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LilyIris07 Knowflake Posts: 774 From: A South African in Shanghai Registered: Jan 2022
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posted October 04, 2025 12:45 AM
Hello! I’m wondering if anyone is up for some exchanges? I’m really confused about my relationship, where it seems like this guy is trying his best to be there for me and stable but it seems like there is something but for me missing in this relationship, and I don’t know weather to believe him or not… I also wonder if it’s just a karmic relationship that will end soon because it doesn’t seem to have any momentum. IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 214195 From: I hold a Juris Doctorate (J.D.) and a Legum Magister (LL.M.)! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 05, 2025 05:36 PM
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 214195 From: I hold a Juris Doctorate (J.D.) and a Legum Magister (LL.M.)! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 06, 2025 09:34 AM
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 214195 From: I hold a Juris Doctorate (J.D.) and a Legum Magister (LL.M.)! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 09, 2025 06:02 AM
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FruityLlama Knowflake Posts: 1485 From: Registered: Sep 2013
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posted November 01, 2025 01:59 PM
Hey Lily are you still open for readings at all?IP: Logged |
LilyIris07 Knowflake Posts: 774 From: A South African in Shanghai Registered: Jan 2022
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posted November 01, 2025 10:51 PM
quote: Originally posted by FruityLlama: Hey Lily are you still open for readings at all?
Hey fruity yeah sure ~ what’s your question? Sorry I haven’t been on here for a while. IP: Logged |
ILovePoems Moderator Posts: 7813 From: Registered: Feb 2015
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posted November 09, 2025 05:10 PM
Hi. Are you up for an exchange?IP: Logged |
LilyIris07 Knowflake Posts: 774 From: A South African in Shanghai Registered: Jan 2022
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posted November 09, 2025 10:34 PM
quote: Originally posted by ILovePoems: Hi. Are you up for an exchange?
Sure my questions are 1. How is A feeling after seeing me yesterday? 2. Is he ever going to try and work on himself or is he going to just carry on distracting. 3. Who is the next person he’s going to get with (cause I feel likes going to be one). Could you possibly answer some of these? What are your questions? IP: Logged |
ILovePoems Moderator Posts: 7813 From: Registered: Feb 2015
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posted November 10, 2025 11:46 AM
I'll try my best. The only thing is I'm not sure if I would be able to answer the 3rd question because I could get it wrong. But if you still want to me to answer, I can try.For your first question. 1. Hopeless - Distance - Chemistry I think he feels hopeless. I don't know if that makes sense, but there are hopeless feelings here. Maybe he feels he can't do much regarding the connection/relationship between y'all? There is distance here too. Are you and A not close right now? But there is chemistry here, so there are passionate feelings. 2. Dog - Tree - Key Since I don't know the background, I'll try to interpret this the best I can. Dog indicates loyalty but also commitment. So I would say he is committed to something, and with the Tree being next, I would say growth is involved in him working on himself? Unless its talking about his past, but I think it means growth in this. The growth is not fast, but slow and steady progress and with Key at the end indicates opening up or revealing. Does working on himself have something to do with being open with others? Key could mean having success after working on himself. My questions are
1. If Jung knows about me, why hasn't he spoken to me? 2. Do I know who my future husband or is he a new person coming into my life? IP: Logged |
LilyIris07 Knowflake Posts: 774 From: A South African in Shanghai Registered: Jan 2022
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posted November 11, 2025 06:14 AM
quote: Originally posted by ILovePoems: I'll try my best. The only thing is I'm not sure if I would be able to answer the 3rd question because I could get it wrong. But if you still want to me to answer, I can try.For your first question. 1. Hopeless - Distance - Chemistry I think he feels hopeless. I don't know if that makes sense, but there are hopeless feelings here. Maybe he feels he can't do much regarding the connection/relationship between y'all? There is distance here too. Are you and A not close right now? But there is chemistry here, so there are passionate feelings. 2. Dog - Tree - Key Since I don't know the background, I'll try to interpret this the best I can. Dog indicates loyalty but also commitment. So I would say he is committed to something, and with the Tree being next, I would say growth is involved in him working on himself? Unless its talking about his past, but I think it means growth in this. The growth is not fast, but slow and steady progress and with Key at the end indicates opening up or revealing. Does working on himself have something to do with being open with others? Key could mean having success after working on himself. My questions are
1. If Jung knows about me, why hasn't he spoken to me? 2. Do I know who my future husband or is he a new person coming into my life?
