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Yang Knowflake Posts: 802 From: Somewhere over the Clouds Registered: May 2004	posted May 24, 2005 02:27 PM Hi guys What does it mean when the same person appears in your dream time to time? I have separate dreams where this same person appears in each one. It has been going on for quite a while now. I know this person who appears, in real life. He is a friend. I dreamt of him the other night. In my dream, I was in this building and I realised my friend ( the one I mentioned above) was in the same building. so I started to look for him. I looked and looked and looked. Couldn't find him at all. I knew he was there or at the very least, I could feel his presence in my dream. I physically didn't see him in my dream.But I knew he was there. IP: Logged
SparklingSag Knowflake Posts: 280 From: Kent Registered: Nov 2003	posted May 24, 2005 03:55 PM I have the same situation...the same guy is always in my dreams...I know him in real life too but i haven't seen him for a couple of months. IP: Logged
fayte.m Knowflake Posts: 1021 From: ohio Registered: Mar 2005	posted May 24, 2005 10:19 PM Yang! Is it the same fellow you mentioned on other threads? IP: Logged
Yang Knowflake Posts: 802 From: Somewhere over the Clouds Registered: May 2004	posted May 25, 2005 07:01 AM Yes he is ( not the scorpio one but the aquarius one) Why? IP: Logged
fayte.m Knowflake Posts: 1021 From: ohio Registered: Mar 2005	posted May 25, 2005 12:47 PM Yang! I must have missed the Aquarian one posts...I read the ones about your mysterious friend. Could you tell me where to find the ones about this one? Seems to me that there are soul connections here. Something within you is causing a draw towards this person on a deeper and subconcious level. I would love to hear more. You said;Quote: I physically didn't see him in my dream.But I knew he was there. To my way of seeing things..that is very significant! Our eyes can often decieve us, even in dreamings. Very interesting! You "felt/sensed" his presence, and knew it to be him! IP: Logged
Ra Moderator Posts: 4095 From: Registered: Apr 2001	posted May 26, 2005 03:32 AM Hello Yang It could be something just like what Fayte was alluding to, in your case, and there are other possibilities as well, in a more general sense. When someone appears over and over it is likely that there is some unresolved tie with that person, often on a subconscious level ... could be an emotional tie, or mental, spiritual, physical, etc. And it needn't be anything of a major scope, it could be something relatively minor, just something unresolved within you about or associated with the other. There is something there, and often it is suppressed or unacknowledged ... hence, the dreaming of it. From a more personal perspective, I usually consider the karmic possibilities as well. Seems there is often something to it. IP: Logged
Yang Knowflake Posts: 802 From: Somewhere over the Clouds Registered: May 2004	posted May 26, 2005 04:55 AM fayte Now you are really asking me to dig up my old threads of him. I have mentioned him a few times long before I mentioned my scorpio friend. Don't have the time to dig up. Anyway here is a brief sypnosis of him: I met him through college last year as he was one of my lecturers. I could see something in him that I could not explain. As time went on he personally told me things which I don't think he has told anyone else. If he has, maybe not to the extent he has to me. He has helped me tremendously in the past with work and personal stuff. ( he is the one I talked to about my depression I mentioned in my depression thread. Ring any bells?) I think he can see something in me too. He is my mentor, inspiration, someone I look up to. I am certain that we had a past life together. Not a day goes by when I don't think of him. Hope that helps? IP: Logged
sue g Knowflake Posts: 968 From: ireland Registered: Sep 2004	posted May 26, 2005 06:58 AM Hi Yang, I felt emotional when I read your posts cos this is how I feel about the Libra guy I write of. I also from time to time dream of him, but sometimes only get to see the back of his head or hear his voice - there is a very strong connection between us, which I am trying to work on. It sounds to me that your friend is "familiar" to you. Do you see something in him that maybe you have inside of you that needs to be healed or brought out? Is he a mirror for you as well as a mentor? Isnt it great we can come here and get answers to our questions - love and light Sue xxx IP: Logged
fayte.m Knowflake Posts: 1021 From: ohio Registered: Mar 2005	posted May 26, 2005 08:22 AM Ra! Sue g! Very profound replies! Yang! It does sound like this is a very soul deep friendship and that it appears he may well think of you the same. If he is as close as you indicate, then perhaps you could ask if he has ever had a dream with you in it. He might become uneasy if you just say,"do you ever dream of me?" That might sound too romantic to his ears. But then again, you seem to know him well, do you think such a question would intrigue him or make him only feel uncomfortable? Have you ever brought the past life/lives issue up with him? Would he be interested in that? Are you close like brothers or is he just a good friend, or a mentor whom you admire? If you were to tell him of your feelings and how you cannot stop thinking about him, would he be happy that you feel this way about him? I guess I am trying to figure out if he feels as close to you as you do to him. One sided, or unequal feelings can make one feel unrequited, even if it is only the desire for a close friendship bond and not romance. IP: Logged
Yang Knowflake Posts: 802 From: Somewhere over the Clouds Registered: May 2004	posted May 27, 2005 07:29 AM Guys you don't know how much I want to tell him what I think of him, but I am too s#^* scare to do it. I am scared of his reaction. The worse thing I could imagine is him ending the friendship which I cannot afford to happen. I have come to the realisation that I miss him when he is not around, even though I could easily phone and chat to him and he lives about 15-25 minutes away from where I live. I had another dream last night with him in it and I physically saw him too. But it is worrying me. In it I was sitting in a class with a friend busy doing something. Two new student girls joined the class and he introduced himself to them. (he was teaching at that time). BUT he gave a false name to them. He said " Hi I am (insert name)" I said to my friend that that wasn't his real name. She just shrugged her shoulders. Today it is worrying me as I cannot stop thinking if he has lied to me about himself or if he has something to tell me but isn't willing to tell me . Perhaps he has the same feelings for me? IP: Logged
