LilyIris07: I have another couple of questions if anyone is up for it Does K ever think of me? Why didn't he open up to me? Was he truly just that uninterested in me? Who will my next partner be? and what will our relationship be like?
Okay, so reflecting on the ongoing topic to clarify/confirm the person part, I have 2 questions: 1. Has G ever had so far in his life up until today any casual sex, hookups and/or one night stands in his life? 2. The person I will eventually choose to marry/settle down with - same Q, has this person had any of these ever in his life up until today? I will get back to your readings asap! 
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Emsie Knowflake Posts: 1689 From: EU Registered: Jul 2012
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posted May 02, 2025 01:26 PM
quote: Originally posted by LilyIris07: 1. Does K ever think of me? Why didn't he open up to me? Was he truly just that uninterested in me?2. Who will my next partner be? and what will our relationship be like?
For your 1st Qs regarding K: 9 of Swords Moon 2 of Wands 6 of Pentacles 8 of Swords Star Hidden Feelings Hesitation Romance Memories Regret This is quite straightforward to me, K probably chickened out of the situation due to anxiety and fear - not being brave enough to go deeper and explore the depths of the connection with you. There was probably a lot of hesitation on his end to fully trust the connection and to open up to you fully, so he chose to repress any feelings towards you instead not to get hurt at the end. I think he has this self defence when he doesn't feel safe enough he rather starts distancing himself slowly, but surely by putting out breadcrumbs and mixed signals. This is stemming from the inability of letting himself loose from some type of toxic thinking which keeps him trapped. So I'd say it's not you, it's definitely him. I will share the description of the cards with you as well: Hidden Feelings - They could be in denial or trying to control the situation by suppressing their feelings. Until they release the need to control, these feelings will build Hesitation - Their hesitation is causing inaction due to fears of rejection because of their previous behaviour or it may be they don't fully trust the connection Romance - Open yourself up to ove, it's your time to receive. Stay open minded during this time and allow the flow of love heal you Does K think about you? Definitely yes, he does seem to have regrets Memories - Haunted by the past, reliving the good and bad memories of an old flame. Let it go, if it's meant for you it will come back Regret - Living in the past with regrets can take a toll on your mental health. Start making positive choices to live a happy and empowered life For the 2nd Qs:
4 of Pentacles Chariot King of Swords Page of Cups Soulmate Cycles
Unexpected Events King of Swords, very logical and ethical person, possibly Air sign (Gemini, Libra, Aquarius), or Air sign dominant in his chart, even prominent Mercury/Virgo. Very straightforward, not beating around the bush type of person. Might arrive in your life unexpectedly while you might feel some degree of safety and security in your life, but perhaps too comfortable and you might start feel the need for excitement instead of any stagnation. This person is a Soul Mate of yours. Chariot and Cycles reminds me of the same energy that your life will gain momentum at some point and movement is going to hapen either before this person arrives, or when this person arrives. He will possibly arrive with a big bang, the connection can even ask you to move, but some kind of big leap of faith and change is coming along with this relationship for you. Soulmate - This soulmate connection will help you both grow and learn together Cycles - Your situation is gaining momentum get ready for a big change. Be sure to stay grounded as this change can throw you off your center What will the relationship be like?
Hierophant 6 of Swords Page of Cups Queen of Pentacles Friendship In Sync
So, your relationship is going to be based on solid friendship, so it might get off the ground a little bit slow, like a 'slow burn', but it will be stable for sure and you will feel in sync with each other. I think the emotional connection and depth will be there, and you will feel very stable with this person. Again, a potential move can be involved as well, definitely a degree of commitment where you will move in together. There is also a possibility of celebrating good news like a possible engagement leading to marriage - it will be up to both of you to take things further. IP: Logged |
LilyIris07 Knowflake Posts: 724 From: A South African in Shanghai Registered: Jan 2022
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posted May 10, 2025 04:30 AM
quote: Originally posted by Emsie: Okay, so reflecting on the ongoing topic to clarify/confirm the person part, I have 2 questions:1. Has G ever had so far in his life up until today any casual sex, hookups and/or one night stands in his life? 2. The person I will eventually choose to marry/settle down with - same Q, has this person had any of these ever in his life up until today? I will get back to your readings asap! 
