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Topic: Same person in dreams everynight!
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Irish Eyes
Knowflake Posts: 443
From: PA,USA
Registered: Apr 2004
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posted April 17, 2005 01:02 PM
 
For the past 6 months I have been dreaming of the same person...he ususally doesn't say anything, he just looks at me or smiles at me.I do know this person but have not seen him in almost 5 years. We started e-mailing each other 3 months ago but even that is not very frequent...I hear from him once every 7-14 days. I was just wondering if anyone else has had this experience...I have to admit that I have dreamed of him on and off for the past 5 years but never with this type of frequency. Any idea? -Irish IP: Logged |
Ra
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posted April 19, 2005 03:57 AM
Hello Irish  Well, could it indicate that something about him is coming "closer"? I'm not really sure how to interpret that symbolically. How do you feel about it? What do you think?  IP: Logged |
greycat
Knowflake Posts: 132
From: Australia
Registered: Sep 2004
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posted April 19, 2005 05:53 AM
I'm with a man as a result of having repeated strange dreams about him.The dreams I had were very compelling and would not leave me alone. It could be a soulmate situation. hehe 
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Irish Eyes
Knowflake Posts: 443
From: PA,USA
Registered: Apr 2004
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posted April 19, 2005 09:26 AM
RA-I honestly wish I knew what you meant by "closer". We have gotten our friendship back...although it is not as strong as before...he lives in another country...
This is the same guy who is in the basement with me in the mummified baby dream. greycat-
If that's the case....nuff said! Thanks...love to you,
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fayte.m
Knowflake Posts: 5816
From: ~out looking for Schrodinger's cat~
Registered: Mar 2005
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posted April 19, 2005 10:15 AM
Dreams can be telepathic or one can dream share with another when the timing is right.
I am not close to my family. I had not heard hide nor hair from or about my father in about a year or more. I was taking a nap and saw a surgery room. The next thing I know is he's standing by me and saying to me, " It's bad Fayzee,am I dying?" I said no Dad, you'll be find, rest and let them work. The man on the table was my Dad having open heart surgery, while he also stood next to me. About another year later I ran into him and asked, "what happened to you last July?
The dream was right on the mark.IP: Logged |
Ra
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posted April 19, 2005 02:40 PM
I am not sure exactly what 'closer' means either. Maybe you have just been thinking of him more, so you dream about him more. But it feels like your "increase in frequency" means something a bit more than that. It could be mental, spiritual, physical, emotional ... I don't know. Whatever it is, it is affecting you. Even if this is entirely one-sided, meaning all about you, there is still something going on within your subconscious, some sort of stirring, as your other dream suggests. I suppose time will tell. IP: Logged |
Irish Eyes
Knowflake Posts: 443
From: PA,USA
Registered: Apr 2004
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posted April 20, 2005 10:58 PM
Thank you all.  greycat-
I would love to hear your story! It would help me to have some sort of base to base these dreams off of...there are always dreams of this guy, more than I want to admit too! faye.m-
What a great story! I have had these types of things happen to me too. I just hate the strange looks that I get.. Ra-
Thanks again for your help. I have a feeling that this is far from over. When I have another question I will be asking for help again...hope you don't mind  Love to you all,
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greycat
Knowflake Posts: 132
From: Australia
Registered: Sep 2004
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posted April 21, 2005 02:42 AM
Hello
I'll do it quickly because I have to hit the road soon:
Him and I met accidentally because some of my friend's friends knew him, and i didn't really like him at the start. I was also seeing a guy but it was nothing serious, it was just a beginning. HE had a girlfriend as well. But we kept bumping into each other and became friends. However, I moved further away and didn't see him at all after that BUT started talking over the phone. We would hear from each other maybe twice a week. My relationship with the guy i was seeing ended. That's when i started dreaming about HIM. It was really weird because I wasn't sure why he was always doing something in my dreams. He and his girlfriend broke up and over few months we were speaking to each other a lot more. So... a bit later we decided to go catch up for a coffee. It wasn't a date but when i saw him I somehow liked him... because of his personality and then knowing that I kept on dreaming about him i thought "maybe it's a fate?". And few weeks later he said to me that maybe we should give it a try, we've known each other for about a year or even more... But a month or two after his girlfriend called him and stuff, so he got back together with her!! And i kept on dreaming about him! there was no hurt feelings. I mean of course i cared but i just had to deal with it and we weren't in a relationship for a very long time so yeah... what really annoyed me was the fact that i had those dreams. They were all sorts of dreams. I got sick of it. I was really exhausted! Then one day he actually told me taht he doesn't know what to do, he seems to be thinking about me too much, maybe he made a mistake blah blah blah. Where i just told him "I dreamt about you last night" and then he told me that he did as well. We both freaked out because those dreams somehow linked. Anyway, we saw each other few times again and kept in contact, soon after he broke up with his ex because "the relationship wasn't going anywhere when one person thinks of someone third". This whole thing with me and him lasted about two years. So... since November him and I are happily together. We somehow know each other inside out... He told me that he also had some weird dreams about me even when he didn't know me that well. I still dream about him often but not as much as before and they are not as nice.... So, who knows what's the new day bringing...
Thanks for letting me share, hope it can help somehow...
Take care.
