posted May 11, 2026 02:40 PM            

Top- Tower, Bottom- 4P
9W, 3S, Queen S, Hanged man, 7W

Your next holiday looks like it might be around an area that has a very strong, perhaps even "scarred" history. The Tower could suggest ancient ruins, dramatic cliffs, or a place that has undergone a major upheaval - I'm thinking maybe Santorini (born out of a massive volcano eruption) or similar. Hey, maybe you'll come and see me with my old relics over here! I can't promise a glittering crystal clear sea sadly- the Irish sea is a bit disappointing! 🤣 But the beaches are nice to be fair. Locals moan about this place but I think it has a certain charm to it...

With the 3S there maybe there is something quite atmospheric about your next trip. I am weirdly getting somewhere like the UK from this - wuthering heights (I'm actually originally from that area near where it is set!)

I do think your next vacation will be an opportunity to explore at your own pace in a place that will inspire you and connect you deeper with your spirituality though. There may be something about the terrain that is tricky and you will have to make sure you have proper equipment to keep you safe. I'm seeing fells and trekking. Something about boots and also keeping to a budget.

May I ask:
how will he perceive my email/feel about it when he reads it? Your previous reads on his feelings and if he'd come and visit me were positive so maybe I should hold onto that...!

posted May 13, 2026 01:54 PM            

I hope all goes well. Sending hugssss and love.

Thank you for the read. I have already thought of visiting where my family roots came from. One area is north of England, but it could lead me to Ireland and maybe even Norway and Wales. Another area is also in Europe.

posted June 03, 2026 02:38 PM            

I hope you are doing okay. Sending more hugs.

posted July 06, 2026 09:14 AM            

How are you?

S has gone missing again but I don't think my colleague is bothered anymore, I think she's used to S doing this so hopefully she'll be back at some point!

If you're up for another exchange, please can I ask if I should give A a nudge or not?

posted July 06, 2026 02:20 PM            

I'm doing okay. Maybe Sprout's parent has been too busy for them and then they decide to travel. I hope they are okay.

For your question I got:

6 of cups
8 of swords R
9 of coins
9 of wands
fool R
2 of cups R
clarifiers 5 of cups
3 of swords R

The cards are saying that you need to look to your past, family and how you were influenced by what you experienced to gain insight. It seems like you are working very hard. I picked up a tired energy while reading your post. Maybe take a cautious approach to sending a follow up. The 9 of wands is showing that you worry about him not responding favorably and what he might say. The cards are also showing shyness on your part and maybe missing opportunities to follow up--work keeping you away?? I think the two of cups is showing a block somewhere or is keeping things from moving along. From the clarifiers could it be emotions that need to be released. I know your grandpa is gone, but is there someone, a family member, that you can speak with to help you shed light on the past, if nothing comes to you on why things aren't moving in the direction you would like them, too? Could it be something to do with your work? For instance, how much time you are putting into it. Same goes for A? Interesting how you both work so much.

I am doing okay. Still working on some of the same things (downsizing, etc.) as I first did when I moved in, but now I'm able to enjoy my creative/craft stuff more. I looked at something yesterday and thought about you--a knitting kit...but I need to learn how to knit before a can do it.

If you are too tired to exchange, that is okay. Otherwise, do you see any romance coming up for me over the next couple of months?

Take care of you. Self-care is good for the soul. Sending you lots of hugs.

posted July 06, 2026 03:50 PM            

I apologise I am rather tired, I didn't mean my post to sound as flat as it did. Work is hectic and I even applied for a new job last month. I didn't get it but it sounds like they are creating a post for me, sort of so waiting for that to come through too.

I am not really a workaholic by nature, but I am having to hustle and grind with my side job a bit to make ends...not meet, but give myself more leeway.

That said I am never too tired to read for you- I got 6W rx, 10W, 8S, King C, Judgement, Chariot, 5C
Top- 7S, Bottom- 2W

I think romance is a possibility in the next few months but it will require you to keep your eyes peeled for someone who has their eye on you. Looks like someone has liked you for a while but they are not obvious about it or they're not you usual type. Either that or it's the person you think will be hard work to date.

