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Topic: Anyone up for exchanges?
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LilyIris07 Knowflake Posts: 752 From: A South African in Shanghai Registered: Jan 2022
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posted August 16, 2025 04:20 AM
Please leave your Q here! I’m asking, what are the pros and cons of both J and A? (These are romantic). IP: Logged |
ILovePoems Moderator Posts: 7803 From: Registered: Feb 2015
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posted August 17, 2025 01:52 PM
Hello! Are you still wanting to Exchange? Also, I can try to read for you, but since I don't practice as much now my interpretations may be rusty.IP: Logged |
LilyIris07 Knowflake Posts: 752 From: A South African in Shanghai Registered: Jan 2022
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posted August 17, 2025 08:40 PM
quote: Originally posted by ILovePoems: Hello! Are you still wanting to Exchange? Also, I can try to read for you, but since I don't practice as much now my interpretations may be rusty.
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ILovePoems Moderator Posts: 7803 From: Registered: Feb 2015
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posted August 19, 2025 08:42 AM
Hello! I used tarot for your question... but I'm not sure if I'll interpret these cards correctly. For J I got King of Cups - knight of cups - the devilIs J a water sign? If not, maybe King of cups indicates them being emotionally stable, even though they can be someone that's emotional or shows their feeling, they try to keep it under control so it doesn't get out of control. With the knight of cups shows that they can be sweet, caring and romantic at times.. but with the devil it shows their behavior could be unhealthy, or some sort of addiction involved in that matter. The pros is that they can be mature, especially with his feelings and likes to court by being romantic but the con is that the devil could be that they can be bit too much or that their actions may be toxic unless there's codependency involved. Unless the devil could be about sex. For A, their cards were Ace of cups - King of Pentacles - 7 of swords Ace of cups made me think of growth, but I also thought it could mean they can be expressive with their feelings and emotions. Perhaps they're a caring and loving person that likes to open their heart to people. The king of pentacles makes me think they like stability or is a stable person in their life, but this could be related to their work and even in relationships. I also thought that the King of Pentacles may mean they don't show their emotions and feelings much, like they're a serious person in situations. 7 of swords tells me that either me that there is trust issues, or being a liar. I don't think stealing is involved unless that make sense too? so the pros is that this person can be loving and caring and may like to share their feelings and emotions. They can be serious at times and may not show how they truly feel but still has his way to show that they care (this could be pro or con depending on if you like a person like that). The con is that maybe this person doesn't trust easily or maybe they don't always tell the full truth. I'm sorry if this doesn't make sense. I do have another deck thats for love questions. I may not be able to answer the pro and cons with the deck, but if you have another question, I can try to answer it, and it could help me practice.
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LilyIris07 Knowflake Posts: 752 From: A South African in Shanghai Registered: Jan 2022
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posted August 19, 2025 10:28 AM
quote: Originally posted by ILovePoems: Hello! I used tarot for your question... but I'm not sure if I'll interpret these cards correctly. For J I got King of Cups - knight of cups - the devilIs J a water sign? If not, maybe King of cups indicates them being emotionally stable, even though they can be someone that's emotional or shows their feeling, they try to keep it under control so it doesn't get out of control. With the knight of cups shows that they can be sweet, caring and romantic at times.. but with the devil it shows their behavior could be unhealthy, or some sort of addiction involved in that matter. The pros is that they can be mature, especially with his feelings and likes to court by being romantic but the con is that the devil could be that they can be bit too much or that their actions may be toxic unless there's codependency involved. Unless the devil could be about sex. For A, their cards were Ace of cups - King of Pentacles - 7 of swords Ace of cups made me think of growth, but I also thought it could mean they can be expressive with their feelings and emotions. Perhaps they're a caring and loving person that likes to open their heart to people. The king of pentacles makes me think they like stability or is a stable person in their life, but this could be related to their work and even in relationships. I also thought that the King of Pentacles may mean they don't show their emotions and feelings much, like they're a serious person in situations. 7 of swords tells me that either me that there is trust issues, or being a liar. I don't think stealing is involved unless that make sense too? so the pros is that this person can be loving and caring and may like to share their feelings and emotions. They can be serious at times and may not show how they truly feel but still has his way to show that they care (this could be pro or con depending on if you like a person like that). The con is that maybe this person doesn't trust easily or maybe they don't always tell the full truth. I'm sorry if this doesn't make sense. I do have another deck thats for love questions. I may not be able to answer the pro and cons with the deck, but if you have another question, I can try to answer it, and it could help me practice.
