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StarLover33
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posted August 26, 2002 10:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for StarLover33     Edit/Delete Message
I'm sure some of us have had out fair share of heart breaks. Does anyone want to talk about it?

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Sheaa Olein
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posted August 27, 2004 08:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sheaa Olein     Edit/Delete Message

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Everlong
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posted August 27, 2004 10:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Everlong     Edit/Delete Message
Never been in a relationship, so I'm lucky . But I kind of feel bad- yesterday one of my male Aquarian buddies asked me out, and I turned him down, and for some reason he really wants a girlfriend, which I don't understand since he's only fifteen. We have plenty of time to get tangled in dating, why start now when we can still avoid it =D?

I like the quote in your signature Sheaa!

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Sheaa Olein
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posted August 28, 2004 07:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sheaa Olein     Edit/Delete Message
Thanks Everlong No need to feel bad because of that, specially if you're not ready! It's only natural if he wants the company of lovely Miss Everlong, eh? I know I wasn't ready at 15.. well didn't really have a choice, I was under the very protective wing of my father & stepmother, and working any spare time in the family business.. mananged to get out there at 19 / 20 though. Frustrating at the time, but kinda glad for it now. What's your numerical age Everlong?

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guess_my_sign
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posted August 28, 2004 02:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for guess_my_sign     Edit/Delete Message
Yeah ,I've been through a couple of heart breaks.
The first happened when I was in love with this capricon guy but never had the guts 2 go & tell him even though I knew that he liked me.Unfortunately on finishing High school he shifted 2 U.S with his family.We r in contact thru' net & we both think that we were quite young & confused back then.
It took me a long time 2 forget him .Then I met this cute Piscean in college. But unfortunately he already has a girlfriend & he's going 2 drop out of college within a month .

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Everlong
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posted August 28, 2004 02:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Everlong     Edit/Delete Message
I'm fifteen, Sheaa- will be sixteen in February ! People my age just take relationships way too seriously these days, and it's pretty annoying. That's why I just prefer having male buddies, but it's backfired a couple of times- that Aquarian guy, for example, and then I always have the inkling that this Sagittarian that I'm friends with might think of me as a little more than a friend sometimes, but maybe that's my Piscean radar going too far, heh.

I don't really understand why some parents are so protective of their children even when they're still sixteen/fifteen- my best friend's parents are like that, but it kind of boggles me, because don't they understand that in three years she's going to be completely on her own, and that that's going to be a really tough shock for her? I mean, I can understand it, they see that their liitle baby is going to be gone sooner than they thought so they become more tenacious, but you know?

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LibraSparkle
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posted August 29, 2004 03:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LibraSparkle     Edit/Delete Message
Everlong hon, don't ever doubt your female intuition about a guy's intentions. You'll find they're usually right. If you have an inkling... he's thinking it. You know? Your Pisces radar is right on as far as I can tell

My youngest is a Pisces. Feb 19. I hope she's got her head on as well as you when she's 15

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Everlong
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posted August 29, 2004 05:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Everlong     Edit/Delete Message

I just hope I'm not right because he's one of my closest guy pals, you know, he's awesome, he's a riot, and it would be incredibly awkward if I was right, you know?

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Randall
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posted August 30, 2004 10:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message

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QueenofSheeba
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posted August 31, 2004 11:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for QueenofSheeba     Edit/Delete Message
Possible heartbreak coming up. Don't know. It could also have a happy ending. The astrology isn't terribly hopeful- Oct. 15, 1987 and Feb. 26, 1987- but the stars will not dissuade me.

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LibraSparkle
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posted September 01, 2004 01:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LibraSparkle     Edit/Delete Message
Best of luck

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Sheaa Olein
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posted September 02, 2004 08:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sheaa Olein     Edit/Delete Message
Hi Everlong honey, yes I know what you mean I've yet to experience motherhood, being 26 now, it can't be far off - when I choose the right partner that is!

