posted September 06, 2007 09:39 PM         

I have tried multiple visualizations, cord cuttings, etc. and repeat them over and over...

I need something more a ritual or a different type of cord cutting, etc.

Any suggestions???

Much thanks in advance and blessed be!!!

Terri

posted September 08, 2007 01:43 AM         

Anyways, this really is'nt my thing but I hate to see you suffer so I've done some research and found these sites to assist you in your endeavor:

Negativity Banishing Ritual
From Everyday Wicca by: Gerina Dunwich

Banishing ritual for someone who has done you harm by gossip, lies, deceit, etc.

Banishing+recitation of the 'Lord's Prayer', the 23rd, and 91st Psalms

Pythagorean Banishing Ritual

Egyptian banishing ritual

Video demonstration of The Banishing Ritual of the Pentagram

Cantrap Technique

It seems to me, reading this:

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I have tried multiple visualizations, cord cuttings, etc. and repeat them over and over...
I need something more a ritual or a different type of cord cutting, etc.

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I have a suggestion that will work though it's not called "banishing" it is very much along the lines of "Binding" have you heard of this?

A dear spiritual friend of mine taught me this Indian ritual used by her tribe. [For a very similiar situation I had been experiencing] It absolutely 100% worked the first time and continues to work to this day, now 14 years later! I've learned to use it in other situations as well, has always been successful! The #1 thing is you must believe it, have faith in it, and use your higher power to facilitate it [ei: Heavenly father, Jesus, etc.] If this seems a better option for you contact me with a little note of sorts and I'll be more than happy to work with you on it.
Myspace(your already on my "Friendslist")
Whatever you choose to do however be sure that no harm is intended, as you are probably well aware it will come back in full circle.
Please be careful...
My prayers are with you.

posted September 08, 2007 08:44 AM         

It amazes me that I can have absolutely NO contact with the individual, forget about him, go about my own business in my own daily life and out of the blue there he is again...

Again, thank you

posted September 09, 2007 09:14 AM         

No it is not crazy and you have a valid point!

I made the mistake of being nice to my psycho ex bf, and he interpetated my friendliness as me still being interested in him. I told him over and over I did not ever want a relationship with him again but would still answer my phone when he called, when I finally decided to put my money where my mouth was and just did not answer the phone he freaked out.

I have also wondered about having a male in one's energy space keeping others from being drawn to one, another reason I decided to cut the ties with psycho crab for good. I think this is a valid point you make!

Your situation is difficult as you two share children. It will be surely helpful for you to always be very diligent about etablishing boundaried with your ex and backing up your actions with words and giving him no gray areas to play in.

Hexxie posted a beautiful cord cutting exercise in another post, will see if I can find it in a bit.

Blessings

posted September 13, 2007 12:18 AM         

Good luck with it