Hello Emsie, work has been completely draining me mind body and soul, I managed to have a reiki session today so I am feeling slightly better. I am going to try and answer your questions now, please forgive if they seem a bit off kilter. 1. G = The cards i got were the eight of pentacles, queen of cups, strength and the empress. I hesitate to say yes or no - i feel like these cards point to someone who is very mature, in control and makes deep considerations when it comes to relationships and sex. The reason I'm unsure is because, i feel like it could hint to in the past perhaps G thinking there is a deeper connection there with someone, sleeping with them and then it not working out. So it doesn't really make them promiscuous, but experiencing intimacy with someone based off of something emotional they felt. it seems like this person has worked on themselves, in the past they perhaps may have jumped too quickly because of an emotional connection they have felt and hoped for. but I'm not getting player vibes really. 2. Future = Okay so the cards I got are the devil, queen of swords, eight of cups, seven of pentacles and the ace of wands. As i said I'm a bit loopy, so either I'm getting the energy mixed up or your next partner would have worked on this particular energy. i feel like with discernment and inner work this person has walked away from addictions in the past, whether this is sex in particular i cannot tell - but they have put in the work, and sometimes they may feel like they haven't gotten anywhere but there is definitely a feeling of walking away from old patterns. i ask for some clarifying cards and i got the king of cups, ace of cups, the emperor, and the 10 of pentacles. this person grew up essentially, started leaving their old patterns behind and is becoming or is a more mature stable version of themselves. Whoever the first person is has beautiful energy, i don't know who it is - I'm afraid i may be getting the energies mixed up. any feedback would be appreciated.
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LilyIris07 Knowflake Posts: 724 From: A South African in Shanghai Registered: Jan 2022
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posted May 10, 2025 04:37 AM
quote: Originally posted by Emsie: For your 1st Qs regarding K:9 of Swords Moon 2 of Wands 6 of Pentacles 8 of Swords Star Hidden Feelings Hesitation Romance Memories Regret This is quite straightforward to me, K probably chickened out of the situation due to anxiety and fear - not being brave enough to go deeper and explore the depths of the connection with you. There was probably a lot of hesitation on his end to fully trust the connection and to open up to you fully, so he chose to repress any feelings towards you instead not to get hurt at the end. I think he has this self defence when he doesn't feel safe enough he rather starts distancing himself slowly, but surely by putting out breadcrumbs and mixed signals. This is stemming from the inability of letting himself loose from some type of toxic thinking which keeps him trapped. So I'd say it's not you, it's definitely him. I will share the description of the cards with you as well: Hidden Feelings - They could be in denial or trying to control the situation by suppressing their feelings. Until they release the need to control, these feelings will build Hesitation - Their hesitation is causing inaction due to fears of rejection because of their previous behaviour or it may be they don't fully trust the connection Romance - Open yourself up to ove, it's your time to receive. Stay open minded during this time and allow the flow of love heal you Does K think about you? Definitely yes, he does seem to have regrets Memories - Haunted by the past, reliving the good and bad memories of an old flame. Let it go, if it's meant for you it will come back Regret - Living in the past with regrets can take a toll on your mental health. Start making positive choices to live a happy and empowered life For the 2nd Qs:
4 of Pentacles Chariot King of Swords Page of Cups Soulmate Cycles
Unexpected Events King of Swords, very logical and ethical person, possibly Air sign (Gemini, Libra, Aquarius), or Air sign dominant in his chart, even prominent Mercury/Virgo. Very straightforward, not beating around the bush type of person. Might arrive in your life unexpectedly while you might feel some degree of safety and security in your life, but perhaps too comfortable and you might start feel the need for excitement instead of any stagnation. This person is a Soul Mate of yours. Chariot and Cycles reminds me of the same energy that your life will gain momentum at some point and movement is going to hapen either before this person arrives, or when this person arrives. He will possibly arrive with a big bang, the connection can even ask you to move, but some kind of big leap of faith and change is coming along with this relationship for you. Soulmate - This soulmate connection will help you both grow and learn together Cycles - Your situation is gaining momentum get ready for a big change. Be sure to stay grounded as this change can throw you off your center What will the relationship be like?