Thank you for your reading - yeah me and this person broke up, well I broke up with him. He struggles to open up and be available in general ~ For your questions: 1. Your cards are the fool clarified by the wheel of fortune, the six of wands clarified by the eight of pentacles, the king of cups clarified by three of wands; the chariot clarified by the five of wands. I feel like Jung wants to, but there’s divine timing at play here or him wanting to feel in tune with himself before acting, he looks like he could be busy in his own life and perhaps working on himself or his reputation, there is a bit of conflicted about when he should; and he is aware or curious of you but he’s still in the transitional phase. The wheel hasn’t turned yet… but it looks like it will. 2. Your cards are the ace of cups clarified by the two of pentacles, the seven of cups clarified by the tower, the ten of cups clarified by the eight of swords, the four of swords clarified by the knight of cups at the bottom is the nine of cups. There is a new start a new timeline wanting to come in, but it seems like there could be residue or a fantasy of someone that you have an idea of that could be blocking this new possibility, the cards are asking you to rest let go of this old idea or attachment and once you feel more at ease within yourself someone new will enter who will be romantic. At some point before a romantic illusion could be shattered, and you may struggle with anxiety or over thinking but once you let go of this there is definitely someone coming in; it just depends on the timing within yourself and when you come into alignment with the new timeline. I hope this helps
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ILovePoems Moderator Posts: 7813 From: Registered: Feb 2015
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posted November 12, 2025 08:58 AM
Thank you for the reading. That seems right, especially the second reading. The first reading, if I do hear from him I'll give feedback.I'm sorry that my reading to you was very short, the cards seemed very straight to the point though. IP: Logged |
FruityLlama Knowflake Posts: 1485 From: Registered: Sep 2013
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posted November 13, 2025 08:54 AM
Hi LilySo sorry for the late reply. If it's ok with you, I'll leave my question. Could you confirm if your question/s is the same or of you have another? My question is will and how I meet JH again? Will he like me? Many thanks! IP: Logged |
LilyIris07 Knowflake Posts: 774 From: A South African in Shanghai Registered: Jan 2022
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posted November 13, 2025 05:33 PM
quote: Originally posted by FruityLlama: Hi LilySo sorry for the late reply. If it's ok with you, I'll leave my question. Could you confirm if your question/s is the same or of you have another? My question is will and how I meet JH again? Will he like me? Many thanks!
Hello! Yes my questions are the same - I’ll be back to do yours
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LilyIris07 Knowflake Posts: 774 From: A South African in Shanghai Registered: Jan 2022
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posted November 14, 2025 05:04 AM
quote: Originally posted by FruityLlama: Hi LilySo sorry for the late reply. If it's ok with you, I'll leave my question. Could you confirm if your question/s is the same or of you have another? My question is will and how I meet JH again? Will he like me? Many thanks!
For your first question I got the devil clarified by the moon, judgment clarified by the two of swords, the knight of cups clarified by the star, ten of pents clarified by two of wands at the bottom is the five of swords. I feel like there’s delay here, this person is in a bit of confusion and is delaying a meeting somehow because of their confusion; but it seems once there is hope and a decision made they will move forward. But it’s once hope is restored, they are going through some kind of transition. For the second question; I got the world clarified by the five of pents, the page of cups clarified by temperance, the two of wands clarified by the three of wands, the seven of cups clarified by the eight of cups at the bottom is the knight of swords. I like yes, but it’s slow and cautious, this person may struggle with fear or insecurities. Perhaps he thinks you are too good for him? It seems like he sort of likes you from a distance at the moment… there’s a lot of confusion on his end and it’s making it difficult for him to move forward. There’s admiration and insecurity but perhaps some communication coming forward. Does this resonate? IP: Logged |
FruityLlama Knowflake Posts: 1485 From: Registered: Sep 2013
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posted November 14, 2025 07:26 AM
Hi Lily, Thank you so much, it does make sense with what I know is going on with him at the moment. Here is your reading: Magician, 8P rx, 2C rx 9S, 3W, Ace C death rx, sun rx, 6S rx He is trying, but his effort doesn’t match what you need. The relationship has chemistry and potential, but the connection feels out of sync. You are anxious and unsure because the relationship isn’t moving forward in the way you hoped. Youre waiting for growth or reassurance that hasn’t come yet. Is it possible you are worried about pushing him too much for the things you want? I don't see you as necessarily conflict averse but something is stopping each of you understanding what the other means. The last row shows stagnation and karmic looping — the relationship isn’t ending on its own, but it also isn’t progressing. Something major needs to change for things to move in a healthier direction. There is genuine emotional potential (Ace of Cups), but the current dynamic won’t develop unless both of you shift, and this comes down to communication really. The relationship isn’t doomed, but it is stuck. It won’t grow unless you communicate openly and break the repeated patterns. Without that, it will remain karmic and unsatisfying — with potential left unrealised. Have things improved since you posted this thread? IP: Logged |
LilyIris07 Knowflake Posts: 774 From: A South African in Shanghai Registered: Jan 2022
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posted November 14, 2025 07:56 AM
quote: Originally posted by FruityLlama: Hi Lily, Thank you so much, it does make sense with what I know is going on with him at the moment. Here is your reading: Magician, 8P rx, 2C rx 9S, 3W, Ace C death rx, sun rx, 6S rx He is trying, but his effort doesn’t match what you need. The relationship has chemistry and potential, but the connection feels out of sync. You are anxious and unsure because the relationship isn’t moving forward in the way you hoped. Youre waiting for growth or reassurance that hasn’t come yet. Is it possible you are worried about pushing him too much for the things you want? I don't see you as necessarily conflict averse but something is stopping each of you understanding what the other means. The last row shows stagnation and karmic looping — the relationship isn’t ending on its own, but it also isn’t progressing. Something major needs to change for things to move in a healthier direction. There is genuine emotional potential (Ace of Cups), but the current dynamic won’t develop unless both of you shift, and this comes down to communication really. The relationship isn’t doomed, but it is stuck. It won’t grow unless you communicate openly and break the repeated patterns. Without that, it will remain karmic and unsatisfying — with potential left unrealised. Have things improved since you posted this thread?