I see a lot of forward momentum as I think it'll be them who suddenly decides to make their feelings known, but then maybe some stalling later on, it might be difficult to arrange something immediately. I actually wonder if one of you gets a little sick not long after you try and start dating. I don't mean anything sinister, it's like a seasonal bug or perhaps flu which is what is making me think this might all happen as the autumn kicks in. Or someone has scheduled surgery. Sorry, a bit specific but it's all I can think about for some reason looking at these cards.

May I ask if A will reply or has he closed the door on me? I'll hold off emailing again. I don't want to anyway because I feel daft. It's just a bit unusual for it to have been this long that's all.

I have been wondering whether to go on a solo trip in September or October. It feels a bit scary but I don't know what else to do, I can't just let my life revolve around my job...have you ever travelled solo?

posted July 07, 2026 02:22 PM            

I asked what was coming up for you and A over the next month and got:

9 of wands R
2 of wands R
Tower
Sun
4 of cups R
3 of wands R
clarifiers: WOF R, ace of swords R, 7 of wands

The cards are showing that you will still worry about what will happen (maybe thinking the worst), and the 2 of wands R showing what is holding you back (work?). I think the Tower is showing your work change and then being happy. Then it looks like you will either have someone new come into your life or things will change with A--you take a different approach or someone new in dating? Something may get in the way of moving the relationship along, but to try again the cards are saying..almost sounds like the two of you when you tried to just meet up the last time. There may be some adversity here in some way--take care with any advice someone may give you. It seems that all the things around you that have been giving you grief will be going away as you have been able to overcome them. I pulled the clarifiers to see what direction things would take and stopped at the 7 of wands, but all of this is beyond the one-month window if nothing changes before that. Some of what I saw may be related to A. He could be someone that is married to his job, if that makes sense, and has nothing to do with you. His being giddy when spending time with you could be him not being experienced in what others have experienced in relationships where potentially your emotions and feelings are deeply tied to a relationship--they haven't developed into a more mature behavior when relating to others. I was tempted to ask you what you were wearing when you saw him. I guess that's pretty deep. Some of it is about risk and it scares people--especially when someone isn't sure if it will work out.

I've only traveled solo within the states and listened to my gut--one place I didn't feel comfortable walking--I found out later that the short road to the market (it's well known in that state and nationally) wasn't a good area to walk--better with a car. Make sure you have a good GPS or map unless you are good at directions with using the Sun in reference to where you are staying. You can also use a travel agency that has guided group trips for solo travelers to help you navigate. Having the arrangements partly done for you can be a big help, too, depending on how far away you decide to travel. You also never know who you might meet in the group as well.

Thank you for the reading. You mentioned me possibly finding it hard to date them. I have transiting Saturn opposite my natal Venus right now, too. Sometimes people have rigid schedules and fitting someone else in becomes a challenge. With me clearing stuff away and being flexible, I'm thinking it may apply more to them. If they are retired, then that would be a concern because it could extend to other things. I also had some kind of bug start a couple of weeks ago and now it's almost gone. It surprised me because the weather here has actually been hot without any significant weather change. With Mercury going retrograde-- it will be direct later this month, it could repeat. I will make an extra effort to use my hand sanitizer as I think I could have been using it more already when I was out. Thank you for the heads up. I had wondered about that.

I think you saw me traveling around the August/September time, too. Transiting Venus will be in my 9th house then, too.

Thank you for the hugs. Sending you lots of love back. I do hope you go on holiday and give yourself a break from working so much.

posted July 16, 2026 01:52 PM            

Thank you so much for your reading.

I hope the Tower + Sun + 4C rx could mean a breakthrough in communication with him. You got 4 of Cups reversed last time when I Was asking about us meeting in April/May and I got it myself around that time when doing a reading on it myself too so I am coming to see that card as quite positive.

When I saw him I wore a pink/purple/burgundy wrap around mesh top with a v-cut and a cami top underneath with a lace trim. I wore bootcut flared jeans and some tanned coloured wedge heeled sandals. I quite liked that outfit actually, it was a bit of a last minute cobble together!
I never dress provocatively but it wasn't until I wore it properly that day that I realised it did move about quite a bit and I have a large bust, narrow shoulders and small waist...so stuff does tend to fall weirdly on me sometimes and clothes shopping a bit difficult for this reason.
I don't know, but I hope to goodness it wasn't too revealing. I don't think it was and I didn't notice that he noticed anything either.

