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Emsie
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posted April 29, 2025 09:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Emsie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Everyone,

Is someone up for an exchange?

Leave your questions and I will get back to you as soon as possible.

My Q: Where/At what place am I going to get into contact with my Future Husband for the first time?

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posted April 30, 2025 09:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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MoonMystic
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posted May 15, 2025 11:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MoonMystic     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey Emsie ..
are you still interested in an answer on this Q?

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Emsie
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posted May 21, 2025 04:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Emsie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi MoonMystic,

It's been a long time since we talked, I hope everything's okay with you.

*I quickly edited to add* I'm still open to exchange for the same Q as well as for a different question. I've been experiencing a rough patch for a few weeks now and I'm in the middle of some purging again (last degrees of Saturn in Pisces transit in my 5H does its thing for sure...)

A few bad experiences surfaced while I was delving into the source of my trust and abandonment issues. I was thinking that so far nobody was willing to be patient with me to let things unfold naturally as I'm a 'slow burn' type of person and I need lot of time and patience to trust someone new.

I'm curious what exactly would make my Future Husband hold onto me and our connection right from the start and not wanting to give up on us just like that, and in the meantime be patient with me?

Let me know about your Q if you're still up for an exchange.

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posted May 22, 2025 12:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MoonMystic     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Emsie:
Hi MoonMystic,

It's been a long time since we talked, I hope everything's okay with you.

*I quickly edited to add* I'm still open to exchange for the same Q as well as for a different question. I've been experiencing a rough patch for a few weeks now and I'm in the middle of some purging again (last degrees of Saturn in Pisces transit in my 5H does its thing for sure...)

A few bad experiences surfaced while I was delving into the source of my trust and abandonment issues. I was thinking that so far nobody was willing to be patient with me to let things unfold naturally as I'm a 'slow burn' type of person and I need lot of time and patience to trust someone new.

I'm curious what exactly would make my Future Husband hold onto me and our connection right from the start and not wanting to give up on us just like that, and in the meantime be patient with me?

Let me know about your Q if you're still up for an exchange.



Hello Emsie
I'm sorry there's been rough patches
>>> hug <<<
Saturn def can bring us the hardest experiences..
I can say from age those do shape us. Though much discomfort while doing so.(I'm not looking fwd to my next return, coming soon either) - Maybe as well you could see a prog chart to see some ease coming?
Hopefully it's near it's downslope or finishing phase.

I haven't gotten a quiet moment to read here since yesterday. I am clearing space and getting my decks. I'll get you an answer in a bit.

I'll leave a Q later if that's ok.
Your first Q ..

"Q: Where/At what place am I going to get into contact with my Future Husband for the first time?"

Answer -
(This is a mystery) ..
7 of swords, 8 of wands, Queen of Pentacles and Hierophant with 2 of wands as clarification.

It seems a strategic message will reach you via a match maker (feminine Earth sign, a mother maybe) and they have "marital match making" in mind. I think she is either "his" mother or female family member or in some way this benefits her. You might know her from a restaurant, church, a garden center, produce stand (store). Alternatively a crystal shop, candle or pet shop. She's very nurturing.
So the *where* seems to be elusive as this speaks to me by which medium brings this person towards you.

I'm definitely feeling a bistro, café as a meeting point so either SHE sets you up, without your awareness or you're asked "would you be interested in meeting.." ..
in which then you'd make plans to meet in some public location where food, tea, cookies maybe are sold. This is a very strategic motion on her behalf. Your future husband with the 2 of wands may have seen you - asked her to assist. 2 of wands is half of the 4ofW. He might believe you are his TWIN FLAME. Suffice to say he might be pretty spiritual and romantic. too.

Please let me know if this could resonate. I'll come back in a bit for your other Q. PLS refresh.

..


Q2
"what exactly would make my Future Husband hold onto me and our connection right from the start and not wanting to give up on us just like that, and in the meantime be patient with me?"

If this first answer has any relevance, I believe that answered this too but we'll look closer.
Answer:
Wow! I feel yes, first answer touches this. He sees you as his DIVINE counterpart. In fact he sees angelic qualities in you, which iir aren't you a ♐? you're what he literally prayed to find.
As far as dedication to you goes, I see him being patient enough to carve your name in an object and or ink your name to his own body. Idk but this man is not about anyone else. He sees you both collaborated with the Spiritual guardians to come together.
Emperor. Empress. Sun. King of swords and clarification 3 of pentacles.

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Emsie
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posted May 22, 2025 03:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Emsie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi MoonMystic,

Thousand thanks for making this for me again as it helps me at the moment bigtime to remain hopeful regarding my future.

I will share some interesting things by replying to the post in a sec.

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Emsie
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posted May 22, 2025 03:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Emsie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by MoonMystic:
"Q: Where/At what place am I going to get into contact with my Future Husband for the first time?"

Answer -
(This is a mystery) ..
7 of swords, 8 of wands, Queen of Pentacles and Hierophant with 2 of wands as clarification.

