posted December 25, 2004 03:08 AM         

However I know this dream has an important message for me and I need help interpreting it.

In my waking life I have a friend in England who I feel is very dear to me. I was a highschool student in this dream, it was the day before the first day of school and in the dream I had just met my friend (even though IRL ive known him for 2 years) He told me that he was 38 and still in high school. So I went to school the next day, took my seat, and he was in my class. I thought it was odd that he was in my class since I remembered him telling me that he lived in England. Well my friend only had to go to school for a half a day for some reason so I never got a chance to speak to him in class although I really really wanted to. Well one day a photography company came in our class and told us that they had chosen our class to act out a fake wedding scene so they could take pics and use them to advertise their company.
Well, I got picked to be the bride and my friend got picked to be the groom. I was ecstatic, finally I would be able to get close enough to talk to him. Well, I never did get to speak with him. Even standing next to him at the fake alter, I didnt get to speak to, or touch him. I was so dissapointed. I remember that some of the colors in my "wedding dress" stood out. I was wearing a cream colored, almost yellow dress with a gold sash and orange flowers, possibly marigolds in my hair.

posted December 28, 2004 04:20 AM         

I hesitate to respond because there is something I'm missing, and so I'm not sure that my thoughts are accurate. The message I see is somehow both "good" and "bad" ... but I am not sure how to connect the two, which means that I am not seeing something fundamental, which means my initial thoughts about the "bad" could be backwards (which would be good ). Well, I'll give you what I have and you decide ...

This dream definately reflects the relationship you have with this friend - close yet distant. It could also be suggested that he is somehow "behind" developmentally (38 and in highschool) in relation to your perspective and position, and that you may only be getting "half the story" (he is in school half a day) concerning him. It could be suggested that you desire more contact, more association, and perhaps more balance (wedding) regarding this friendship, but that there could be something false or fake about it, something you may not be aware of.

So the thing is, there is a lesson in this, it is a learning experience of some kind (school) and you will either soon become aware of these things which will lead into some sort of transformation of thought (yellow/gold/orange flowers in hair), or you will find that what you thought was genuine, precious, natural, and illuminating in this friendship was really just for show.

Again, I could be wrong about the symbols around your friend, in which case the dream would suggest that even though you cannot communicate with him as you wish, there could be some sort of transformation or awareness about the friendship soon to come.

I suppose time will tell. I hope for the positive, of course.

What do you think?

posted December 28, 2004 02:08 PM         

It could be true that a lot of what I know about him is fake. I know he tries hard to keep the negative aspects of himself from me because one of my other friends used to talk to him also and he certaintly didnt keep her from seeing his hot temper but he tried really really hard to keep that away from me for some reason.

I havent spoken to him for 2 months and Im really worried so that explains perfectly the fact that I am unable to talk to him but really want to. My spirit guide kept saying "he is so close to you but you cant talk to him" which tells me that there is still something going on, perhaps even though I cant communicate with him physically our souls are still communicating with eachother.

posted December 29, 2004 04:18 AM         

Thank you for sharing your dream.

posted March 29, 2005 01:55 AM         

So that night I had a dream that I was in highschool and my best friend and I were heading to English class. When we got there, the only other person in the classroom was my friend Paul (the guy from the last dream) and so I sat next to him and my friend Roxie sat in front of him. However just like the last dream, I wanted to talk to him so bad but I couldnt. So I figured I would wait until after class. Well after class was over, he ran out of the classroom so fast it wasnt even funny. I walked the hallways a bit but couldnt find him.

Then I woke up *sigh*