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Topic: These Dreams?
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blueyes_j_99
Knowflake Posts: 5
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Registered: Nov 2003
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posted November 13, 2003 09:42 AM
 
I have been having these dreams. I get A short glimpse of somthing. Usally a person. They are very emotional. Recently they have been happening in real life. The person I dreamed about will be in the room and they will be feeling the same emotion I felt in my dream. It is Usally the feeling of fear or extreame sadness. It makes me affraid to dream. So I have not been getting much sleep. Can anyone give me some advice on how to deal with this?IP: Logged |
FishKitten
Knowflake Posts: 374
From: beautiful, hidden mountain village, BC, Canada
Registered: Aug 2003
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posted November 13, 2003 05:06 PM
Welcome to Lindaland, Blueyes. Please don't be afraid. Precognitive dreams happen sometimes. For me, they are sometimes just flashes like you describe and sometimes much more detailed. Either way, deraming about an occurance doesn't mean that you control it. Your dreams don't make the events happen that sadden your friends. You obviously care very much about the people around you. Perhaps your subconscious is just trying to give you the heads-up that your special kind of caring will be needed. I'm no expert on dream, so maybe someone else will have something to add. In the meantime...may you sleep in peace tonight.IP: Logged |
Ra
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Registered: Apr 2001
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posted November 14, 2003 04:37 AM
Nothing more true could be said ...Welcome Blueyes.  Your post feels so sad. Why exactly does it make you afraid to dream? It could be that your higher consciousness is showing you how these people are really feeling inside for some reason. Do you feel there is any reason for you to know what another person may be feeling at times? Do you need to be more sensitive to others in some way? Or are you overly sensitive in waking life? How long has this been going on?  IP: Logged |
blueyes_j_99
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Registered: Nov 2003
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posted November 14, 2003 09:38 AM
I have been having these for a few weeks now. I love to help people and to not be able to makes me feel extremely sad. They are all people I care about and it hurts me to see them hurting. I am not sleeping well because I am scared to dream about somthing bad. I don't feel that it would be my fault if the dream came true but I would feel helpless. I would want nothing more than to stop something bad from happening but if I could not control it I think I would blame myself. Even though I know its not my fault. Thanks so my for the advice!IP: Logged |
Ra
Moderator Posts: 2641
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Registered: Apr 2001
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posted November 15, 2003 04:22 AM
That seems like a perfectly natural reaction to me.  But that does not make it any easier, does it. I understand what you are saying, it must be difficult, but there is surely a reason. I cannot really give any meaningful advice on how to go about things, as this is a very individual issue, but I would at least recommend reading something about precognitive dreaming or psychic dreaming - you may find some meaningful help in that area. (do a google search! ) In the mean time, you can at least suggest to yourself, just before you go to sleep, that you do not wish to dream these dreams, at least for the time being. At the same time, though, it is probably not a good idea to ignore it for too long. ... I really do not know ... Has anything "bad" happened yet? Perhaps nothing will. Perhaps this is a purely emotional correlation.  Let us know how things are going!  IP: Logged |
blueyes_j_99
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Registered: Nov 2003
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posted November 18, 2003 02:39 PM
Nothing bad has happend yet and for the last few days I have not ben able to remember any of my dreams. I will deffinently look for books. Maybe I'll find one that will help me undrestand this better.
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Ra
Moderator Posts: 2641
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Registered: Apr 2001
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posted November 19, 2003 04:49 AM
I will look and see if I can find some material in my books that would be pertinent. If I do, I will give you the title. IP: Logged |
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