It seems a strategic message will reach you via a match maker (feminine Earth sign, a mother maybe) and they have "marital match making" in mind. I think she is either "his" mother or female family member or in some way this benefits her. You might know her from a restaurant, church, a garden center, produce stand (store). Alternatively a crystal shop, candle or pet shop. She's very nurturing.
So the *where* seems to be elusive as this speaks to me by which medium brings this person towards you.

I'm definitely feeling a bistro, café as a meeting point so either SHE sets you up, without your awareness or you're asked "would you be interested in meeting.." ..
in which then you'd make plans to meet in some public location where food, tea, cookies maybe are sold. This is a very strategic motion on her behalf. Your future husband with the 2 of wands may have seen you - asked her to assist. 2 of wands is half of the 4ofW. He might believe you are his TWIN FLAME. Suffice to say he might be pretty spiritual and romantic. too.

Please let me know if this could resonate. I'll come back in a bit for your other Q. PLS refresh.


Believe it or not before checking your post I commented exactly on a "7 of swords, 8 of wands, Queen of Pentacles and Hierophant with 2 of wands" situation.

I identify as demisexual and follow a sub reddit for the orientation where a girl has literally just posted that she married her boyfriend she met on another sub reddit which is for the purpose of dating for demisexual people (match making kind of applies here) and besides being so happy for them I also became a little bit jealous of them (7 of Swords) that I would also like to find my match.

For the demi dating sub reddit I have my approval pending, but I've already made a draft I would like to post as a kind of dating ad before I started checking the Lindaland posts today

In my country I do/have not had any luck finding someone suitable, so I made a big decision and a leap of faith to expand my 'dating boundaries' to whole Europe now for more luck.

Do you perhaps see online as a possibility? As I never really had those type of connections with anyone where mother figures would be involved, and I'm not willing to take any advice on dating from my own anymore due to past bad experience involving her.

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Emsie
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posted May 22, 2025 03:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Emsie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by MoonMystic:

Q2
"what exactly would make my Future Husband hold onto me and our connection right from the start and not wanting to give up on us just like that, and in the meantime be patient with me?"

Answer:
Wow! I feel yes, first answer touches this. He sees you as his DIVINE counterpart. In fact he sees angelic qualities in you, which iir aren't you a ♐? you're what he literally prayed to find.
As far as dedication to you goes, I see him being patient enough to carve your name in an object and or ink your name to his own body. Idk but this man is not about anyone else. He sees you both collaborated with the Spiritual guardians to come together.
Emperor. Empress. Sun. King of swords and clarification 3 of pentacles.


You remembered correctly I'm indeed a Sag catlady And I'm also into tattoos, so I wasn't surprised to read about carving my name. I found an older thread of ours - https://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum11/HTML/026209.html

This confirms he will be loyal, dependable and not a flight risk. I'm also hoping for finally finding this person Do you perhaps get any hint if this person is a local one, or rather a foreigner?

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posted May 22, 2025 05:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MoonMystic     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Emsie Just looked back at our old thread and think there 2 additional ones? The gadget guy didn't turn out to be "him"?

Yes! I recall you're sag sun. I am asc.
With your 13s, I'm thinking you are a DOUBLE healer. Snakes heal, sun too. I thought to ask could you check your sidereal for scorpio, sage energy that might convert to the ophiuchus degrees? I'm ophiuchus rising by that chart. I wonder if you're here as a healer inward/outward.


I'm interested in these questions too as I was intrigued by a video last week of a backpacker/hiker. She was in Suspicion Mountains, Arizona. I was compelled to watch her adventure. There was a disembodied "male" voice in the video. She swore Noone went along. Now I'm wondering if I was supposed to look into Az for you! Lately info comes to me in pre format too.
So you're generally told your guy WILL BE a foreigner to you. I need to grab my cards.

If I miss anything additional that you ask, pls pls pls HOUND me. I get lost sometimes and mean to be more on task but lose sight. I noticed I didn't answer your questions on that past thread. I need to work on my attention to details better. I am very sorry I didn't fully come through you.


Re him and his origins etc:

I have 5 USa places, these could be places he's traveled to and been hiking through or plans to.
Maine
West Virginia
Hawaii
Florida
and North Dakota

By the cards pulled, I might not say yes but these cards express an individuality in thev9 of coins. As a STAND OUT.,someone possibly not from your origins. So to say foreign is accurate. Then second place you receive King of Wands. Here I'll say he's possibly much taller than you (different).. last position 6of Wands. Yes, in this pursuit - interest, I see it as coming for you. He's single, right have more melanin in his complexion and he's possibly going to emerge near, during a full moon.
- watch for blue Jay's or their feathers, racoon (they often are seen by hikers), last animal totem here is a lizard - common in Arizona. Idk if Arizona has meaning for you?
I asked if he was ever planning or had already experienced an Az hiking trip. You have The World. I'm feeling "bucket list energy". He wanted it previously but I think if this reading attaches to your earlier one's a breakup or loss of resources stopped him, 3 of Wands. Death. 5 of Wands.
Maybe fires had canceled backpacking when he wanted or was previously going to go?
.
In ref to his meeting you coming from a dating app, agency, I'll look into that but I feel it might be a dating establishment (coins seem rooted to me). QOC

A different deck, she came out again (QoP)
to clarify this time the Lover of Swords. (Air) which tells me there's likely a brick and morter style office (Wands, pentacles) but the sword is indicative of an app, which then the Moon showed and was clarified by the same lady(Queen) that was represented by the WHOM might introduce you. The name, location, owner is a Earth sign. There could be royal reference somehow or even the art could use gold, silver or have royalty symbolism maybe.

