posted February 04, 2004 12:49 AM         

I will have a look as soon as I get a chance.

posted February 07, 2004 04:42 AM         

The second thought is just as you have said, a future man in your life. Whoever it is, the dream suggests that he is "the new game in town", and someone you have not yet met (never seen the new game).

The dream does have the feel of the "future man" possibility. I dreamt of my wife several months before we met, and new her the first time I saw her. There is definately a certain powerful feeling about this sort of dream ... and they do sometimes happen!

posted February 10, 2004 01:26 PM         

i get the gut feeling he is someone i will meet...i just try not to look too hard for fear of not finding him, yet all the while remaining constantly open to the possibility. does that make sense? almost like i don't want to be searching so hard i look right past him accidentally....but i worry too much. it's funny, but there are times i am deep in thought and his image will pop up in my mind and i will be overwhelmed with love and wish he was right next to me so we could experience things together. then an inner voice gently whispers - it is not time yet, and you are enough in yourself, and you are already together in a sense and will physically find each other soon. then i giggle at myself that i am so wrapped up in a dream image of someone i have never "met".

wow, that is wonderful that you met your wife that way. now that i know someone else out there has experienced this i feel less squirrely and even more hopeful. i mean, i hadn't given up on hope anyway, never do. but there aren't exactly alot of people who i feel take me seriously when i tell them about this dream.

posted February 11, 2004 01:55 PM         

In my dream (and it was a most incredible dream!), my wife was there in front of me, but her facial features were either blurred, or I could not remember them. I took this to mean that this was a woman I had not yet met, I did not know her - yet. And that was precisely the reason. The moment I saw her, the entire dream, and all of it's intense emotions, came flooding back. Her face filled in my memory, and my inner voice said, "she is the one."

And so she is.

posted February 12, 2004 02:50 AM         

A few years ago I had three dreams that felt linked together, about two months apart.

Dream one was black and white, and I was dancing and laughing with a tall, dark-haired guy, his face was blurred. I felt like we were just getting to know each other.

Dream two, we got engaged. (I didn't see him, but knew it was the same guy). This dream was also in black and white, and I was in hallway at the bottom of some stairs, the type where you go up one flight, turn around on a little landing and walk up another flight. There was a tall window at that landing, letting the evening sun stream in, and I felt a lot of exitement... I think I'd just run upstairs to tell somebody my news.

Dream three, in colour, we had been married for two years. I'm standing next to this dark-haired guy (he's sitting on the edge of a bed or something), and I have my arm around his shoulders. We're in a bedroom that looks like it hasn't been decorated in years, and it's winter. I got the impression it was like the end of christmas vacation, either something had happened, or we were just wanting to get back to our own routines, because I felt tired and a bit sad, so this one didn't have the same heady sense that the other two had, but I felt as I was dreaming that it was linked to the other two dreams.

My mother insists I'm going to marry a blonde, quiet, easy-going guy ~ she gets these little intuitive nudges of her own, and that doesn't sound at all bad to me. Those dreams just stuck with me though.

posted February 12, 2004 04:29 AM         

Thank you for sharing your experience. I suppose one just never knows until it happens.

posted February 21, 2004 12:00 AM         

thank you Ra for yet again answering my q's and being such a beacon of light!

ok, so since that dream....these green eyed boys keep popping up out of nowhere! and they give me these looks, but i know it's not the guy from my dream....although the guy who served me my sub sandwich the other day nearly had me choking with giddy embarassment.... we have flirted for awhile now on and off when i go to his shop, innocent and friendly like, but these last two times i have gone he gives me free stuff, and this last time, he gave me this look where his eyes blazed so green like in my dream....i think it's just a reminder that he's out there...already the facial features are distorted and irrelevant in my mind....i am just nervous i will overlook him, but then again, how could i? it's just gotta be my darn libra rising getting me to romantically project the possibility of this 'dream guy' into every green eyed boy i meet and have the slightest connection with. oh, and nothing against librans by the way, its just when coupled with an indecisive pisces sun and quite a few impulsive aries planets, i gotta keep my impulsive and wishy washy libido, as well as my idealism glasses in check!!