posted February 15, 2005 08:56 PM         

This happened in reality that she was on date with a guy from her neighbour and her hidden love affair got disclosed and both boy and gal got beating from family.
As I am from India so this is still going on that love affairs are not successful.

Now comes the latest dream, I saw that she got married to that boy(same boy) on her own after opposing her family and even boy too opposed his family.

But then we could not see her and one day I saw in my dream that her cat came to our house and cat is hungry as my niece did not feed her that day.
Then suddenly I saw that their are lots of people at boy's house. As we are not allowed in their house and then I heard that somebody died in their house.

Then I saw they are taking my niece body and they killed her and showed it as it is natural death.
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I need here help what should I do as I am too worried about my niece. I just came back in Dec after my visit from India and tried my best to get agreed both the families but the situation has turned worst. Neither of the families are ready. My niece told me that everybody can go to hell as she is in love with that boy and she just want to marry him.

posted February 16, 2005 04:34 AM         

Well, if you fear the dream to be precognitive, then there is really only one thing you can do, call her and tell her about your dream, and about the one seven years ago. Tell her again your concern, and tell her to be very careful. What else can you do? Just telling her your dream could make a difference, not that she will change her mind, but that at least she will have your warning in her mind.

I would tend to think the death/killing is symbolic, though. I think the dream reflects your concern/anxiety over the issue, and your fear that if your niece decides to go on with it, she will end up in a bad situation.

posted April 15, 2007 12:55 PM         

Because I need help on this new dream, but the above dream can help to anaylze my new dream.

The above dream also happened, and my niece had to face a shameful act from her boy friend's family(though they didn't kill her physically but they killed her emotionally). They threw her from their home that they would not accept her(lot of fights happened) and my sister finally found another boy for her and now she is happily married to another boy.
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Please take your time to analyze as I feel there is still time.
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Now I am again worried about another dream which is about my sister, for my niece Mom.

Everytime I talk to her, I am scared of my dream.

I saw this dream in episode. I saw that there is a funeral in our family. All our relatives are coming and they are offering their condolences to me and hugging me. The house I saw where funeral was going on, was my parent's house where we all brother-sister grew up.

In every dream, I saw more and more family members(my other brothers, their wives, my Mom) are there except my sister, and I was trying to anaylse why that relative came, he/she would not come until one of my brother-sister would die.

Then I saw the funeral ritual was done by one of my eldest aunt, again that was scary because I could feel that she will only perform this ritual when one of us(I or my brother-sister) would die.

Then finally one day I saw my sister and I came back from market. And she went to restroom and she didn't come back. I checked in restroom and she was tied with rope(I am sorry to say that in my Indian funeral, we tie dead body with rope on a wooden bed). I started crying madly. I requested my father(who is already dead), that please save her. and my Dad said I am sorry, I can do nothing. I am angry with my Dad showing me his helplessness. Then I approached my Mom, and she said Sorry too, that she can not help to get her back. Some people are taking her. Again during our funeral process, we carry that wooden bed towards cremation place. I kept crying and crying. Please someone get her back.
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This dream is worrying me, I can not share this dream with my family members. Everytime I talk to my sister, and I say to myself that give her love till the time she is there. It is tough for me to talk to my sister as this dream comes in between while I am talking to her. Can I do anything.

posted April 19, 2007 12:44 AM         

I will get back to you just as soon as I can.

posted April 24, 2007 01:13 PM         

Obviously, a funeral can represent an ending or change to an issue/situation, or fear of loss, so let us consider this first. We should ask ...

Do you see some kind of ending or change within the family?

Is your sister changing or ending something in her life?

Are you feeling particularly separated from your family/sister?

Do you feel as if you are losing your connection with them/her?

This dream could be a reflection of self ...

What aspects of self, if any, are like your sister? Is this part of you ending or changing?

What part of yourself are you releasing?

If none of this seems to fit, if none of this strikes a chord within you, then all I can suggest is to talk to your sister. You don't have to be specific, just tell her that you had a dream which disturbed you, and that you love her and simply want her to be careful.

What else can be done? Say your peace, say a prayer, let go, and let God.