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posted August 05, 2005 05:07 PM         

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this is the weirdest dream i had a dream and my mom also and it fits almost like we had the same dream with ppl that had the same roles pls this has to have a meaning when she saw me she said that she had an upsetting dream and so my dream was like this i dreamed of the mafia again and there was this huge wedding and i was a baby and my mom worked for the mafia and i was so scared but i didnt feel anything i just knew what was going on around me and then she hid me from everyone and she wrapped me up in a cloth or something and then i remember thinking that how could my mother take this risk of leading them to me so i might get killed and i thought its was so out of her nature and then i remember looking at this group of men dressed in black and they called this one friend and then they showed something to my mom and there was a cliff where at the bottom the ocean and they killed someone and he fell into the water and then they killed the friend ok now listen to my moms dream i cant believe this she dreamed that she had a baby and that when she got the baby when the doctor said she would she looked at it and it was a very beautiful baby and she just wanted to protect it and hide it from everyone cause the baby was so beautiful and then she wrapped her up and hid her in the day and at night shed go and feed the baby and then she was so scared that the baby would make a noise or something but the baby was very like calm but didnt have any feeling and she took the baby and when she unwrapped it the baby was me and she was like but its hezer and she also couldnt understand why she did what she did it was out of her nature pls guys its scarry i dont understand this why would my mother also dream it

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posted August 06, 2005 02:54 AM         

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Wow, Hezer, that is really peculiar. Sounds like there is something between the two of you that is trying to work itself out. Now, Hezer, this may be too personal, and if it is just say so, but how was your relationship with your mother when you were younger? What kind of mother was she? Good? Not the greatest? How are things currently? The same? Better?

Did you tell your mother about your dream?

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posted August 06, 2005 07:21 AM         

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in the first 3 years of my life there was only me and i was like the center of attention then my brother and her depression came and i barely knew her but the communication is bad according to me cause i talk alot shes not responsive more judgemental i guess im too deep into psychology but we r different when it comes to that and i basically tell her everything that i know she can handle but i tend to be dark lately shes been concerned about me ive always been scared of losing her and always especially lately felt that i need affection from her but any how i just need to figure out this dream really bad it doesnt really bother me its just crazy

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posted August 09, 2005 04:12 AM         

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Hmmm ... interesting, they do seem very connected. Taken together, these dreams seem to be saying that the way your mother treated you as a child was not intentional. From your perspective, everything was not always so good, but through your mother's eyes things were different, she did what she thought was necessary at the time for your best interest. But her dream also suggests that something got twisted, that somehow perhaps her fears were misplaced and she didn't realize the difficulty it was causing you, Hezer.

That's pretty much what I get from the dreams. Does that make any sense to you?

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