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posted September 28, 2004 01:08 AM         

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I know this guy for a year and a half... and we liked each other and seeing each other from time to time... We didn’t get into relationship because his ex was still calling him so he thought it would be better if he tries once again with her. Anyway we still hear from each other but we are pretty cold towards each other... I had a dream about him. I was in a place that I really didn’t like and I was talking to a person that in my dream I knew. Suddenly HE came and he was really angry with me... It was like we were together... I asked him what was wrong he didn’t answer me... he just disappeared... anyway, the last time I spoke to him in reality I told him I dreamt about him last night. He was really shocked and told me that he also dreamt about me. He said in his dream we were talking for ages and he asked me to go somewhere and I didn't want to and then he really got angry (he said "like I would be angry with my girlfriend"). And then he woke up. I was just wondering, what does all that mean? We dreamt about each other the same night and the dreams were a bit similar. I asked him was he angry with me or anything in reality he said that there would be no reason for that... that just freaked me out and I’m asking you if you could tell me is this telling me or him something? Is this god's working? I just don’t know and I would like to know what u think... Thank you

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posted September 28, 2004 01:34 AM         

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Welcome!

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posted September 28, 2004 01:37 AM         

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Could it be that you and him are both worried if you guys get together it will end up the same problems as he is having with his X/gf?

maybe these are just both your fears, and you are very in-tune with one another.

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posted September 28, 2004 09:35 AM         

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he's not really having any problems with his girlfriend... the latest time with talked he told me taht he's pretty happy with her... he also said that he misses talking and laughing with me but it doesnt say that he doesnt have any feelings for her... i think that he does have pretty strong feeling towards her...

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every morning a gazelle wakes up. it knows it will have to run faster than the fastest lion or the lion will kill it. every morning a lion wakes up. it knows it will have to run faster than the slowest gazelle or it will starve to death. no matter if you are a gazzele or a lion, keep running! -essence of survivor-

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posted September 28, 2004 10:59 AM         

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Hey! For 2 years I would have this same dream about a man who would walked up to me in a dark room, he would have a red rose in his hand, and his face was always in a mask. All I knew was he had soft hands and he was very tall. Two years later I meet a man who was 6'3" tall, who was in a band, and he had the darkest glow about me. When I was standing there I was so attracted to him. It was a little scary. Three weeks later I was at a different club. I didn't know he was going to be there. I was sitting at a table. And this lady came up and give me a RED ROSE. Sounds so crazy, HUH! When he came up to me, he touched my face and told me, the red rose was from him. BUT it was the touch that made me lose my mine. It was him I was dreaming about. And it was him that was in the mask. I believe the reason I could see him in my dreams, is because it wasn't my time to have him. And now we have been together for 6 1/2 years and very in-love. CRAZY HUH! I believe dreams are an eye opener. There is something going on between you and him. But ya'll need to find yourselves FIRST!

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posted September 28, 2004 11:23 AM         

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i still like this person, and i think about him almost every day.. not almost but definetely! he doesnt know that... when we were seeing each other his ex started calling him so he made a pause and then made his decisioin.. he was actually chosing one of us to be with him... i understand that he chose her because he was already with her and knew her more... but why did we continue talking to each other and why this dream? what should i do? i dont know.. im just very confused...

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every morning a gazelle wakes up. it knows it will have to run faster than the fastest lion or the lion will kill it. every morning a lion wakes up. it knows it will have to run faster than the slowest gazelle or it will starve to death. no matter if you are a gazzele or a lion, keep running! -essence of survivor-

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posted September 28, 2004 02:25 PM         

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Greycat, I believe you need to step back and try the let it go and see if he comes back, kind-of-thing. Do you get what I'm trying to say? Try to remember more of your dream!

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posted September 28, 2004 02:47 PM         

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no i dont really understand... i let it go when he made his decision... i even told him 'if it's meant to be, let it be'.. but he's the one that first calls... he's not aware of taht i still like him... i remember his eyes in my dream taht while i was talking to that person he came and i told him id idnt really like the place he looked at me and then i saw the eyes asking me "why are u doing this to me?" ... i could see them so clear... im just wondering why did we dream each other the same night and why the similar dreams... we didnt talk for about a week before the dream... Thank you all so much

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every morning a gazelle wakes up. it knows it will have to run faster than the fastest lion or the lion will kill it. every morning a lion wakes up. it knows it will have to run faster than the slowest gazelle or it will starve to death. no matter if you are a gazzele or a lion, keep running! -essence of survivor-

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posted September 29, 2004 03:37 AM         

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Hello graycat

These things do happen on occasion, but I could not tell you why. There are, no doubt, many possible reasons. What do you feel you should do?

