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Topic: Dreamed of death and reconcilation...
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Mama Mia
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Registered: Jun 2005
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posted August 09, 2005 11:20 AM
 
Hello this is my first time posting here and I should have long time ago. I had a dream that my Aunt died my favorite aunt at that. The thing is she was not sick or anything I just found out she died and I was so broken hearted..This past Sunday we were out at a Jazz Fest here in Chicago and my aunt was there and her guy friend. They somehow ended up in this argument. She was so upset she came and found me she was crying I felt really bad for her, cause this guy is a trip and she really needs to let him go (to young for her) Anyway last nights dream may have had something to do with that.. The reconciliation comes when I found out that my aunt died I called my Ex-whom I still care for and told him and he actually talked to me. Since we split our friendship ended too. I had been trying to be his friend but he would not speak to me when we would see each other and I have sent him a few text he nevr responded,but this time he seemed to be ok. He talked to me b4 I even told him that my aunt had passed..and lately I had been feeling like if I called him not texted him called him he would be ok and not shut me down, I just haven't and I may not...Weird isn't it??? IP: Logged |
Ra
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Registered: Jun 2005
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posted August 10, 2005 04:31 AM
Welcome, Mama Mia  I'll get right back to you very soon. Very interesting dream and stuff.  IP: Logged |
Ra
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posted August 11, 2005 04:11 AM
Yes, maybe your dream of your aunt dying is a reflection of the experience at Jazz Fest, and perhaps a premonition - or wish fulfillment - as to the ending of (dying) that relationship. It also seems that your dream consciousness has associated your aunt's relationship with you and your ex's - maybe there are some similarities in some way? Or there could/will be?How long have you been split from the ex? You ended it? Do you want to remain friends, or more?
Make any sense?
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Mama Mia
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posted August 11, 2005 09:48 AM
Hi Ra, Well me and my ex have been split since January of this year..It was a really weird situation. He ended it but I knew that he still had feelings for me and I still felt him thinking about me thats weird too.Anyway I said somethings to him that I did not mean I said those things out of hurt and disappointment but obviosuly it hurt him more then I thought it would..So he stopped speaking to me all together I tried to rectify things but he was acting like he did not want to hear it. We both continued to go to the same gym and we saw each other but it ws like being in a freezer or something. But somehow I knew that was a cover up for his hurt feelings I knew he still cared for me. If we reconcile our friendship I would be ok,if more happens that would be ok with me too. I think how my aunt got into this is bc they were working together and even though things were strange between us they remained cool.. IP: Logged |
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