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From: jupiter,FL,USA
Registered: Aug 2002

posted August 23, 2002 02:48 PM         

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Hi I'm gay and I like this waiter that I've seen like 4 times and I think he's gay too but I'm afraid that maybe he's not... then I would make a fool out of myself, and if he is, I'm afraid he would'nt find me attractive, plus I'm 13 and he looks like he's 16, and I'm not sure what i should do.... Please help ..... thanx
Sincerely,
Anonymous

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From: King Arthur's Camelot
Registered: Jun 2002

posted August 23, 2002 03:58 PM         

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Have you tried asking everyone around him if he's gay? How about trying to find out his past? Like did he have a girlfriend or if he's currently interested in someone else?
-My advice is too find out about his history!

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From: Columbus, GA USA
Registered: Jan 2002

posted August 24, 2002 10:15 AM         

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Hi bastet! Welcome to Teen Spirit! I'm sorry I don't know how to help you. Have you asked my Mommy on her forum to look at your birthdays? She's on Soul Unions. My Mommy's best friend is gay and he always knows if someone is gay or not. Maybe you should talk to someone older like him to learn from them to tell if someone is gay or not.

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From: California, USA
Registered: Feb 2003

posted August 26, 2002 02:12 PM         

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Hi bastet1989,I just want to say,I think it's very brave of you to declare your orientation like this! Have you come out to any of your friends? Do you have a lot of accepting people around you,or is gay bashing a problem? You could get one of your friends to tell one of his friends who would tell him,and if he wanted to respond he could.Maybe it doesn't work that way...oh well,good luck!

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From: Columbus, GA USA
Registered: Jan 2002

posted September 01, 2002 12:06 PM         

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Hi bastet, did you figure anything out yet? I was just wondering about you and what happened with that guy.

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From: jupiter,FL,USA
Registered: Aug 2002

posted September 02, 2002 05:06 PM         

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Well, I havent seen him in the restaurant yet. I'm afraid he left or maybe he got fired. But the funny thing is that I try to forget about him but he keeps returning later on into my thoughts... I dunno what to do. :'(

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