Hi fruity, thank you for your reading - it’s very much where things are now. I broke up with him because I was doing most of the heavy lifting, now perhaps communication does need to happen - but I have no desire to initiate that; he struggles with his self with and avoidance - if I open the communication he won’t need to step up and face himself, Ill just be doing it for him. I’m trying to stand strong in my own stability - energetically it is still looping but I’m not sure how to break out of that. I do want a new start but I don’t do all the work to get there…. He needs to push past his own **** , I’m doing what I can on my side to detach but it’s difficult. IP: Logged |
LilyIris07 Knowflake Posts: 774 From: A South African in Shanghai Registered: Jan 2022
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posted November 14, 2025 08:25 AM
Could you possibly look into where the misunderstandings are - or how we aren’t getting each other? If you have any other questions I’d be happy to answer IP: Logged |
LilyIris07 Knowflake Posts: 774 From: A South African in Shanghai Registered: Jan 2022
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posted November 16, 2025 05:11 AM
Update: We’ve had some conversation and the air has been cleared up, somewhat… I think we will just be friends; there’s no want from my side to get back together and there isn’t from his either. I think we just struggle to let each go entirely because we were friends for so long. IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 214195 From: I hold a Juris Doctorate (J.D.) and a Legum Magister (LL.M.)! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 24, 2025 05:21 PM
Thanks for the update.IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 214195 From: I hold a Juris Doctorate (J.D.) and a Legum Magister (LL.M.)! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 26, 2025 08:19 AM
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FruityLlama Knowflake Posts: 1485 From: Registered: Sep 2013
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posted December 02, 2025 11:51 AM
Hi Lily so sorry I didn't reply sooner. I'm glad the air is clearer between you two, that must take the weight off your shoulders a bit. I can understand it still feeling strange after you've been friends for so long though. Would you like to exchange again - if so, with a different question or the same one? IP: Logged |
LilyIris07 Knowflake Posts: 774 From: A South African in Shanghai Registered: Jan 2022
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posted December 04, 2025 07:12 AM
quote: Originally posted by FruityLlama: Hi Lily so sorry I didn't reply sooner. I'm glad the air is clearer between you two, that must take the weight off your shoulders a bit. I can understand it still feeling strange after you've been friends for so long though. Would you like to exchange again - if so, with a different question or the same one?
No problem yes we can ask the same question, and also perhaps if he’s even capable of the growth I need. What about you? IP: Logged |
FruityLlama Knowflake Posts: 1485 From: Registered: Sep 2013
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posted December 06, 2025 08:13 AM
Of course Lily I'll get to that shortly My question is; if I email A.M will be received me well? What does he think/feel about me if he remembers me? Many thanks, will be back shortly IP: Logged |
FruityLlama Knowflake Posts: 1485 From: Registered: Sep 2013
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posted December 06, 2025 08:19 AM
world-8P-10P 6C-AceC-Magician 5C-7S-KingPOk with regards the misunderstandings, I think it boils down the the fact that he, in some way, thought everything was done and fine. I wonder if he tried to improve and when he did, and you were happier, he just fell back into old patterns. Or his efforts just didn't stick in some way but for him he thought the actual of trying (whatever that means to him) was enough. I think he feels like he wasn't given enough chances but you feel like you gave enough (which I think you did). There's something here about him just not understanding how to get out of bed habits. Like, he's just stuck in a rut or something like that. His energy feels quite immovable in a way. I don't know if this can be resolved. I almost feel as though he has to repeat this pattern with someone else before anything really "clicks". But ultimately I think his 10% is your... Perhaps 60% . You just need more from a partner and thats totally fair enough. You have given him chances and your time and energy. If he doesn't get it now, he probably won't do even with the best intentions. And as they say, the road to hell is paved with good intentions. IP: Logged |