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From: Thane ,Maharashtra ,India
Registered: Apr 2004

posted July 22, 2004 02:42 PM         

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hi everyone...
The way in which men(and women ) court differs in different places, so thought about starting a post on that.Like I've heard that the first step a guy takes in courting is asking his girl out.
In India the system (for teens ) is a little different.A guy "proposes" you means he says that he loves you and asks whether u feel the same 4 him & you have 2 reply by saying yes or no.
A girl would usually come on a date with u if u have proposed to her & she's said yes ,tht is u r in a relationship.
well, tell me more about how u do it in yur country.....

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From: Columbus, GA USA
Registered: Nov 2000

posted July 23, 2004 04:57 PM         

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Sounds great--sort of innocent like we do as children in the US--when we write a note toi the object of our puppy love crush that says "Do you like me? Check yes or no."

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From: Denver, Co,
Registered: Aug 2003

posted July 26, 2004 03:14 AM         

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I would like to answer that question... But can not find it in myself to articulate. I'll give you the gist.

Americans Thrive off of what I call Empty Shell Complex. Put on a show. Get it over with. Guy's hoping that he gets in her pants. Girl's hoping that he's the perfect match and if not: "I can change that." I don't see much love in my school. I see only pain. And no body is aware of it.

Maybe I'm just projecting my pain of a lack of connection with my peers. They seem so distant from their true self.

Randall III

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From: Australia
Registered: Jul 2004

posted July 26, 2004 04:48 AM         

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Yeah I guess its kinda the same here in Australia but I tend to find that the girls are more likely to make the first move and ask the guy out.

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From: Denver, Co,
Registered: Aug 2003

posted July 26, 2004 02:41 PM         

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Really? I dig that. It's sometiems really hard here in America, you liket he girl but, your afraid of rejection. That's how it is every where I guess.

RIII

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From: Thane ,Maharashtra ,India
Registered: Apr 2004

posted July 27, 2004 01:58 PM         

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well,rejection is feared by guys even in India.But girls also do get rejected here....like I've been rejected by my pisces love.
Girls do take the first step but only the bold types do that(I did that on taking advice from my Aries friend).But I think guys don't like girls doing that, besides girls r always looking for the prince of their dreams!!

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