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Ra
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posted April 21, 2005 03:57 AM
It helps me a great deal, greycat.  I don't think I have heard that story before ... kind of puts another light on things, about your dreams. Thank you for sharing that.  IP: Logged |
greycat
Knowflake Posts: 132
From: Australia
Registered: Sep 2004
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posted April 21, 2005 04:25 AM
I'm very glad 
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Ra
Moderator Posts: 1330
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posted April 21, 2005 04:35 AM
Me too IP: Logged |
Irish Eyes
Knowflake Posts: 443
From: PA,USA
Registered: Apr 2004
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posted April 21, 2005 10:47 AM
greycat-My heart is thumping a mile a minute...your story is beautiful and has filled me with emotions that I didn't know I had....this guy and I are like that too. He e-mailed me on Monday (I hadn't heard from him in over a week) and he was telling me about the crazy weekend he had..he went home from a club with some girls, then he was with another girl the next night...and then he had visitation with the daught the next day...told me that he would just have to see where the relationship with the new girl will go...
Then he said that he would talk to me soon and is still planning on seeing me once he comes back to the States...I know he thinks about me...otherwise he wouldn't be writing... THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU!
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sue g
Knowflake Posts: 6603
From: former land of the leprechaun
Registered: Sep 2004
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posted April 21, 2005 11:06 AM
Hi Irish, sixteen years or so ago I had a similar dream. The first time the dream came, he had no face, just dressed in black, long hair, cool looking, then I had the same dream for a few nights, until eventually the guys face appeared.............it was a younger man I worked with and it completely freaked me out. To cut a long story short, he was dreaming about me too and we have now been together for sixteen years,married for over seven and have a six year old son..............isnt life something? xIP: Logged |
Irish Eyes
Knowflake Posts: 443
From: PA,USA
Registered: Apr 2004
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posted April 21, 2005 12:52 PM
sue-
Thanks for your story...it seems that the universe is pointing me in his direction and him in mine...
Has your relationship been a good one? Do the two of you talk about how special your coming together was?Don't mean to get too personal... Love to you,
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fayte.m
Knowflake Posts: 5816
From: ~out looking for Schrodinger's cat~
Registered: Mar 2005
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posted April 21, 2005 01:25 PM
Irish Eyes....It's nice to know someone else who dreams like that. But yeah, folks look at us weird and some think we are imagining it. Well I document my strangest dreams in case they come true. I give a friend the sealed dream and when it comes true they open it.
PS. I am from PA too. IP: Logged |
Irish Eyes
Knowflake Posts: 443
From: PA,USA
Registered: Apr 2004
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posted April 21, 2005 11:15 PM
faye-
What part of PA? I am not from here...I live here now. I was raised in Missouri and have been moving around the country since I got married to a man in military.IP: Logged |
greycat
Knowflake Posts: 132
From: Australia
Registered: Sep 2004
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posted April 21, 2005 11:30 PM
Yeah, he obviously does think of you. I believe it's just not the right time for you two now for some reason. Patience.... and it when starts to spark you'll know it's the time 
Take care
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Irish Eyes
Knowflake Posts: 443
From: PA,USA
Registered: Apr 2004
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posted April 22, 2005 10:17 AM
Thanks greycat....maybe it has something to do with him living across the Alantic from me...lol. I did talk to him yesterday on the phone...a friend of his has set him up on a date and he likes the girl...after talking to him I realized that he wasn't real sure if he wants to be with her. I believe that his ex has hurt him deeply and this girl will be his rebound relationship...Not to worry, I too have my own life and when we are ready for each other then it will be...even if it is in another lifetime. Love to you,
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Randall
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From: Columbus, GA USA
Registered: Nov 2000
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posted April 23, 2005 08:50 AM
Wow. ------------------
"There is no use trying," said Alice; "one can't believe impossible things." "I dare say you haven't had much practice," said the Queen. "When I was your age, I always did it for half an hour a day. Why, sometimes I've believed as many as six impossible things before breakfast." Lewis Carroll IP: Logged |
sue g
Knowflake Posts: 6603
From: former land of the leprechaun
Registered: Sep 2004
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posted April 25, 2005 09:32 AM
Hi Irish, of course youre not being personal. The relationship has lasted for 16 years and for the most part has been wonderful - he was the one that helped me on my path, helped me to free up my fear and brought out the real me. He always trusted me and gives me loadsa freedom. Since we had our son, it has been difficult, the pressure on us as parents has been great, but still we continue to support and challenge the other, the love never went away, but of course the attention was shifted to our son, an amazing human being!!! We have just come thro a very difficult patch but survived. I cannot every see us apart, but then again, who knows. Yes we still talk about how we were brought together and how awesome it was!! Good luck with your man, may you find the one xxxxIP: Logged |
Irish Eyes
Knowflake Posts: 443
From: PA,USA
Registered: Apr 2004
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posted April 25, 2005 04:38 PM
sue-Thank you for sharing...I have hope. He told me on the phone that he wished that he could just hop in his car and drive over like he did when we lived in the same city. He misses me as much as I miss him. We have talked about the distance but neither one of us is in a postition to up and leave the country...we both have children. It's funny how that ocean keeps getting smaller...lol. Thank you again for your time...you are an angel! Love to you,
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