Hierophant 6 of Swords Page of Cups Queen of Pentacles Friendship In Sync
So, your relationship is going to be based on solid friendship, so it might get off the ground a little bit slow, like a 'slow burn', but it will be stable for sure and you will feel in sync with each other. I think the emotional connection and depth will be there, and you will feel very stable with this person. Again, a potential move can be involved as well, definitely a degree of commitment where you will move in together. There is also a possibility of celebrating good news like a possible engagement leading to marriage - it will be up to both of you to take things further.
Thank you for your reading - you were spot on about k, i knew all of this, i think i needed someone to tell me though. otherwise i worry its my ego. as for the others, that's interesting - there is someone from my past lets call him J so i know he will come through at some point and make some kind of confession; i hope i have enough strength to say no - he's in the military and as much as there a soul connection there, i don't believe he will be a good long term partner, i honestly think he would be the type to cheat and i would need to move to America which is undesireable to me. but i know that i will be tempted, J seems and acts very ethical but deep down i don't think he is the type of ethical i would need in someone. its difficult to explain, i thought he was my person for a long time but over the last year i have realized he is just mirroring the same old patterns to me, the patterns i hold inside of myself. as for perhaps a future love, that sounds so lovely. i struggle with my self worth and knowing I'm worthy of that, especially at my job now my vibration is so low, I'm so drained and insecure most of the time - i cant imagine being very loveable right now. may i ask when i will meet this person? have i met them? or how would the connection begin? (as in where would we meet etc...) there is someone i have had a brief interaction with over social media, but i felt a very strong "i know you" feeling - that happens to me often because I'm tapped in to those types of things, but i also know i have dependency issues and will internally will choose anyone to run away from my reality.
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Emsie Knowflake Posts: 1689 From: EU Registered: Jul 2012
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posted May 22, 2025 01:39 PM
quote: Originally posted by LilyIris07: 1. G = The cards i got were the eight of pentacles, queen of cups, strength and the empress. I hesitate to say yes or no - i feel like these cards point to someone who is very mature, in control and makes deep considerations when it comes to relationships and sex. The reason I'm unsure is because, i feel like it could hint to in the past perhaps G thinking there is a deeper connection there with someone, sleeping with them and then it not working out. So it doesn't really make them promiscuous, but experiencing intimacy with someone based off of something emotional they felt. it seems like this person has worked on themselves, in the past they perhaps may have jumped too quickly because of an emotional connection they have felt and hoped for. but I'm not getting player vibes really.
Hi there, I came with an update regarding this part. The 8 of Pentacles turns out to be a female ex colleague he tried to start something solid with years ago, but for some reason it indeed didn't work out between them. G didn't mention anything specific, only that there was this situation between them that they tried, but without success at the end. IP: Logged |
Emsie Knowflake Posts: 1689 From: EU Registered: Jul 2012
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posted May 22, 2025 01:58 PM
quote: Originally posted by LilyIris07: Hello! I’m so sorry for my late response So I got the two of pentacles, the ten of cups in reverse, justice and the seven of wands. So, I do feel like someone is holding their ground, I’m not sure if it’s signaling being stuck in their ways or if they just don’t see the issues you exactly. There’s some indecision, especially because things are a little bit out of alignment at the moment. I think with justice and the seven of wands, you need to make it clear what you want, demonstrate that and then hold your ground. I also pulled the ten of swords, the page of pentacles, the the moon and the three of pentacles… so there may be some reflection or introspection going on from both your sides, and there is some hard work being put into it, some stability - with the ten of swords I feel like it’s definitely triggering some things, and this is where perhaps you need to go within to release these things through the hard inner work. The ten of swords could also be indicating that these are caused from inside your head, and perhaps they may release after some of this introspection. I feel like this is for both of you in a way, G is also assessing their own stuff and wanting to smooth it over. I think you guys may try to work it out, but there may be decisions made where one of you walks away. I’m not sure if it’s you or him, because I got the six of pentacles, five of pentacles, queen of swords, the tower, judgement and the eight of cups. So after trying to make it work, realizing perhaps you aren’t on the same page one of you (perhaps you) may realize we gave it our best but this is not for us.
