posted December 01, 2004 01:49 PM
My favorite dream dictionary says this about some of the symbols in the dream!Restaurant ~ opening up to new concepts, sharing food for thought, or giving your mental sustenance to others.
Father ~ Depicts authority, responsibility, discipline, maybe punishment, leader, man of the house - also any qualities you associate with fathers in general or your father in particular.
Friends ~ Usually denote a quality aspect, characteristic, trait, habit, problem, or hang-up of your friend which you have not yet noticed but need to recognize. Could be a trait in *yourself* you need to recognize. Because they are adult friends this implies a full-grown, full-blown habit, quality, or characteristic in us, like it or not.
Four ~ Four corners of the earth, physical, worldly, material matters, doing things in a material manner, doing things the hard way, hard work.
Now how does all of this piece together (if it does at all?). Well you had four friends there at the restaurant. This seems to suggest a material aspect of yourself. Your physical worldly self. You were already frustrated at that point and told them (yourself) not to bother waiting for their (your) sustenance.
Maybe you are frustrated right now with material and money issues and feel like you want to give up?
If I stick to that idea then your father in the dream could represent a boss/authority figure. You were waiting for sustenance with him first but it never came.. prompting you to convince yourself that it never would.