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Topic: My boyfriend cheated on me
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LeoSweetHeart Knowflake Posts: 92 From: San Diego, CA USA Registered: Nov 2004
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posted December 15, 2004 04:17 PM
I had a really bad dream a few nights ago..I dreamt he went away (prob to Bolivia where he's from and going soon) and met a girl and started seeing her a lot and slept with her. Somehow I knew, alot of people did and when I talked to him about it, he didn't deny it and seemed rather casual I wasn't as upset as I shouldn've been either though..hmm. Oh yea and and he told me the girl's name was Etes pronounces -eats  The in a seperate dream that seemed to tie into this one, a guy alternating between him and a stranger who looked like him really liked my best friend but was supposed to be with me..so I starting like this blond guy named Chris (don't ask how I knew his name) because he was really into me.These were both pretty lucid dreams with some detail, like knowing names..but I don't know if they are supposed to predict something or if the are echoing my insecurities, maybe both?? I used to be really jealous with him because he would stare like hypnotized at a lot of girls (he's Latin American) and I'd have these sorts of dreams all the time. But now that were getting past that and I'm trusting him more, this is the first dream I've had like that in a while. Could he really be cheating on me? Sometimes he is soooo mysterious and it seems his mind is completely elsewhere, so its hard to read him. He's a Virgo Sun with Cancer Moon and Asc. Ahhh! Does anyone have any ideas? I'd really appreciate your help, thanks  Monica IP: Logged |
LeoSweetHeart Knowflake Posts: 92 From: San Diego, CA USA Registered: Nov 2004
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posted December 15, 2004 04:21 PM
I must add, I don't know anyone by the names I mentioned and neither does he?? Also I really have been feeling secure with him lately, like that phase is pretty much over, so I wonder why am I having this dream now?IP: Logged |
NeoKitty Knowflake Posts: 118 From: Heaven Registered: Dec 2004
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posted December 15, 2004 06:44 PM
They're the dreams you don't want to come true!  I didn't mean to put a grin face- its brain fart. I'm not sure what Ra would say, but are you worried he's going away? How long is he going for?? Hmmm, I'm not sure what it could mean. But I sympathize.
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LeoSweetHeart Knowflake Posts: 92 From: San Diego, CA USA Registered: Nov 2004
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posted December 15, 2004 09:47 PM
Thanks Neo Kitty Yea it may be that I'm just worried in the back of my mind that he's leaving, its for a month for winter break. I think I will just assume that, because man when I start jumping to conclusions, I can have a pretty wild imagination! I don't want to worry excessively again like I did before because then it makes matters a thousand times worse, esp when its all in my head. If anyone has any other input that would great, but for now I will just keep that dream filed away, maybe for future use..I'm good at remembering those things we I need them..blessing and curse hehe. Thanks again Neo Kitty  Monica IP: Logged |
NeoKitty Knowflake Posts: 118 From: Heaven Registered: Dec 2004
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posted December 15, 2004 10:40 PM
No worries, im sure Ra will give you a bit more of an insight.  IP: Logged |
Ra Moderator Posts: 3416 From: Registered: Apr 2001
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posted December 16, 2004 03:20 AM
Hello Monica  Hello NeoKitty  Actually, I think you guys pretty much have it figured out. It's a stress related dream, about him going away. Your mind is just blowing off steam.  Have a great holiday ladies!  IP: Logged |
LeoSweetHeart Knowflake Posts: 92 From: San Diego, CA USA Registered: Nov 2004
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posted December 16, 2004 04:15 AM
Thanks for confirming for me Ra, I feel much better now yay Neo Kitty we figured it out (or you did) by oursleves! BTW Ra I was reading the string about your story and I can't wait to hear the rest either IP: Logged |