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theFajita
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posted December 23, 2002 03:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for theFajita     Edit/Delete Message
Hello anybody who could help me with this would be greatly appreciated. I took a nap today and dreamt that I went to a woman in Japan (this was somehow close by in my dream) and she was very nice and delicate and took my hands, and she had running water and it was all very peaceful and feng-shui like. Anyhow she held my hands and asked me to look at different words and letters and tell her what I thought. She ended up giving me all this advice and telling me about my past and my personality and future.

Then at the end of the session she grabbed my face in her two hands and told me that she knew I had a boyfriend that I wanted to leave but that he had a troubled soul and I was supposed to help him before I left, I was supposed to stay just a little longer and love him and help him.

I said to her, "that is so funny, that is exactly the same vibe or message I got when I posted his name on the lexigram forum on my Lindaland place I visit." and she had no clue what I just said but nodded her head and told me to wait more before I left.

Now I had been sort of planning to leave, not over Christmas, but throwing my old stuff away, mentally preparing and saving money and not telling my boyfriend. Do you think this was a sign that I should stay a little longer? do you think this was my fears about leaving giving me this dream so that I would feel better about staying.
I just want to know what the dream meant.
The Japanese woman was wise and spoke only truths to me the whole visit. I don't know if this matters but she charged for these visits, and Jay-Z was there for his appointment and I told him that she was really great. Then I woke up.
thanks guys..

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theFajita
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posted December 23, 2002 02:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for theFajita     Edit/Delete Message
? anyone?

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AmberVonSchriek
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posted December 23, 2002 06:08 PM           Edit/Delete Message

I wanted to respond earlier, hon! But I'm just uncertain. It seems to me you got a clear message in your dream but at the same time I know you wouldn't want to stay in the relationship any longer than you want to. So it's really tough!

But since you wanted to save some money before you go, why don't you go ahead and do that.. it'll take a little while. In the mean time think about what you have to help your boyfriend with. What's troubling him? How can you point him in the right direction before you go? Maybe do some meditations or some more dream work to find out a little more.

She didn't say how long you should stay... it coule only be a couple more weeks!

Then again it COULD be that you're feeling guilty for wanting to leave and that vibration showed up in your dream. What do you think?

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Ra
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posted December 23, 2002 06:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ra     Edit/Delete Message
Amber is right, only you know the answer to this, and it could easily be either of the possibilities you suggested. Her advice seems sound as well - ask yourself what it is that needs to be done.

What is it that he needs help with?

What is it that you need help with?

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Mystique
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posted December 23, 2002 07:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mystique     Edit/Delete Message
Hi Sweetie,
Notice how you went to visit this lady in Japan, YOU went seeking for advice and it shows me that you know in your heart what you want to do already and that is shown by what you say to her...
"I said to her, "that is so funny, that is exactly the same vibe or message I got when I posted his name on the lexigram forum on my Lindaland place I visit." and she had no clue what I just said but nodded her head and told me to wait more before I left."
You agree with your higher self (the Japanese lady).

The fee you had to pay probably indicates the sacrifice you feel you have to make by staying with Jay-Z.

theFajita, know that you can still love him and help him even after you leave. Follow your instinct. So, you have been thinking a while now to leave but something is holding you back. Yes, you love him but the fact is that you want to leave and from what I understand so far from your other post you also feel tied to him cause he helped you through your ordeals before.

Think about this....when did you first feel you wanted to leave, how long ago was this urge? Has this urge subsided a little since then or has it grown stronger? If it is stronger you will eventually leave, and soon. If the urge is weaker, you don't think about it as often, then look at when and what it is that makes you feel you want out.

I am just giving you some thoughts and I cannot tell you what to do, you know that, but ask yourself this...do you see yourself loving and making a home with this guy one day. Are you really in love with him...I know you love him, but does he make your heart sing? (you know what I mean)

I know this must be so hard for you, really, but it is obviously burdening you too and this dream seems to suggest that whatever your decision will be, be his friend as well. What concerns me is that you are secretly planning to leave, and that shows me you have some fear as to how he will react. Carm, love knows no fear, and you should be able to discuss your concerns with him...if you cannot and you are fearful of what the outcome might be if you do, then you need to ask yourself whether this is real love to you...I think you know the answer, sweet one.

Tonight before you fall asleep as you pray ask God to guide you...discuss the other dream you had with the Japanese lady and ask Him to show you clearly. You will know what to do soon enough because your Higher Self will keep nudging you in the right direction...through dreams and messages from everywhere. Keep your eyes and heart open and you will know what to do.

Sending you a big hug chiquita and God bless you


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taj
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posted December 24, 2002 12:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for taj     Edit/Delete Message
what mystique says is true, fajita. ask for more guidance before going to sleep.

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theFajita
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posted December 24, 2002 11:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for theFajita     Edit/Delete Message
Thanks so much everyone! You all have so much insight! I couldn't see into it very well because well, I am in the situation.
The next night I had a dream that I was kidnapped away from my boyfriend and it was the happiest day of my life- I was so happy. So maybe during this time I can help him but the truth is I would like to eventually seperate. thank you Amber, mystique, taj and Ra I really appreciate you all taking the time to offer your input! I think I will ask for more guidance before sleeping, and be open too. And like Amber said perhaps that was vibrations of guilt overlapping in my dream. love to all of you and happy Christmas eve! danita

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Randall
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posted December 25, 2002 10:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message

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Oxychick
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posted January 06, 2003 01:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Oxychick     Edit/Delete Message
Hey Fajita-this is my first time posting in this forum...

It sounds to me like that first dream showed that you were looking for a reason to stay. (you know, like when you decide to quit smoking you go out and say, well I'll quit tomorrow because I have to smoke when I drink....or I'll start that diet after Thanksgiving and then it's No, I'll start that diet after Christmas...)

That second dream also sounds very strong...think about it, you felt happy in the second dream, but not with the first. Which one should you follow?

You're a very, very strong person. I'm confident you'll make the right decision for you.

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theFajita
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posted January 06, 2003 02:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for theFajita     Edit/Delete Message
You are right I felt so so happy in the second dream, it was so wonderful. In the first dream I didn't know how I felt before but now I look back and see it was a whole lot of guilt. Ah, that Catholic raising did it again! LOL

THank you Oxychick for your kind words to me, your confidence in me helps me more than you know

love d

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