Thank you! It resonates - can you tell me a bit like the second one with the 7 of swords? We are together but there is jealousy and possessiveness a lot of the times, and there are trust issues between us but I don’t really know what he could be lying about because I confront him on things and he seems honest ish in his responses but I’m not sure. He says he has a hard time being honest with himself. What could he be lying about?
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ILovePoems Moderator Posts: 7803 From: Registered: Feb 2015
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posted August 19, 2025 11:42 AM
Well, if there is jealousy and possessiveness between y'all, its possible that maybe he just has trust issues and it may not mean he's lying to you, but lying could be what the 7 of swords of saying. It's a possibility that trust issues is what the con is regarding him and not lying? I hope that make sense. So he may not be lying, but there's trust issues. I'll pull one more card.The card Fool came after 7 of swords which points to maybe second guessing they self. Just a thought. Is he young? If not, is he immature at times? But can be a risk taker.. but I think the 7 of swords could point to self-doubt and wondering if they should take the risk (the fool). I also used the oracle deck and asked does he lie to you. The cards didn't exactly say he lies but maybe he limits though. Open heart - distance - boundaries It seems that he tries to be open with you, especially with how he feels, but distance indicates being distant though? when being open with you, does he act distant or cold? maybe that make sense with the King of pentacles, even though he does be open he may also keep some sort of distance and boundaries indicates a limit. Perhaps he limits what he says or shares with you, especially with distance involved, he may not share everything. Would that make sense? Also, I hope I answered your question. Unless you mean does he lie to himself instead of to you? My question is, does Jung know about me?
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LilyIris07 Knowflake Posts: 752 From: A South African in Shanghai Registered: Jan 2022
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posted August 22, 2025 06:25 AM
quote: Originally posted by ILovePoems: Well, if there is jealousy and possessiveness between y'all, its possible that maybe he just has trust issues and it may not mean he's lying to you, but lying could be what the 7 of swords of saying. It's a possibility that trust issues is what the con is regarding him and not lying? I hope that make sense. So he may not be lying, but there's trust issues. I'll pull one more card.The card Fool came after 7 of swords which points to maybe second guessing they self. Just a thought. Is he young? If not, is he immature at times? But can be a risk taker.. but I think the 7 of swords could point to self-doubt and wondering if they should take the risk (the fool). I also used the oracle deck and asked does he lie to you. The cards didn't exactly say he lies but maybe he limits though. Open heart - distance - boundaries It seems that he tries to be open with you, especially with how he feels, but distance indicates being distant though? when being open with you, does he act distant or cold? maybe that make sense with the King of pentacles, even though he does be open he may also keep some sort of distance and boundaries indicates a limit. Perhaps he limits what he says or shares with you, especially with distance involved, he may not share everything. Would that make sense? Also, I hope I answered your question. Unless you mean does he lie to himself instead of to you? My question is, does Jung know about me?
Hi! Sorry for my late response I just moved apartments and I’ve been unpacking - I’m also a little rusty, it’s been awhile and my energy is a bit all over the place. “Does Jung know about me” Your cards are the four of cups, the ten of cups, the two of wands, justice and the four of wands. It does seem like they know about you; I don’t know if you’re feeling a bit like disappointed but it seems like their energy is surrounding yours. What exactly is the context of you don’t mind me asking? I feel like I could give a better interpretation then Also following your last read - that seems very accurate. A is my partner now, and J is someone from the past. Sometimes I feel slightly pulled between the two - and I just don’t know what to trust. IP: Logged |
ILovePoems Moderator Posts: 7803 From: Registered: Feb 2015
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posted August 22, 2025 07:29 AM
Hey, it's fine. You are correct that there is disappointment. He disappoints me and I strongly dislike him. He's someone that I thought I was going to meet in the future (I have no idea if it's just friends or something more) and for some reason I thought he knew about me already since I knew about him. I waited and I thought maybe if he does know about me then why he hasn't spoken to me. I just didn't understand why and I can't even get real confirmation from him if he does know about me, but if he does, I feel betrayed and hurt. Right now, I'm trying to act like he doesn't exist, but its hard at times. What do you mean his energy? Maybe it's because I feel hurt by him? Thanks for the feedback. If you have anymore questions, just let me know and I can use my new oracle cards.  IP: Logged |
ILovePoems Moderator Posts: 7803 From: Registered: Feb 2015
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