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posted September 29, 2004 09:07 AM         

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I don't know anymore... I was angry with him at the start then came missing.. and then i just forgot and moved on... then i got few calls from him.. and the dreams... and the dreams are the reason im going through everything in my head... and i came to the conclusion that i am very confused !

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every morning a gazelle wakes up. it knows it will have to run faster than the fastest lion or the lion will kill it. every morning a lion wakes up. it knows it will have to run faster than the slowest gazelle or it will starve to death. no matter if you are a gazzele or a lion, keep running! -essence of survivor-

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posted October 22, 2004 11:25 AM         

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It maybe sounds silly of me, but i still can't get over that dream... I really can't get it out of my mind... I heard from the guy few days ago (on my birthday) and the next day he told me that he had a dream again. However, he didn't tell me what the dream was about. He only told me that he keeps on dreaming about me and he's very confused. Also, that he misses me and sometimes he thinks that he's scared if the things don't work out with us, he wouldn't get his girfriend back. i told him it's a bit immature that he says something like that and that he's so indecisive. He asked me to go for a coffee then and on that night when we were supposed to he sent me a message saying that he believes that our meeting would just complicate the things. He believes that his girfriend is a right person for him only because she is older than me, his age. I'm five years younger. He was pretty sure about it. So, i decided to forget about everything and moved on, also, didn't hear anything from him. However, few nights ago i had adream about him that he was dying. I found the best doctor and told him to do everything that he can but the Doctor said there's no chance he would survive. The doctor was Richard Gere (i read a book that the main character was Harrison Ford in a movie, a previos day) and i started crying. It was so dark and empty, and it was in a contry where i was born. My mom was sick too in the dream. But the Doctor said she was alright. My mom in reality doesn't have any problems with health. I remember talking to my mom telling me how it's so good that i found this Doctor and i remember a window! in the house where i live now. And also the blinds.. There was like a wind. I looked out of the window and it was a dark, windy, rainy day. I was crying in my dream and then suddenly my best friend came and i told her that he was dying and she was scared and then, in my mind there was a cup of coffee and i didn't know what was going on. ( my friend and i look into the coffee cup for fun and once ( three, four weeks ago) she said that one person is leaving someone for good and also that the another person is sad but it was all in that other person's head. I don't really belive in that kid of stuff, we only read the coffee when we really don't anything smarter to do or for fun. But when she told me taht i thought "oh taht could be me and the guy! (i know it sounds silly)) And then in the dream I told her " It's all in my head, my imagination!!! This is not real! I'm sad and he's leaving me... This is all in my head!" I don't really know what that meant... did that mean he was leaving me in my imagination or did i know that i was dreaming??? She was asking me "What do you mean???" But i still had the cup of coffee in front of my eyes, like the pictures in it but i couldn't see them properly. i'm not sure if i was still dreaming or if i was awake. I woke up almost crying! The whole day was pretty upseting, couldn't have stopped thinking about it. Whenever i hear the word dream i feel like my hair is raising! Everywhere i turn i see a poster with some sentence but there always has to be a word "dream". Can anyone please tell me what the dream could be about? and what's going on? please...

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every morning a gazelle wakes up. it knows it will have to run faster than the fastest lion or the lion will kill it. every morning a lion wakes up. it knows it will have to run faster than the slowest gazelle or it will starve to death. no matter if you are a gazzele or a lion, keep running! -essence of survivor-

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posted October 22, 2004 12:52 PM         

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Hello greycat

You are hurting. I am sorry. Your dream seems to be saying that this guy is gone (dying). There does seem to be some connection between the two of you, but it does not look very promising that anything more will come of it ... at least that is what your subconscious is saying. I know there is a lot of emotion wrapped up in this, so cry as much as you need, but carry on. If you continue to wait on this guy to make up his mind, you may miss another opportunity.

I wish there was more I could do.

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