fayte.m Knowflake Posts: 1021 From: ohio Registered: Mar 2005	posted May 27, 2005 09:26 AM Yang....I am not sure. I think you should maybe hold off spilling out how you feel to him. Do you think it is you or him who is afraid? And if it is just friendship and not a physical/passionate you are concerned about the possibility of..... then what is there to be afraid of? Do you not trust him on some level...or not trust yourself? The shrugging girl could mean some friends or people think you worry too much. But what is in it for them? Does the attention he gave to the girls bother you or not matter? Also he lied to the GIRLS, not directly to you. Are you afraid if you tell him, he might think you are gay? Or are you afraid he might be? Hold off until you feel the time is right, and you have figured out what it is you "actually" fear. This just seems to me to perhaps be a deeper issue than you can or wish to say. IP: Logged
Yang Knowflake Posts: 802 From: Somewhere over the Clouds Registered: May 2004	posted May 28, 2005 01:28 PM The fact that he lied to the girls for no apparent reason bugs me- don't give a s*^% about the girls. IP: Logged
fayte.m Knowflake Posts: 1021 From: ohio Registered: Mar 2005	posted May 29, 2005 09:17 AM Yang... He only lied to the girls in your dream...has he ever lied.... that you have ever witnessed, in actual life? IP: Logged
pixelpixie Moderator Posts: 335 From: Ontario Canada Registered: May 2005	posted May 29, 2005 11:19 AM hmmmmm.. If this is your mentor, and you are thinking of appraching him and telling him in real life, thats a very insecurity provoking feeling. Naturally, you want to know if he is really someone you can trust, and someone who isn't flippant about such important things. If he is misrepresenting himself, and not seeing it as a big thing, it is an indication of natural anxiety about approaching him. Sometimes it is hard to walk on a ledge. But you can do it. IP: Logged
fayte.m Knowflake Posts: 1021 From: ohio Registered: Mar 2005	posted May 29, 2005 02:45 PM Pixie! I agree! You said;Quote: Sometimes it is hard to walk on a ledge. But you can do it. It can be hard, but I think you and I both know that it is often the only logical way. IP: Logged
pixelpixie Moderator Posts: 335 From: Ontario Canada Registered: May 2005	posted May 29, 2005 03:16 PM well... I am mostly familiar with the illogical way. IP: Logged
fayte.m Knowflake Posts: 1021 From: ohio Registered: Mar 2005	posted May 29, 2005 07:05 PM Sometimes what appears to be the illogical way is in truth the logical way. In our world of chaos and confusion, conflict and emotions, often one must meet fire with fire or rush in where angels fear to tread. Or sit back in shy terror or apathetic complacency and let things happen or not. I would choose action and chance error rather than inaction. But then again I am in the habit of daring the universe and demanding answers from God. Yang...you must follow your heart and see what comes of your revealing or do nothing and come what may. Waiting or taking it slow may be an option, sounding him out a little at a time. I wish I knew more, so I could help, but this senses to be a decision only you can truly make. IP: Logged
Yang Knowflake Posts: 802 From: Somewhere over the Clouds Registered: May 2004	posted May 30, 2005 04:21 PM Pixelpixie what do you mean by quote: very insecurity provoking feeling ? Don't quite follow that. I have thought about this( even though it pains me to sometimes) alot and the conclusion I have come up with is this: I will wait until the time is right to tell him and not before. But inevatibly there are problems. What if i don't recognise the time? Or, even worse, what if he dies before me and I never had the chance to tell him? IP: Logged
Yang Knowflake Posts: 802 From: Somewhere over the Clouds Registered: May 2004	posted May 30, 2005 04:23 PM fayte do you really want to know more? Please let me know. IP: Logged
fayte.m Knowflake Posts: 1021 From: ohio Registered: Mar 2005	posted May 30, 2005 04:45 PM Yang...Yes! I am a very good secret keeper. If there is anything you would like to talk about, but can not or do not feel comfortable posting it here at LL, then let me know. I do not know wether I can help, but I can listen and at least be a safe ear for you to speak to. Fayte IP: Logged
pixelpixie Moderator Posts: 335 From: Ontario Canada Registered: May 2005	posted May 30, 2005 05:23 PM It provokes insecurity within you.... Putting it on the line, your important personal thoughts..... it's a lot like having a lover, and falling in love with that lover... your feelings are taut, and to admit them, takes them beyond the safety of your thoughts and propells them into the air, for him to hear and share his own thoughts with... It becomes less an internal knowing and comfort, and becomes this thing in the air between you.... and it is real and raw.. could possibly hurt you....... fling back at you, it is that important! That invokes insecurity, wouldn't you think? All the 'doubting' thoughts, the 'I'm not worthy' thoughts, become the first ones you see instead of just a nagging presence somewhere in the background... That is why admitting things is so daunting.. up until that point, they are only yours. Like I said... Platforms are for walking on..... have fun with the process..... IP: Logged
Yang Knowflake Posts: 802 From: Somewhere over the Clouds Registered: May 2004	posted May 31, 2005 02:42 AM Pixelpixie Thank you I understand better now! Fayte Thank you to you too. I do want to talk to you. I will ask Randall for your email. IP: Logged
fayte.m Knowflake Posts: 1021 From: ohio Registered: Mar 2005	posted May 31, 2005 03:57 PM YANG! IP: Logged

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