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Joey123k
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posted April 18, 2011 02:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Joey123k     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
how do you get over past relationships??im a cancer so its easier said then done...some help guyz

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Randall
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posted April 18, 2011 12:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Welcome!

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charmainec
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posted April 19, 2011 04:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for charmainec     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Welcome

Heartbreak is not easy.
Try writing down your feelings,releasing them in a journal.
Speak to family or a close friend sothat you have support and you don't go through this alone.
It might also help getting rid of items from your ex that way there are no reminders that make you feel sad.
Be kind to yourself and keep busy.

Hope that helps a bit.

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Joey123k
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posted April 19, 2011 06:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Joey123k     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
thank u very much..that realli does help

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SunChild
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posted April 19, 2011 08:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SunChild     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

Walking through the pain, writing about it, talking to friends help a lot.
Time passes by so use it well, and in time the feelings will heal.

best wishes and welcome !

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Joey123k
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posted April 19, 2011 08:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Joey123k     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@sunchild....thank you...yea i find that writing about it really works for me because im not very comfortable talking bout my personal matters...no matter how close they are...

i had to post this because i realised i havent completly gotten over one of my relationship a year ago because i was cheated on..i still havent forgiven her for it..

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Randall
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posted April 20, 2011 12:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Cheating is the ultimate betrayal. It gets better over time.

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"All deaths are suicides, do you realize that? Every single one. The only distinction is that, with some people, suicide is a subconscious choice, and with others it's a conscious choice. Otherwise, those who commit suicide and those who succumb to accident, illness or "old age," die for exactly the same reason: belief in the inevitability of death." Linda Goodman

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Joey123k
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posted April 20, 2011 02:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Joey123k     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Randall:
Cheating is the ultimate betrayal. It gets better over time.


very true randle...cheating is something that is unforgivable n unforgetable..

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Cancer/Scorpio729
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posted April 20, 2011 09:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Cancer/Scorpio729     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm a cancer too, I know what you mean. Give it time and don't think about it too much. In my experience (which is pretty limited lol) mulling over things just increases the intensity of the emotion. And yeah, do write about it

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Joey123k
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posted April 21, 2011 11:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Joey123k     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i just finally did sum writing about this..turns out i have more than i relationship to deal with..soo many things i have written that i found affected me that im utterly heartbroken...its like 3 in the mroning yet i cannot sleep..!!i really feel lost more than i realised

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Randall
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posted April 22, 2011 04:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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"All deaths are suicides, do you realize that? Every single one. The only distinction is that, with some people, suicide is a subconscious choice, and with others it's a conscious choice. Otherwise, those who commit suicide and those who succumb to accident, illness or "old age," die for exactly the same reason: belief in the inevitability of death." Linda Goodman

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Randall
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posted April 23, 2011 11:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Are you feeling better?

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"All deaths are suicides, do you realize that? Every single one. The only distinction is that, with some people, suicide is a subconscious choice, and with others it's a conscious choice. Otherwise, those who commit suicide and those who succumb to accident, illness or "old age," die for exactly the same reason: belief in the inevitability of death." Linda Goodman

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Joey123k
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posted April 23, 2011 07:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Joey123k     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes thank you randall...i guess i just had to see the truth and it makees me feel better now..i feel lighter maybe i lost some weight

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posted May 03, 2011 06:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for charmainec     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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Randall
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posted May 04, 2011 01:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
That's good.

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Randall
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posted May 29, 2011 02:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
How goes it, Joey?

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Randall
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posted June 11, 2011 01:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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affy
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posted March 19, 2012 12:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for affy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You sounded so sad up there.. i hope you're much better off now! I don't see you much around here. Do you still visit?

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