posted December 30, 2004 04:20 AM
Hello sweetlibra 
I'm not a big fan of Freud either. Why did you alienate yourself from your father?
In the most positive sense, these dreams could reflect your attitudes towards sex as instilled in you by your parents (morality, etc) or it could reflect a desire to break free from your childhood "programing" in this area and possible guilt about doing so.
Any way you look at it, there is a sort of subconscious conflict taking place here, and this confliction manifests in your conscious life as attitudes, emotions, and automatic reactions to certain situations. The question is, what is causing the conflict?
Any of this make sense?