Best of luck with your experiences. It's so difficult to keep friends of the opposite sex, when your inkling that they want something more is correct. I personally can't be blatently rude to anyone, unless I'm pushed - sometimes that's a good and bad thing. As long as your not being taken advantage of - it's all good

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Sheaa Olein
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posted September 02, 2004 08:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sheaa Olein     Edit/Delete Message
guess_my_sign - yeah a difficult one. Always best not fall for the guy with the girl! I'm glad you're keeping in touch with the guy that moved to the US though

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Sheaa Olein
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posted September 02, 2004 08:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sheaa Olein     Edit/Delete Message
QOS - how ya doin' petal?

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QueenofSheeba
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posted September 05, 2004 03:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for QueenofSheeba     Edit/Delete Message
Pretty well, Sheaa. I've been around him a lot lately. Gone to the state fair twice in the past few days, both times with Danny Boy and two other friends, who in both cases are a couple... so when we went on rides or whatever, the other two were usually together and I would get a car with him. I don't think he's quite decided whether he's gay or straight... I mean, he thinks he likes girls... but he doesn't. There is, like, no desire. The question being, does he like guys?

I've liked him for close to a year now. Last year I wasn't brave enough to make a move, but this year I think I will. It won't happen for a week or two, though.


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DeepIYM
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posted September 06, 2004 02:07 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DeepIYM     Edit/Delete Message
Whoa... I totally spend 12 Rockin' hours with this girl yesterday. Man! we were all over the place, like having pizza and wine in the park. or playing Halo, or looking at Art! it was so much fun... and then today, she totally tells me she just broke up with her ex.... Oh My God... That threw me into a funk, I was socially no good the rest of tonight. Damn it! She's so cool to. She likes to camp, good music, happy and fun loving, totally killer. She's Indian, Native American, Mexican, and Caucasian... I've always wanted to date an Indian. So here I am, She's still getting over this dude... I gotta wait my turn, I just don't know what's going to happen while I wait my turn... I'm going to get interested in someone else (not that I know of, but there is this one girl) or is something going to feel awkward??? I just don't know, it's all so new!

Sheaa Olein: your 26? Almost over the hill, eh? j/k Oh and I just got those Negitives back from my trip!

QOS: You know I have a few gay friends (being a connoisseur of the art scene) and I always wonder how hard it would be to find a decent gay guy... cuz I mean they aren't like just every where, like women are. just my observation.
You know it's kinda funny, after being around a lot of gay people, I've picked up gaydar...

Everlong... As a living example that hormones are drugs... And after going on my first successful date... You don't know all the confusing fun your missing out of... I'm in the hands of this girl, It's like is she going to, uh… is it going to work out? what?? I JUST DON'T KNOW! And it's totally driving my crazy, so if that's how you feel stick with it. Although, personally, I enjoyed having that hot hunk of Indian love sitting on my lap while she strokes my hair...

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QueenofSheeba
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posted September 06, 2004 04:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for QueenofSheeba     Edit/Delete Message
Deep- your gaydar is probably a lot better than mine! (it frequently being blinded by desire).
I think there are plenty of decent gay guys around, it's just hard to find them because they're 'in hiding'... or aren't out of the closet, or something.

Too bad about the girl. Just be patient while she recovers.

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DeepIYM
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posted September 07, 2004 11:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DeepIYM     Edit/Delete Message
One of my very best friends is gay. He's an amazing man, but for some reason relatioships never worked out with him, at least in the sexual-serious side. I think, my god, what a great soul... And yet no one has seen him for the man he truely is, in a sexual-serious way... Gay marage being a "hot" topic of debate. Bull **** , A: It is not another person's choice, it is the people who are involeds choice. and B: It is just a "hot" topic of debate because it side tracks America from the real issues. Social change is always needed. This is a time of change.

Not Bush
Not Kerry

CHANGE!

That's what I vote for.

Kinda lost my focus there, but I want you to know, that I wish you luck as a gay man. I like Girls for sure, but even a desent one of them is hard to find...

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LibraSparkle
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posted September 07, 2004 11:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LibraSparkle     Edit/Delete Message
So wise, Randall

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Everlong
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posted September 07, 2004 11:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Everlong     Edit/Delete Message
Well, I might be missing out on confusing fun, but hey- I'm just happy being great buds with someone, you know?