Another update on the situation between me and G. So, I'm still in this 2 of Swords indecision state, but he told me a few things about the few previous dates he's been since beginning of this year not so long ago. I don't know the exact details as he didn't specify anything, but what I heard was at the very least misunderstandable phrasing on his part which sent me on a slight negative thinking spiral and made me overthink again (Tower). In all honesty, I really like him a lot, but this is starting to feel really burdensome for me, and in the end if someone might exit the situation it'll be probably me and my inner Queen of Swords for the sake of my own mental health. It would be great to have a heart-to-heart honest conversation with him as we still haven't discussed the thing which is going on between us and I'd be more than glad to see much more clearly to be able to move forward. I'll keep you updated if something significant happens IP: Logged |
Emsie Knowflake Posts: 1689 From: EU Registered: Jul 2012
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posted May 22, 2025 02:07 PM
quote: Originally posted by LilyIris07: as for perhaps a future love, that sounds so lovely. i struggle with my self worth and knowing I'm worthy of that, especially at my job now my vibration is so low, I'm so drained and insecure most of the time - i cant imagine being very loveable right now. may i ask when i will meet this person? have i met them? or how would the connection begin? (as in where would we meet etc...)
I will try to check as soon as I can get in a better state of mind. Hopefully, I can get back to you within a few days to look deeper into this part IP: Logged |
LilyIris07 Knowflake Posts: 724 From: A South African in Shanghai Registered: Jan 2022
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posted May 25, 2025 08:52 AM
quote: Originally posted by Emsie: Another update on the situation between me and G. So, I'm still in this 2 of Swords indecision state, but he told me a few things about the few previous dates he's been since beginning of this year not so long ago. I don't know the exact details as he didn't specify anything, but what I heard was at the very least misunderstandable phrasing on his part which sent me on a slight negative thinking spiral and made me overthink again (Tower). In all honesty, I really like him a lot, but this is starting to feel really burdensome for me, and in the end if someone might exit the situation it'll be probably me and my inner Queen of Swords for the sake of my own mental health. It would be great to have a heart-to-heart honest conversation with him as we still haven't discussed the thing which is going on between us and I'd be more than glad to see much more clearly to be able to move forward. I'll keep you updated if something significant happens
Hi Emsie! I’m sorry to hear this situation is triggering, I do think your mental and emotional health should come first completely, if it’s becoming a burden perhaps consider if you want to continue this connection? Is G just very private sharing his reasons why on these questions? They seem a bit resistant or perhaps that’s just me thinking…
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Emsie Knowflake Posts: 1689 From: EU Registered: Jul 2012
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posted May 28, 2025 12:28 PM
quote: Originally posted by LilyIris07: Hi Emsie! I’m sorry to hear this situation is triggering, I do think your mental and emotional health should come first completely, if it’s becoming a burden perhaps consider if you want to continue this connection? Is G just very private sharing his reasons why on these questions? They seem a bit resistant or perhaps that’s just me thinking…
Today I made my decision to indeed walk away from the situation. I guess the Gemini packed Air energy made it easier for me to do so. I also started to feel some resistance on his end and he doesn't seem to include me in his near future plans. We still talk, but I started feeling distance, but interestingly enough pretty much on my end after he was telling me that all his weekends until end of Summer are occupied mostly with partying with his friend circle and travel. I have the impression he doesn't even want to have time for a stable relationship. At least his plans don't show a stable person who would take anyone seriously for some time and that's not what I'm looking for. On the other hand, I have my eye on another G We'll see where things might go with G 2.0 IP: Logged | |