posted December 14, 2004 04:31 AM         

Last week, I dreamt I was running away from/trying to catch a serial murderer, who was killing all kinds of kids. My husband was involved in some way, but I don't remember if it was good or bad. I don't remember anything else other than that.

Thinking about my dream last night, I'm positive that it in some way ties into what I dreamt, though the subject is very different.

I dreamt that I was having a bbq/or some kind of get-together at home, lots and lots of people, LOTS of dishes lol And then my husband tells me he has a new wife, and she's at this party (young, blond, red lips, dumb lol). And I'm kinda mad, but not too worried, and then (only I can see this), are these huge saw blades (like in Mario from Super Nintendo, anyone remember those??), and they saw the floor of the house in two halves, but no one notices, and there is only a hairline visible. I go out on the street and take my son with me, hold his shoulders and explain that I have to find a new house and a new job, and that it might take a while. Until then he has to stay with his dad, and then he can decide who he wants to live with.

While we're outside the house comes crashing down, but even in the dream I'm not sure if I'm just imagining (hoping?!) that that happens, or if it really is like that. I was also very smug about the fact that I left them with all those dishes to do lol

I have a really good, solid relationship with my cappy husband. When I told him about the dream this morning, all he was interested in was what the new wife looked like LOL. He also chuckled that I gave him an extra long kiss goodbye today lol

Anyone have any idea what THAT could be all about? I'm really sure that both dreams are related!

posted December 14, 2004 04:42 AM         

And you say you have a good, solid relationship with your husband? No concerns? Hmmmm ... I'll have to think about it a bit.

Anyone have any thoughts/feelings about this dream?

posted December 14, 2004 04:57 AM         

Also, my son has been half-diagnosed (by his teacher!) as having ADD, which I don't believe is the case, but we need to get the testing done etc. This stresses me out, as well.

Otherwise life is good, I have no complaints.

Thanks, Ra!

posted December 15, 2004 04:13 AM         

Hallo, Nackie. Viel Spannung!

Yes, these dreams reflect the stress you feel about these situations.

The first dream reflects stress/anxiety you are feeling (running from murderer), very likely concerning your son and the 'ADD' situation. It could be suggested that your husband seems kind of passive about the situation, or perhaps not as concerned about it as you are.

You are right, the second dream is similar in meaning to the first with the addition of employment stresses.

There is a lot going on in your life at the moment (lots of people at home), and although your relationship is good, it is suggested that your husband's attention is on other issues (new wife). It is also suggested that you may be emotionally worn out when it comes to certain aspects of life (LOTS of dishes) ** probably refering to 'ADD' and job issues**.

It is suggested that there is an issue/situation that you and your husband are "divided" upon (floor of house cut in half), yet it is also suggested that he may not be aware of the extent of your feelings on the matter (no one notices). It could be more of a difference of opinion, or that this issue is more on your mind than his ... and it may be that you yourself do not consider it consciously as anything serious ... but your subconscious mind does.

Employment stresses/anxieties are certainly on your mind (telling son about new house/job etc), and you very much desire to get rid of these stresses ('hoping' house crashed, etc).

Keep in mind that we are dealing with subconscious energies here, so the symbols can amplify the actual way you feel on a conscious level, to get the message through ... regardless of outward appearances, it is suggested that deep within there are things stirring, and I feel like your subconscious is telling you to be aware and communicate with your husband even more as these stresses possibly increase.

What do you think?

posted December 16, 2004 04:12 AM         

Ra, I think you are absolutely right. I was thinking about it all yesterday (I didn't write back because I first wanted to think through what you said), and I do believe that I have too much going on at the moment. As a gemini, I tend to toss things off as "not so important", at least that is what I project. But these things get burned into my brain and I think and worry about them and try to find ways to fix them. Because of that, my husband thinks I can take care of so many things easily, and tends to not worry about most things (except job security--he's a cappy lol), knowing that I will take care of it. It is absolutely draining, but it's my own fault.

I think that maybe the sawing of the floor represents that I keep myself away from being able to enjoy life (the party), but that I project a different image (no one sees the saw blades). I'm going through the final stages (god I hope at least it's the final stage!!) of my saturn return, maybe this is a message that I don't always have to be the strong one. Or that I feel I have to be the strong one? Cause when I leave the house, it falls apart? LOLOL

I think you are right about the new wife being something my husband is focusing on, because in the dream it irritated me but didn't really worry me. I didn't feel crushed or lost or anything, just aggravated lol. He totally concentrates on his work, has no more hobbies and barely any time left for the family. He's a marketing manager and has a fun job (well, lots of stress, but lots of bonuses, too, like travel, meeting cool people etc), maybe that's why the "pretty, dumb blonde"?

So, sorry if that was all TMI, I think best out loud!

Thanks so much, Ra!