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posted June 01, 2025 09:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Emsie
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posted June 01, 2025 02:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Emsie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi MoonMystic,

Indeed, 13 seems to be a solid participant in my life including Ophiuchus. I recall a previous reading where "13 candles" came through to you. Also, with Scorpio 1H Venus and Pluto Death is also quite frequently present with constant transformation and depth.

The gadget guy is long gone, we're still in minimal contact though, but nothing has gotten off ground with this person other than surface level online conversations.

In the meantime, I've looked up dating establishments in my country, but seen a lot of negative comments and impressions about lots of surface level and unawakened men who want only one thing mostly. That's definitely something not for me.

At the same time, I'm trying to expand my own 'boundaries' and started looking online. Somehow I have the feeling these days that if I want to find my person I have to get out of my comfort zone and open myself up to the idea and possibility of finding him in a different country and having to go the distance for my happiness. I have a suspicion that there's a reason why I haven't found anyone suitable for myself in my motherland for so long... I've been kept in a box in the last 3 decades of my life, but I don't want to be in this box anymore.

The Sagittarius Full Moon is coming soon which will conjunct my Sag Sun. No wonder I feel the need to expand and be free

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posted June 06, 2025 06:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MoonMystic     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Emsie:
Hi MoonMystic,

Indeed, 13 seems to be a solid participant in my life including Ophiuchus. I recall a previous reading where "13 candles" came through to you. Also, with Scorpio 1H Venus and Pluto Death is also quite frequently present with constant transformation and depth.

The gadget guy is long gone, we're still in minimal contact though, but nothing has gotten off ground with this person other than surface level online conversations.

In the meantime, I've looked up dating establishments in my country, but seen a lot of negative comments and impressions about lots of surface level and unawakened men who want only one thing mostly. That's definitely something not for me.

At the same time, I'm trying to expand my own 'boundaries' and started looking online. Somehow I have the feeling these days that if I want to find my person I have to get out of my comfort zone and open myself up to the idea and possibility of finding him in a different country and having to go the distance for my happiness. I have a suspicion that there's a reason why I haven't found anyone suitable for myself in my motherland for so long... I've been kept in a box in the last 3 decades of my life, but I don't want to be in this box anymore.

The Sagittarius Full Moon is coming soon which will conjunct my Sag Sun. No wonder I feel the need to expand and be free


....

Emsie,

Time flies by. The gadget guy, seems that was yesterday. I have noticed the "unawakened" seems to be very much many masculine energies. I think 3d is very difficult for many to avoid.

Wow, "kept in a box" - your interpretation of your energy updates and this upcoming full moon are very powerful! The sagittarius energy will be life changing. Maybe you will soon move.

Your Sun with the fullmoon (6/11) could as well have you in the spotlight. Something y9u do, you'll be seen. Attracting those from far away places - as you are the foreigner. Sagittarius. I wonder if you'll meet your guy in the nxt 6 months. It could be you're meant to trigger your fate "by moving." You're very tapped in. I hope this expansive fullmoon will allow your release of what needs released & will then bring everything you wish for. ♡

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Emsie
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posted June 07, 2025 11:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Emsie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi MoonMystic,

Ahh, all the unawakened male energy I keep bumping into and trying to distance myself from... It's like business as usual, unfortunately 😔

I have a local astrologer I consulted last December. Pluto is transiting my natal Saturn and IC. She mentioned the structure of my life is going to slowly transform alongside with my home life and career (opp MC). And it might involve a huge leap of me relocating somewhere abroad. She mentioned I would get even more self-reliant by possibly moving further away from my family.

My DSC ruler is Mars which is in my Sag 2H conjunct Mercury - I've already been told a few times my future spouse would possibly be someone from a different country. We'll see what happens, but right now I'm much more keen on getting to know a foreigner online than someone local.

In the last couple of months I was literally bored of my life, I felt really stuck as I don't really have any friends left after multiple betrayals, and Covid didn't help the social situation either back then. I spent my years working on myself and my career/finances, but now my attitude towards work is already changing - no more overtime and hustle culture.

I laid a few of my self-made timing pebbles and July-August-September seem to be very important months. Alongside Sept travel and flying was also indicated. Later on I laid some oracle cards regarding what awaits me in love from June to end of 2025 and journey/travel/world appeared again. Normally, I wouldn't fly to a different country by myself unless there is reason or person behind the decision

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