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Australdi
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posted February 21, 2002 12:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Australdi     Edit/Delete Message
I dreamt that I was pulling a grey hair from a certain persons head....I know that symbolically it was quite important, but I don't know how. The hair was long & curly (hebrewish style)..tight ringlet...there were quite a few...above the sideburns in otherwise shortish light brown hair.
???
.....been dreaming too much lately...too much information...unsettling when you're not sure how to interpret it all
....a week or so ago I woke up from a nightmare (hardly ever have those) where the aforementioned person had just doused me in lighter fluid & was just about to light a match!!
...feel like I'm losing the plot, but at the same time getting almost tangibly close to real answers....how far can I reach out without letting go, & can I regain a grip after I let go & dive for the truth?

Aus

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The price of self-destiny is never cheap, and in certain situations it is unthinkable. But to achieve the marvelous, it is precisely the unthinkable that must be thought.
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Ra
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posted February 21, 2002 01:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ra     Edit/Delete Message
Hi, Australdi.

It is not clear to me who this other person is. Is it someone you know, or a dream personality? This could be about you or about a situation between the two of you.

Whatever the case, it is indicated that something (inner or outer?) is ready to ignite and you are afraid of being burned by it. I feel that intense emotion is involved. This may have to do with some old thought-form (grey hair) and the removal of it. The question is: is this your blockage or another's? Then again, we could be talking about the gaining of wisdom (pulling grey hair) through this person or through some inner source, and your fear of facing it, due to its emotional nature.

Can you give me any more information? Do you know the person in your dream? What do you think grey symbolizes? Is there a situation in waking life that is causing you stress and feels ready to ignite at any time? Or do you think this is an internal process, perhaps one of growth?

And as for your last question, I am not certain what you mean

I apologize for all of the questions, but the answers would make a world of difference!

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Australdi
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posted February 21, 2002 09:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Australdi     Edit/Delete Message
Ra
Thanks for such a quick response!
Yes I do know him....It is the guy I am seeing at the moment...and I have been drawn to him (by a strong hand of fate...many unusual circumstances surround our meeting)
and unable to leave yet as I have a strong feeling that I need to play this 'relationship' out further. Yes I am scared of getting burnt (we are fire & air) (volatility kept in check at the moment by strong water in our charts)Both of us are saying that we will not get emotionally involved, but I suspect that both of us to a degree are, and simply denying it...ie: a passionate, but emotionally reserved relationship.
I had no idea what the grey sybolised, but the idea of old thought patterns fits...as does the gaining of wisdom. I am battling my past 'daemons' and attempting to change my responses to situations that arise, putting into practice my new beliefs (and gaining much wisdom from it) I suspect he may be battling similar experiences, but less able to acknowledge them and less enthusiastic to embrace other possibilities within himself...ie: I sense he is still saying to himself that "things won't/can't change" whereas I am activly seeking change within myself (even if I still resist or fear it at times)
maybe I am trying to open his mind to possibilities or maybe just my own mind...or a combination of both.
although he has no grey hair in reality, he had 4-6 each side in the dream. I only pulled one out, don't know if I was going to pull more, as I woke up.
...The last bit was just me having a minor panic/reality check, as sometimes I feel with my searching for what is truth, and what is illusion I often feel that my grip on reality is tenuous...my mind is capable of far greater gymnastics than my physical/spiritual body is ready to contemplate
You posed the important question though Ra, Is it my block or his?... I don't know the answer to that, I think that is what I am searching for, however in searching I am learning much so maybe in the big picture the block isn't important...or maybe it crucial...
I'm really strugling to work out what is 'REAL'
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Ra
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posted February 22, 2002 12:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ra     Edit/Delete Message
That information does help. The dream does seem to reflect your situation, both internal and external. The relationship you are in is a catalyst for the inner growth, as I suppose they all should be!

I would say that the meaning of this dream indicates that perhaps you are to help him remove this old thought-form. It seems to me that for him the grey hair that you pulled out symbolizes old thought, and that for you it represents the gaining of wisdom. In helping him, you help yourself. The other grey hairs still attatched could symbolize the other opportunities that exist between the two of you, although they may be disguised as pain or conflict at first, so be aware.

You feel your grip on reality is tenuous, perhaps because you are becoming aware of a larger reality. In order to grasp one, you must release the other (not necessarily discard), only then will you understand both. It is a tenuous place to be! Look (or listen) to the intuition for guidance, you will find that at this stage, it is ready to be seen (or heard)!

Please feel free to ask me about any dream, you will no doubt have some seemingly odd ones coming up.

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Australdi
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posted February 25, 2002 08:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Australdi     Edit/Delete Message
Thanks

Aus

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The price of self-destiny is never cheap, and in certain situations it is unthinkable. But to achieve the marvelous, it is precisely the unthinkable that must be thought.
~Tom Robbins...jitterbug perfume

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