Now that we're on the topic of sexuality, I think I'll take the wheel . I have no idea why everyone gets so pissy about it, and what really ****** me off, more than the avid homophobes, are the people that say "Oh, I have NOTHING against gay people". And then you see them the next day, huddled with a group of their friends, pointing and snickering at the gay/lesbian/bi/(you get the idea) walking past.

I have this friend. Well, she's my best friend. And you know that telepathic connection Linda mentions in the Pisces-Scorpio chapter of Love Signs? That's what it's like, and sometimes I think that I wouldn't mind marrying her XD. But more for the spiritual and mental companionship, you know? I wouldn't call myself bisexual, because I'm really not sexually attracted to women- I guess I'm ambi-sexual?

Oh well, who cares, I don't have to define my sexuality, if I love you enough, then hey- doesn't matter if you're male, female, or a llama.

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Sheaa Olein
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posted September 08, 2004 05:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sheaa Olein     Edit/Delete Message
Well said Everlong!
Wasn't there a psychological study which stated everyone experiences homosexual feelings in their teens? I just remembered it as relevant to the topic - but does anyone remember a report like this? It was linked with a news story here I think since the report was mentioned in the paper.

Anyhow.. I moved schools alot so I've had a few female friends I've been really close with - one I could have lived with! On the whole, I get along with guys better since I was mainly raised by my father & was quite a tomboy at heart. Like Everlong I'm not sexually attracted to women, though I can see them as attractive & can appreciate beauty and am pretty open about that.

The whole thing about crossing the line from friendship to 'something' more does bug me alot at times. There are guys I've been really good friends with or potentially really good friends with, but sometimes - along the way, we aren't heading for the same outcome and it makes an otherwise good situation awkward! My best - bestfriend is a gay guy, he's away on work since he's a makeup artist so I miss him loads. He's a perfect friend to me, he's honest, open, caring, no needless competition either which is so exhausting.

Hey QoS - good luck with Mr? I hope you get the answer to your question soon hun

Randall, the ever-philosopher - *best cranky old voice* send me those pictures boy! Don't worry bout the negatives, it's the positives I want! Good luck with your Injun Love too

Dani - I just wanna squish you


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Everlong
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posted September 08, 2004 06:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Everlong     Edit/Delete Message
Sheaa, about the guy friends thing and making good situations awkward- EXACTLY!

I don't know, it's probably my Venus in Aquarius or Uranus in the 7th house, but sometimes I think that I would love to be in a marriage that wasn't sexual at all, but just you know, spending the rest of your life with your bestest pal in the world. Because, for instance- I have this guy friend at school that I LOVE, but not that way at all, but you know? Hmm.

I've realized I say 'you know?' too much .

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DeepIYM
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posted September 10, 2004 09:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DeepIYM     Edit/Delete Message
Sheaa... I know I have to send you those pictures they turned out great. I've been Mondo busy! Holy Crapage.

Oh about the sexuallity think, My Two cents.
Women are soft...

Randall III

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Mer_Girl
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posted September 10, 2004 06:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mer_Girl     Edit/Delete Message
Well i was in love with this Pisces boy(i`m Virgo so opposites attract)born on February 28th 1985 for 2 years but a relationship was never formed.he is scared to death from serious relationships,but that didn`t stop me to love him.he was the one to wich i had most deep and strong feelings(there were like periods of monts in wich i was in a deep depression and cried every night and didnt want to live anymore because life without him didnt seem to have a point).but thanks to him i found that i have talent for poetry and i think that i`m very good at it now and my best poems are dedicated to him.my feelings lasted until very soon.we had a terrible fight on august the 24th(the birthday of my cousnd) and the feelings just disapeared since then.afther that night i was getting used to not loving him anymore,i felt very empy,but not longar than 2 weeks later i met a wonderful Leo boy(born august 21st 1982)and now i`m looking forward to getting to know him better.he understands me very good.but i`ll never forget the most sad and beautiful song of my youth-that Pisces boy(even though most people think that he is a man,i know that he is still a child inside).

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Randall
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posted September 12, 2004 12:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message

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