I have had and am having trouble at work. I have some colleagues, one in particular who is my boss who often treats me like an afterthought but we had a bit of a fallout last week.

If I've learned anything, it's that colleagues don't make good friends.

I ll see about the holiday, I am a bit nervous about doing it on my own but I could do with doing something. It's boiling here and our houses are well insulated and fitted with carpet. At least the continent is well equipped with the heat! How is it where you are?

I know what you mean about fitting dating in...the world is so busy these days...i hope you have fun though in the next few months. Have you booked any holidays yet?

posted July 19, 2026 04:27 PM            

Your outfit sounded very pretty. I think he found you very attractive given all what you mentioned and that makes sense with the rambling he was doing while talking. I remember when my chest got bigger before I changed my diet, and some guys would look at that and nothing else. There was a woman at a grocery store that saw one of them looking at me one day and she didn't seem to like it. Maybe they were a feminist. I don't remember what she looked like, though.

I think your readings were similar, too, in both instances. Is there a holiday/school break coming for him?

Your coworker may have transiting Pluto squaring their natal Sun. The negative is they tend to focus only on helping themself, the positive is to include everyone, so it's probably not you. I worked with someone that had that transit and they got demoted. They wanted to be the only one in the spotlight and everyone else was just a cog in the wheel. What is your bosses' boss like?

Maybe go somewhere closer (travel) and safer to just get your feet wet and away from the routine. Are there any safe beaches there that you have never been to?

I need to get my travel docs updated to go further away; and instead have focused more on just pacing myself and slowing down. It helps to just do that.

I looked again at that one Saturn to Venus transit I currently have, and what you read for me makes sense--especially what you wrote--more trouble than it's worth.

posted July 20, 2026 09:58 AM            

Thank you!

You just reminded me actually, I currently have transiting Pluto square my Moon in Taurus exact and it's not far from my Sun in Taurus either...

Whenever Pluto goes direct again, it will be heading towards squaring my boss's Sun which is in Scorpio but must be in the mid degrees. Though she does have a Gemini moon, I don't remember the degree but it's possible Pluto is trine it. It is trine my ex's Gemini moon currently though.

I know Mercury is going direct in a couple of days and not long after, Saturn is going retrograde.

In a few horaries I've done, he's often been Saturn and I the Sun. I don't know if Saturn going retrograde means he will retrace his steps back to me at some point.

posted July 20, 2026 01:16 PM            

You're welcome. If your bosses' birthday is November 1, their Sun would be around 10 degrees. Pluto in Aquarius is about groups and organizations, as well as friendships, hopes and wishes. This all makes sense with what you said about friends, her being a boss at your company, and what you are trying to do there. Your bosses' moon can be changeable and fickle. I haven't had good luck with Gemini people. IF she has her mars in Capricorn, that could magnify their ambitions. Sending you hugs. Years and years ago, the workplace here was more team oriented. It hasn't been that way in a long time. I remember being asked to go into my bosses' office for an impromptu meeting back when I worked with the person who got demoted. Our other coworker was not in the office that day. The woman complained to our boss about the other person we worked with and then looked at me and said, she just sits there and does her work and is quiet. The boss had a funny look on his face like, why is she here in this meeting? The boss got promoted later and then an interim boss came in. The interim one was the one that demoted the woman. The woman would complain about others, but she was really complaining about herself. I've seen that with other coworkers complaining about their mother in laws. I met one of the mother in laws and they weren't like what they said. Again, these people were complaining about themselves.

With that square to your moon, watch out for being manipulated by others. Also, check on your mom.

posted July 28, 2026 08:16 AM            

Sounds about right what with people projecting. My boss has her mars in Libra and is Nov 15th.
My mum is doing ok but I will keep an eye due to that Pluto square Moon transit I'm having.

I find Gemini moons tricky too, sadly.

Let me know if you have any questions

posted July 29, 2026 05:51 PM            

If your boss has mars in libra, the transit of saturn could be opposing it and creating tension for her as well.

Good to hear that your mom is doing well. Transiting Pluto, for a sun sign based chart, would put it in your 10th house. Drastic changes in your career? Needing freedom. It could also represent those things in the company you work for, since it is in Aquarius.

Let me know your q.

