posted January 13, 2005 04:27 AM         

I'll definately give this some more thought, but I do have a few initial impressions. There could be suggestions concerning issues of trust, and perhaps something false or illusory about a situation/relationship. I do not know if these are real circumstances, or if they are your fears of what could happen ... or both. Make any sense? What do you think?

posted January 13, 2005 04:33 AM         

lol (he came up again in a another thread tonight)

Sounds like your thoughts were along the same lines as mine.

What do you think greycat?

posted January 13, 2005 04:42 AM         

Knowing me, I will end up tracking down and buying that picture. It's really weird.

... off to bed, goodnight 26T. Oh, thank you for your thoughts!

posted January 13, 2005 04:45 AM         

Night Ra. Sleep well.

posted January 18, 2005 01:20 PM         

There are plenty of things the dream could be telling you, the question is, what do you feel it is?

Basically, we can look at the dream three ways ... it could be soley a reflection of your desires and your fears, or it could be a warning, or it could be a combination of both.

There is definately a reflection of your concerns, but I also see what could be a warning from your subconscious. It could be that you are seeing signs that may indicate possible trouble in the relationship, but you want it to work so badly that you are not paying attention to them. If I had the time, I would give some of the symbolic examples ... and still will if you need me to. Be careful, greycat.

posted January 22, 2005 03:10 AM         

I'll try to briefly outline some of the things that could indicate some sort of confliction.

First of all, the snow and cold could reflect something about the energy of the relationship, and it could be suggested that you have well protected yourself against it subconsciously (heavy coat), perhaps too well (you get hot). Could this mean that you are ignoring something? Could emotions suconsciously be building up within you because of it?

"I told him "I' not gonna sit there, there's too much snow". He said "What are you talking about, there's no snow here", I touched the "snow" and it was like touching a soft toy but still i was thinking "It is snow!!!" "

Something about the relationship is not what it seems. I am not sure exactly what or why, but there is friction. Or it could simply be communication problems.

" Then he was playing with his mobile phone and i sat very close to him ... He smiled at me and it wasn't his lips. It was him, but somehow his mouth seemed different and i didn't like it."

Could be another suggestion of communication issues of some kind, which is not so bad, or it could suggest that his attention is not completely on you, and that maybe he is telling you something that is not completely true.

"... a very light place but somehow it was dark. Like all the light came from teh snow."

Illusion? What you see is a reflection, and not the true light? Just a thought.

"I saw a door to the exit and it was a TOTAL dark there."

Are you afraid to "exit"?

"
Then i looked at him again (my man) and he was smiling but couldn't see his face, still playing with the phone and i felt his leg around my neck. "

I don't know what that means, but it feels odd. Maybe you not seeing something about him?

I dunno, now that I've put it down on paper, so to speak, it doesn't really feel quite as "bad" as I first made it out in my mind. There is some sort of confliction there, but I can't tell if it is between the two of you, or if it is mostly internal. Many of the symbols can be interpreted in a favourable light, so I am just not sure what to think in the final analysis.

Take your time and trust your heart. I hope I have not confused you further. (I confused myself!)

posted January 31, 2005 12:42 PM         

I'm back, and I'm on it.

posted February 04, 2005 04:52 AM         

You mentioned that you had other dreams about him that were 'nice' ... I would love to hear one of those if you don't mind, but if you do mind, I understand. I would just like to see the other side of the coin, because the ones you post here are the 'not-so-nice' ones, and more of the picture may help. Could you?

posted February 08, 2005 03:28 PM         

You are so patient, thank you.

Okay, these last two dreams seem to be very similar to the 'Snow' dream.

There is confusion ... we are arguing but smiling...I'm confused ... I couldn't understand ... I was confused.

There is a lack of, or problem with, communication ... They were looking at me, talking and laughing and i had a feeling they were joking about me ... we didn't really argue because he was drunk ... Then we were "physical contacts" but I didn't enjoy it ... I was trying to ask him what's going on and to stop him but i would just see him smiling and saying words i couldn't understand ... i was trying to call him...but it was cutting of.

There are suggestions that something is not as it appears ... dirty undies are suddenly clean (still not quite sure about that scene) ... joking about you in a separate room ... drunk (escape reality) ... who knows how he's being like ... some woman dressed like me, looking similar and some guy, built like him, same smile, dressed almost like a clown ... that's not me, and that's not him ... The light was coming only from the tv (illusion).

There are emotions ... waiting for him nervously ... She was sad, I could feel it ... she was crying ... she was really red ... I woke up and actually screamed ... family was upset ... behave like crazy ... mom was kind of sad.

It could be suggested that there is something hidden/secret or that you are not consciously aware of ... dreams are set in the night ... ...also not to tell anyone she asked ... Somewhere behind me...i didn't see her but i kind of knew ('behind' can indicate 'hidden') ... "dirty undies" can represent secret, negative feelings ... She was looking at us but kind of hiding her face.

And there are other things suggested by the dream ... you are either in the midst of some sort of transition, or you are avoiding some aspect of the situation (walking on bridge). Although refering to others in the dream, I think it is suggested that your guy is controlling how you perceive the relationship (her boyfriend was driving her car).

Sometimes seeing something on tv within a dream is a way that the subconscious shows us things about ourselves or situations that are too difficult to see directly. So, it could be suggested that what others see, you do not.

These types of dreams could reflect either your anxieties/concerns about the situation, or problems that you may not be recognizing, just like the 'Snow' dream.

Whatever the case, it is good that you are thinking about these dreams, because there is at least something going on within you.