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Topic: dad in danger
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Wave
Knowflake Posts: 99
From: Barcelona, Spain
Registered: Apr 2002
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posted April 08, 2003 04:38 AM
 
What does it mean if you dream of your father being in danger? In my dream my dad was taking a boat in a very dangerous lake. There was cocodriles in it. He had something important to do, so he had to take that boat, but I was really scared and worried about him. Me and other people were waiting for him, when we saw how he suddenly fell off the boat. Finally nothing happened, but it was a worrying dream.
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Randall
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From: Columbus, GA USA
Registered: Nov 2000
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posted April 09, 2003 12:49 PM
Maybe the crocks and boat have as much or more importance than the danger aspect. But I'm definitely no expert.  ------------------
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Ra
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posted April 09, 2003 02:27 PM
Hi Wave!I have some thoughts, but no time to type them! I will try tomorrow! Thank you for your patience.  IP: Logged |
Wave
Knowflake Posts: 99
From: Barcelona, Spain
Registered: Apr 2002
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posted April 10, 2003 04:29 AM
no problem I'll wait!IP: Logged |
Ra
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posted April 10, 2003 01:06 PM
This dream seems to indicate anxiety (danger) due to the emergence of unconscious material (lake). There is a purpose for this happening (something important to do), although you may not be consciously aware of it.This unconscious material threatens (crocodiles) to disturb something in your awareness concerning this situation (boat on dangerous lake). The situation has something to do with patriarchal-type values or your relationship/dynamic with your father. I can only ask questions: Is there anything about your father or your relationship with him that concerns you? Is there a disciplinary, structural, protective, or responsibility issue in your life that is causing you anxiety? Whatever the case, the dream indicates that this fear or concern stems from a lack of conscious awareness about the purpose of the situation - a natural thing! - and although there may be a brief period of emotional emersion (falls in lake), the outcome inevitably will not cause you (or your father) any harm. Does any of this strike a chord? If not, we will try again!  IP: Logged |
Wave
Knowflake Posts: 99
From: Barcelona, Spain
Registered: Apr 2002
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posted April 14, 2003 05:24 AM
"Is there a disciplinary, structural, protective, or responsibility issue in your life that is causing you anxiety?"
Definetely protection is the main cause of anxiety in my life. Some time ago my psychiatrist asked me to think about what do I look for in men. What am I looking for in my relationships? Protection I guess. In my previous relation I had lots of that. Is not that he was very self-assured, but he was compassive, tender and protective. I could play my child role, wich I'm very confortable with. But now I miss this. As I give a lot, I'm as well very demanding, and my current boyfriend doesn't have this natural tendence to look after people.
It's been one year and a half since we broke up, I'm taking pills and trying to take my mind off, but I still suffer this lack with great anxiety.
Thaks very much,
Love
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Ra
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posted April 14, 2003 01:31 PM
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