I have been picking up energy from a boyfriend I had dated 40 years ago. I had a visual of a ceramic animal that I had given him, because what I had originally made for him had gotten broken. What does B think of me now? He moved to be closer to his family, but I didn't want to live there.

Thank you.

posted July 30, 2026 03:20 PM            

Oh good point about transiting Saturn, I completely forgot!! Mars sits in her 2nd house as well, she is a Virgo ASC.

Speaking of Saturn, as it is retrograding now... around about the time it finishes moving backwards in December this year, it will have conjunct my natal Venus, which sits at 8deg Aries.

Funnily enough, when I met up with A on 1 May, Saturn was around 8-9degrees Aries.

Saturn rules my 7th,8th and 9th house natally. I wonder if retrograding Saturn signifies bringing someone back?

Pluto is still in my natal 7th house too but will be entering the 8th once it reaches 6deg Aquarius. But I should pay closer attention to heliocentric charts as transiting the 10th makes a lot of sense. I do feel stagnant where I am.

Here is your reading regarding B:

5P, WoF, Hierophant, 2S, Knight P, 5C

Top- Sun, Bottom- King S

I think B feels your absence quite a bit. I don't get the sense that they obsess over what happened in the past and to all intents and purposes, has come to terms with it. But I do think, deep down, there is a lot of respect for you and some sadness or guilt about the time lost. Is it possible B would have liked to have kept in touch?
I think he misses you a bit and thinks about the good times, or at least the good times he reckons you had.
There is some sense of him taking stock of his life and reflecting on moments that mattered to him. Definitely some regret and a sense of loyalty to you here. It's possible he's thinking of reaching out to clear the air but whether he will I am not sure, the 2 of Swords is suggesting he's very indecisive. I also think he's changed his life around a lot since you last spoke. He may well be a different person now- I know after 40 years, anyone would be a bit different, but I sense his lifestyle and values and all that stuff is really different, like he's gone from being a stuck in the mud to someone more adventurous and free spirited. Or the other way round if that resonates!

Thanks Spring, my question is what does A want to say to me, deep down?

posted August 01, 2026 05:11 PM            

Usually when someone has a Saturn ruled 7th house, you tend to marry an older, fatherly or mature person and/or the marriage comes later in life. Sometimes the retrograde on Saturn can also represent delays and once it moves direct then things should move forward. When transiting Saturn conjuncts your natal venus, it can work in two ways--either the two of you create an established or committed relationship or it doesn't work out. Now, I'm thinking your natal venus is near your midheaven and if it is in your 9th house, that would fit in with A, as the 9th also rules higher education. That's where you would meet your partner--also churches, spiritual places, traveling, foreigners, etc. Even if it's in the 10th..this is all karmic, even your 7th house by itself..where is your north node and Saturn.

With Jupiter transiting in leo and trining your natal venus, it's a good time for vacationing..and you have already thought of it, too, as it makes you want to relax and not work.

Chariot R
8 of cups R
4 of wands
9 of swords
Ace of wands R
6 of swords R
Clarifiers: hierophant, 10 of coins

It seems like A has been overwhelmed with work and it will go on for a while until he gets a handle on it. He is looking forward to the holidays and some romance? He may have some anxiety over all of this. Change his mind and possibly cancel a get together or another get together. He wants to tell you how he feels about you. The clarifiers are showing what he has been focused on. It's almost like someone who has focused on their career and when something pops up like you, they are unsure how to handle things and it scares them. If that makes sense. Capricorn on the 7th. Where is your natal Saturn and sign?

What you read makes sense. Through having a daily routine he has probably become a stick in the mud. His is a sag ASC. He liked being on the go. I did get an update years ago from someone he knows and he is most likely an empty nester and retired now. My first thought was that he was cleaning out and going through stuff and that brought back memories. We never made demands on each other. No routines. We were also good friends and just had fun. I'm glad he wasn't angry and maybe he understands better now why I stayed here. He also found a job there that he could grow into. Those jobs weren't plentiful around here at that time.

I hope you are enjoying your weekend!

posted August 01, 2026 09:04 PM            

So many interpretations. Also the first card may mean that the message you sent him had overwhelmed him--unexpected.

If you have another q,
mine is: How will the last of my creative and also home projects go? I alternate between the two as some days I'm more interested in the creative ones. Thank you again Fruity.

I hope you hear from A soon.