posted April 28, 2003 11:35 AM
Hello sVirgo The first dream has many possibilities. All I can do to begin with is ask questions. Some of these questions will be obvious, and most of them will not apply at all, so keep in mind that I am not making any suggestions - yet. And you certainly do not have to answer any of them here, just in your mind. You choose which are relevant, if any.
How long has your father been gone?
How old were you when this happened?
Was there any abuse in your past that you are aware of? (not necessarily by your father)
What was your father's attitude in the dream - was he mean, forceful, matter-of-fact, sad, pleading, or unemotional?
Were there any inheritance issues due to his passing?
Do you feel that you are being taken advantage of in some way?
Do you feel trapped in some way?
Are you angry or scared about something?
Are you having intimacy/relationship or job problems?
Do ANY of these questions seem relevant?!
The dream has a general theme of sucess of some sort (gold coins) but seemingly with conditions of some kind that you are very uncomfortable with - perhaps moral or ethical in nature.
I truly have no idea about this dream and hope we can figure it out!
The second dream seems to relate to something you need, some sort of nurturance or something basic to life (buy milk). In order to receive this necessity however, you must open your ears and listen to the guidance (inner or outer) that will "enlighten" you.
Do you think these dreams are connected in some way? Perhaps you are in need of security (coins/wealth/milk)? Do you feel that you are not being heard, or that you are not understanding something and therefore trapped in some way? (wax/bolted door)
Let us know if any of this makes a bit of sense.