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Topic: RA, can I ask your opinion on these dreams?
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Rue
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From: Kitchener, Ontario Canada
Registered: Jul 2002
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posted August 13, 2002 11:55 PM
 
Hi Ra, I have had a somewhat reocuring dream. This actually is about an ex-boyfriend.
The first one was soon after our breakup. There was a war going on and he was about to be sent in too. I was scared for him and didn't want him to go, so I went looking for him and found him with all these people, they were under a bridge and wouldn't let me see him! I was so frustraited! I knew (in my dream) he wanted to see me too but was also wanting to be with these people, it was like they had him brain washed.
The 2nd dream is relitivley the same but it happend at least a year later.This time we were in a mall together and then all of a suddan I couldn't find him and went serching everywhere, when I did find him he was once again with another group of people (all wearing black) and once again they wouldn't let him come to me and once again he wanted to though....
And the last one was not to long ago... he was at my (new) sister in laws wedding, I saw him there and got very mad at him in fear that my fiancee would see him and get mad at me for him being there. I felt bad for being so mad and upsetting him so went to look for him,and ONCE again couldn't find him!
What would you think this means? Im just not sure what to think, I guess thats why Im asking you. 
Thanks alot!
Rue
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Ra
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posted August 14, 2002 02:09 PM
Very interesting, Rue. I will let that one digest and hopefully I can find something meaningful for you. Tomorrow?  IP: Logged |
Rue
Knowflake Posts: 144
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posted August 14, 2002 04:40 PM
Great Ra, Thanks so much!
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Ra
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posted August 15, 2002 01:23 PM
Hello, Rue!Looking or searching for something or someone suggests that there is something missing in your waking life. It seems there is something about your ex-boyfriend that you miss, something that your current relationship does not provide. This does not necessarily mean that there is something wrong with your present relationship, just something ... lacking, perhaps. There are things in the symbology that suggest unconscious forces at work - group of people=collective unconscious, "under a bridge" and "all wearing black" are also symbols of the unconscious. The precise meaning of the symbols for the unconscious evades me. Perhaps they are simply suggesting that either you or he, or both, are unaware of the true energies that feuled that relationship, or perhaps there is unfinished business between the two of you that remains hidden (or buried) within the unconscious, for some reason. How do you feel about this ex? You loved him much? If you care to answer - why did you break up, and who made the break? When you think of him, what do you feel? What type of energy do you associate with him? There is also the possibility that some pattern in the relationship with the ex is repeating itself in the current relationship. This could suggest a need to incorporate what you learned from that relationship into the present, or could be a warning about slipping into an old pattern. Because the material seems to be of an unconscious nature, it may be difficult to discern, so give it some thought and be aware of how you FEEL about the thoughts. Does any of this seem to fit?  IP: Logged |
Rue
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From: Kitchener, Ontario Canada
Registered: Jul 2002
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posted August 16, 2002 09:07 AM
Ra, Well the awnser to the first question is do I miss him? Yes, somtimes... Not usually though, it's usually somthing that triggers it off (aka,a dream) and I'll miss him for about a week, he usually doesn't come up in my thoughts often though. But I will probably always miss him to some extent, it was a relationship full of some pretty extreem emotions.
2nd question...did I love him much? I loved him very, very much. I think it was a very unhealthy love though, he was absoloutley EVERYTHING to me, I know he loved me quite a bit as well but had a very cool exterior and didn't show it the same way.
We broke up because as I mentioned, it was an unhealthy love and if we wern't on the extreem of loving eachother we were on the extreem of fighting eachother, it was a game of tug-a-war and I guess in the last couple months the fighting started to win and there were no nice words between us anymore. He was the one who officially broke it off, knowing it was best for the both of us and our sanity. I took it very hard. A couple months later we startd to be together again. Niether of us talked about a relationship though, but we acted like we were in one. He was dating, and so was I, which is how I ended up where I am now. When I last talked to him I guess you could say he was pretty jelous, and angry I wasn't with him anymore, but kept saying to me he thinks we will be together again later on when we can both handle it. I honestly wouldn't do it though, Im happy where I am now, and yea there are a few things in this relationship that seem to be missing, but I still wouldn't change it, the other one was WAY to much to handle, it hurt other people around us too.
3rd question.. I think the energy I associate with him would be I feel sad. Im not sure if it's because I wish it never happend at all and we would probably be friends still, or maybe it's cause he took a real turn down hill after and I feel pretty bad for him. Im not sure why I feel that way.
I honestly don't believe any patern is being repeated, these two are really very differant, so are the relationships.
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Rue
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posted August 18, 2002 07:00 PM
Did I answer your questions ok Ra?
If there's anything else you want to know, just ask.
Thanks alot
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Ra
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posted August 19, 2002 10:44 AM
Thank you Rue, that was great.  I must say that I feel karmic ties are working in both relationships (but are they not all?), ties that are based in some past-life experiences, perhaps involving all three together, at times. Not that this is particularly unusual, it is just that the forces can be felt intensified periodically due to certain synchronizations. I get the feeling that if you were to play around with thoughts about past-lives with these gentlemen, you may actually gain some insight on the dynamics that are at work. What do you think? IP: Logged |
raj_105_2001
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From: Chennai
Registered: Apr 2001
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posted August 19, 2002 06:01 PM
You need not worry too much Rue. It is enough if you change your name to end with 'ga' or 'ri'. Your ex-boyfriend will come towards you running. Meanwhile do you want him to phone you?IP: Logged |
Ra
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posted August 20, 2002 01:35 PM
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Rue
Knowflake Posts: 144
From: Kitchener, Ontario Canada
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posted August 20, 2002 07:08 PM
Hi Ra, I have thought before that we were all together in past lives, I have known the ex boyfriend since I was 13, and my boyfriend now I have known since I was 16. The boyfriend I have now developed feelings for me Im quite certian from the start and the ex boyfriend and I didn't truley connect until about 8 years later, he was and still is my brothers friend.{note: I don't try to make it a habit to be with guys I have known for years, the relationships almost seem to fall onto my lap!} Anyhow... While I was with him he would make snarky remarks about the guy Im with now...even though I think they met once a very long time ago and can't even place a face to eachother, but, they both seem to have a strange sort of hate towards eachother, it could be the ex boyfriend/new boyfriend syndrome, but I don't know.
I have never figured out any kind of past life before. Is it possable to do through tarot cards? Any suggestions? raj,thanks for the advice, I don't think I would like this relationship to rekindle. It was a very hard relationship on me mentaly and took alot out of me.
As far as him phoneing me... I don't think it's a good idea.
What makes you think I should put 'ga' or 'ri' into my name? Im just curious how you think it would effect our relationship and why. Thanks so much,
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raj_105_2001
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posted August 21, 2002 07:15 AM
Because your boyfriend is in love, would love only any one whose name ends with 'ga' or 'ri' (Refer to the 2nd Volume of the Ancient Numerological treasury - it is about 15,000 pages - I don't think it is available)IP: Logged |
Ra
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posted August 21, 2002 11:47 AM
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