posted August 21, 2002 01:44 PM         

In the dream I live in some sort of hotel (or apartment) complex. Also living there are a bunch of people I work with, although no one I know very closely.

And I keep stealing my boyfriends car. The stealing of the car is never actually in the dream just the knowing he found out. Before this morning the dream never stayed with me. However at one point in the dream very shortly before I awoke he (my boyfriend) turned to me to warn me of the onsequence of if I did it One More Time, which brought the memories of the other two times back.

I'm certain that they were seperate dreams from yesterday and a few days before that.

posted August 22, 2002 12:07 PM         

This dream suggests that there is some sort of confliction in your relationship, something you may have some anger towards. Or it could be that you are in need of attention from the boyfriend. Questions would probably be more helpful.

Is there something you feel angry or even guilty about?

Do you feel that something has been unjustly taken from you, or that you have done so?

Do you feel you need something from the boyfriend, perhaps something you feel he will not understand?

Has your confidence been in some way diminished?

That is about all I can think of!

posted August 23, 2002 11:19 PM         

Now that I think about it I am angry. The silly bugger got burned rather badly by his last serious girlfriend (They were living together and she slept around & then dumped him, didn't help that it was a recurring pattern for him). Anyway after her he decided he didn't want to fall in love again.

I met him and had an instant connection. I was content to let it be friends at first anything to get to know him. We got to know each other and the better we got to know each other the more the romantic/sexual side of things grew. He constantly put distance in so I didn't pursue it. Last august though things sort of cracked. By november we were pretty serious. Right now we spend about 5 nights a week together.
And every second month (Since febuary) he talks about how we shouldn't be doing this because he doesn't mant to fall in love again, by the way he loves me, and so I should go find someone to fall madly in love with. Did he mention he loves me?
So ya I guess I am a little frustrated and angry.
I don't want to dump him, but I don't want to go on this way and I guess lately the not wanting to keep going this way side has been getting stronger than the not wanting to dump him.
I want to steal his car (escape route). Even the hotel/apt thing makes sense because where I curently live my social circle and my work is connected with him.

posted August 24, 2002 10:08 PM         

The dream was kind of playing out certain emotional energies in a symbolic, situational way.

Perhaps you can recieve some guidance if you ask what to do? Try it before you sleep. You never know!

It does seem like a rather tricky situation. Good luck to you, I hope he can find confidence in you.